Zomwe Muyenera Kuchita ndi Zomwe Mungamenyane Nawo Mu Mikangano Yanu Yogulitsa Maukwati
Chinthu chimodzi chomwe sichisangalatsa kwambiri kukonzekera kukwatirana ndizovomerezeka ndi zachuma. Kuyika pachithunzi chachikulu ndikugwirizanitsa gulu la anthu kumakupangitsani kukhala ndi udindo wa kukhala bwino kwa alendo anu komanso omwe angathe kuchitapo kanthu ngati pali ngozi iliyonse.
Palinso zoopsa pakulemba ndi kugwira ntchito ndi ogulitsa - bwanji ngati sakupereka zomwe adalonjeza kapena zoipitsitsa, bwanji ngati sakusonyeza? Ichi ndi chifukwa chake mapepala ndi ofunikira kwambiri pakudza malo anu ndi ogulitsa ukwati.
Pokhapokha ngati inu muli loya, usiku mungamvetse chigamulo chonse chalamulo chomwe chili mu mgwirizano wogulitsa. Pali zinthu zina zomwe muyenera kuyang'ana kuti muteteze nokha alendo.
Christie Asselin ndi woweruza ndi woyambitsa Wachikwama Wanu wa Ukwati, yemwe amathandiza maanja ndi machitidwe achikwati mofanana amapanga mgwirizano womwe uli woyenera ndi kuteteza maphwando onsewo. Christie anapereka mowolowa manja kuti amvetsetse pang'ono zomwe mbendera zina zofiira zikhoza kukhala monga mwa mapangano ndi zinthu zomwe akwatibwi ayenera kuziyang'anira! Onani malangizo ake pansipa:
Kodi Mitundu Yina Yofiira Imayang'aniridwa Bwanji mu Mkangano Wogulitsa Ukwati?
- Malinga ndi mgwirizano, maanja ayenera kuyang'anitsitsa malonda osadziwika bwino komanso osakanikirana. Chigwirizanocho chiyenera kukhala chodziwikiratu kuti zomwe akufunazi zikugwirizana. Mwachitsanzo, akulangizidwa kuti musamalowe malo osadziwa bwino kumene ukwati wanu udzakhala pamsonkhanopo ndi kukhala ndi chiganizo chosonyeza zimenezo. Pakati pa mizere yomweyi, akulangizidwa kuti musamuyese maluwa popanda kudziwa ndendende zomwe maluwa anu adzawonekere. Anthu okwatirana ayenera kudziwa patsogolo momwe malembawo alili, onetsetsani kuti akuphatikizidwa mu mgwirizano, ndiyeno muwalembe.
- Mabanja ayenera kuyang'anitsitsa pazinthu zomwe sizikutchula tsiku limene wogulitsa adzachita. Mwachitsanzo, onetsetsani kuti mgwirizano wa zojambula zithunzi umatchula ndendende pokhapokha ngati mankhwalawa atatha. Palibe amene amayembekezera kudikirira chaka (kapena kupitirira) kwa zithunzi zaukwati.
- Anthu okwatirana ayenera kutsata matumbo awo ponena za kugulitsa ogulitsa. Ngati wogulitsa sali pa khalidwe lake labwino asanatengedwe, tangolingalirani zomwe adzakhale ngati kugulitsa kwachitika! Onani Yelp, BBB, ndi malo ena ogwiritsira ntchito. Zowonjezera nthawi zonse ndi zabwino, koma ngati sizingatheke, okwatirana ayenera kufunsa wogulitsa awo kuti awone. Ndipo, okwatirana nthawi zonse ayenera kukumana ndi wogulitsa musanakonzekere.
- Zigawo zotsutsa ndizofunikira, ndi gawo lofunikira la malonda. Koma, okwatirana ayenera kutsimikiza kuti akumvetsa ndimezi asanayambe kusaina.
Kupempha Malemba kapena Zowonjezerapo Zophatikiza
Kodi pali chilichonse chimene akwatibwi ayenera kupempha kuwonjezeredwa kuzinthu zomwe zingadziteteze, kapena magulu onse omwe maanja ayenera kukhala nawo nthawi zonse?
- Izi zidzadalira paukwati ndi masomphenya a banjali . Chigwirizanocho chiyenera kukhala chowonekera pa zomwe zili zofunika kwa iwo, ndipo zogwirizana nazo zikhale ndi mgwirizano. Mwachitsanzo, ngati banjali limagwirizanitsa mgwirizano wa ukwati ndipo akufuna nkhunda 13 (osati 11, ndi 12) zitatulutsidwa pamene zikuyenda pamsewu, ziyenera kukhala mu mgwirizano.
- Kapena, ngati wokonzekera ukwati akuvomerezana kukonzekera "zonse zogwiritsira ntchito" za mwambowo, banjali liyenera kufunsa mwachidule ndondomeko zomwe zikutanthawuza ndikukhala ndi maudindo omwe atchulidwa mu mgwirizano. Mwachitsanzo, kodi wotsogolera adzakhala ndi udindo woyang'anira kukhazikitsidwa ndi kusweka? Kodi ali ndi udindo wopanga zonsezi? Mawu akuti "zonse zogwiritsira ntchito" ndi zosavuta komanso zosapindulitsa popanda kufotokoza momveka bwino. Banja likhoza kukhala ndi lingaliro losiyana la zomwe "zida zonse" zimatanthauza kuposa wotsogolera, kotero ndizofunika kufotokozera mfundo zimenezo kuti zitsimikizidwe zikuyembekezeredwa.