Ndizokwanira kuti mukumverera kusakaniza maganizo pamaso pa tsiku laukwati wanu, koma kungakhalenso kovuta. Pali zinthu zambiri zokhudzana ndi zovuta, ndipo mwachibadwa ndimadabwa ndi mndandanda wa DJ kapena mtundu wa operekera zovala. Komabe, zinthu zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kwaukwati wapadera kapena wosazolowereka. Mwachitsanzo, pali maukwati osagwirizana nawo monga kukhala osakwatirana kapena kukwatira nokha, ndipo pali mgwirizano wovuta kwambiri monga kukwatirana ndi wina yemwe banja lanu silikuthandizira kapena kukwatiwa ndi munthu amene panopa akukhala m'ndende.
Momwe Mungakwatire Mkaidi
Malamulo oti akwatire mkaidi adzasiyana kuchokera m'ndende kupita kundende. Komabe, mabungwe ambiri amafunika pempho lokwatirana laukwati kuti apeze chilolezo chokwatira mkaidiyo. Kuti mukwaniritse izi, khalani ndi chibwenzi chanu kuti mupange chilolezo chakumangidwa cha phukusi la ukwati. Mafomuwa atamaliza ndi inu nonse, muyenera kubwezeretsanso ku ndendeyo ndi malipiro opempha. Izi zimayenda pakati pa $ 150 mpaka $ 175 pafupipafupi ndipo kawirikawiri zimayenera kutumizidwa kudzera mwa ndalama.
Palinso zikalata zovomerezeka zomwe muyenera kukhala nazo kuti mutsimikizire kuti ndinu a msinkhu walamulo wokwatira kapena kuti ndinu nzika m'dziko limene mukufuna kukwatira. Mabungwe ena adzafunanso kuti mupereke chikalata chobadwira kapena chizindikiritso china
Chenjerani
Nthawi zambiri, kukwatiwa ndi munthu wina m'ndendemo kumakhumudwitsidwa. Choncho, tikulimbikitsidwa kulankhula ndi ena omwe ali ndi akaidi okwatirana, kuti muzindikire momwe zingakhalire zovuta kwa inu nthawi yaitali.
Izi zidzakuthandizani kuzindikira kuti, pamene mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu atulutsidwa kundende, awiri a inu muyenera kusintha kusintha kwakukulu kwa moyo wanu.
Tsoka ilo, pali chiwopsezo chotsutsa chaukwati. Mu 1996, bungwe la Aleph Institute linapeza kuti maanja amene anali ndi mwamuna mmodzi yemwe adakhala m'ndende kwa chaka chimodzi kapena kuposerapo adasudzula 85 peresenti ya nthawiyo.
Kumatanthauzanso kuti kukwatira kwa mkaidi kumaphatikizapo kudumphira kumalo ambirimbiri a malamulo komanso mwinamwake mukukumana ndi mavuto.
Kukonzekera Ukwati
Kuti musonkhanitse ukwati, mufunikira kugwira ntchito ndi Woyang'anira Wokonzera Banja. Ichi chidzakhala chiyanjano chanu chokonzekera ukwatiwo kamodzi kokha mwalandira kulandira wokwatiwa. Ndiye, iwe udzasankha wogwira ntchito. Gulu lanu likhoza kukupatsani mndandanda wa abusa ovomerezeka kuti asankhe. Khalani okonzekera malipiro awo komanso momwe mungawalipire pa mwambowu, womwe umakhala mwachikhalidwe ndi ndalama.
Mufunanso umboni wa ukwatiwo. Ingobweretsani mlendo yemwe ali mndandanda wa alendo omwe akuvomerezedwa ndi azimayi anu. Mwinanso, mungagwiritse ntchito mmodzi mwa akaidi omwe amagwira ntchito kumalo ochezera. Potsirizira pake, mufunikira chikalata chokwatira chikwati chomwe chidzafunikiranso ndalama. Malingana ndi malamulo a chipinda cha ndende, mukhoza kuloledwa kukhala limodzi pokhapokha mwambo wa zithunzi zaukwati ukutsagana ndi ulendo waufupi ndi wapadera.