Kodi nsagwada yanu ikugwetsa pamene mukuwona khama ndi ndalama zomwe mabanja ena amapereka ku maphwando a ana awo a kubadwa? Mmalo modzipangitsa ife kukhala openga kukhala ndi zokongoletsera zokongola ndikukakoka mkate woopsa, mwinamwake ana athu angafune kuti ife tizingoyenda pang'onopang'ono ndikukhala ndi nthawi yochuluka kwambiri ndi iwo pamene masiku awo okumbukira akuyandikira.
Ngati mukufunafuna njira zochepetsera, malangizo awa adzakuthandizani kukonzekera phwando lokondweretsa, losangalatsa ndi losakwera la phwando la mwana wanu.
- Pezani kukula kwa mndandanda wa alendo. Imeneyi ndiyo njira yofulumira kwambiri yothetsera bajeti. Mabanja ena amatsatira lamulo ili: mwana akhoza kuitanira bwenzi limodzi ngakhale ali ndi zaka zambiri mwana wakubadwa akuyang'ana (alendo asanu pa tsiku lachisanu, tsiku).
- Bika lanu losavuta tsiku la kubadwa keke m'malo molamulirako zovuta kuchokera ku bakate. Mutha kuzikongoletsa ndi zokongola zokongola komanso zokometsera, kapena kuwonjezera kamba kosavuta kamene kakugwirizana ndi mutu wanu. Nchifukwa chiyani ali ndi "chirengedwe" chodabwitsa, "cholengedwa" chodetsa nkhawa ngati ana angodya?
- Koma bwino, kuphika keke ndikukhala ndi mwana wa kubadwa kapena abale ake azikongoletsa. Izi zikhoza kukhala mwambo wabwino wa tsiku la kubadwa kwa banja lanu.
- Gwiritsani ntchito mabuloni ambiri. Sikuti zokongoletsera zokhazokha, koma zimagwiritsidwanso ntchito kusewera masewera a phwando kapena kutumiza kunyumba monga zokondweretsa.
- Mukhozanso kupatsa aliyense mlendo chikho chimodzi, chisanu ndi zokometsera ndikupanga mchere wokongoletsa phwando.
- Lembani zikwama za goodie kwathunthu kapena kukhala ndi mwana wakubadwa kuti apange phwando, mwinamwake kulumikiza mikanda pamodzi kuti apange makolo, kusonkhanitsa kitsulo zamatabwa kapena makina opangira magetsi kuchokera mu mipukutu yopanda kanthu yopanda pa Khrisimasi.
- Kapena perekani zokondweretsa koma musankhe zina zomwe zimakhalapo nthawi yaitali kuposa zitsulo zochokera ku sitolo ya dollar, monga mbewu zomwe zimabzala m'munda kapena chodula cookie chomwe chikugwirizana ndi mutu wa phwando.
- Lolani ana anu kupanga zokongoletsera phwando mmalo mozikonza nokha kapena kugwiritsira ntchito ndalama zambiri pa iwo ku sitolo.
- Sewani masewera a phwando m'malo mwa kukonza zosangalatsa zakunja.
- Gwiritsani phwando papaki ya anthu, yomwe ili mfulu ndipo imapereka zosangalatsa zomangidwira (ie, masewero, masewera, basketball hoops, etc.).
- Limbikitsani alendo kuti abweretse mphatso zowonjezera, monga mabuku omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito modekha kapena toyese. Mungaganizire kuika mutu wa mphatso, monga "zochitika," momwe alendo angapereke zosungirako ku nyumba yosungirako ana, malo owonetseramo kanema, galimoto yaing'ono kapena zokopa zina.
- Mukagula kapena kupanga zokongoletsa phwando, sankhani zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito mobwerezabwereza, chaka ndi chaka. Mungathe kupanga imodzi mwa mapepala a mapepala okondweretsa, ena mwa iwo ndi abwino kwa zikondwerero za nyengo kapena angagwire ntchito pa phwando lililonse limene mumalandira.
- Tumizani maitanidwe apakompyuta. Ndiufulu, mofulumira komanso mosavuta!
- Pangani phwando kuti mudzipereke nokha, mwinamwake mukutsatira zina mwazimene -kuti mupange maphwando . Khalani ndi malangizo okha, ngati mumakonda zokongola. Kujambula zokongoletsa kwanu kungatenge nthawi yochuluka ndipo nthawi zina kumafuna zambiri kuposa kugula izo.
- Kutumikira chakudya chomwe chiri chotchipa komanso chosavuta. Ngati izi zikutanthauza kupanga pizza, zodabwitsa. Chitani zomwezo. Zingatanthauze kupanga kapu kapena lasagna patsogolo pa nthawi yomwe imangoyenera kubwezeretsedwa kapena kutumikira Joes wosalankhula kuchokera kwa wophika pang'ono.
- Ngati mukuda nkhawa ndi zomwe makolo ena angaganizire za phwando lanu losavuta lachikumbutso, apa pali nsonga: Musaitane mabanja awo! Dzipangirani nokha ndi ana anu ndi anthu omwe amadziwa kuti tsiku lobadwa ndilokukondwerera chaka mu moyo wa mwana; iwo sali owona kuti ndani angagwiritse ntchito ndalama zambiri.
Yankhulani ndi mwana wanu wokumbukira nthawi yambiri za zifukwa zanu zochepetsera phwando. Fotokozani mfundo zomwe zimayendetsa zosankha zanu, kaya mukudandaula za chilengedwe ndipo simukufuna kugula mapepala apulasitiki apita kutali kapena ngati ndalama zili zolimba ndipo banja lanu liyenera kukhala lozindikira momwe likugwiritsira ntchito . Kwenikweni, kusonyeza mwana wanu bajeti ya pulezidenti ndikuwathandiza kuti asankhe zochita pa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito ndalama zomwe amapatsidwa angaphunzitse maphunziro ofunikira pankhani zachuma (osatchula masamu!).
Kusinthidwa ndi Christine Gauvreau