Kukonzanso malumbiro anu aukwati? Zikomo! Popeza mutasankha lonjezo lokonzekera pa zifukwa zosiyanasiyana, pali mawu osiyanasiyana omwe munganene. Anthu ambiri amalemba malumbiro awo, kutsindika zifukwa zomwe asankha "kuzichita zonsezi." Nazi zina zowonjezera zomwe mungathe kuzichita:
Kukonzanso Lonjezo Lanu Lachikwati pa Chikumbutso
(dzina la mwamuna), zaka 25 zapitazo, ndinalonjeza chikondi ndi kudzipereka kwa inu, koma zikuwoneka ngati dzulo.
Ndinalonjeza kuti ndikukondani, kukulemekezani, kukutonthoza ndi kukusungani. Ndikulonjeza kukhala pambali panu mukudwala ndi thanzi, nthawi za kusowa, ndi nthawi zambiri, zabwino kapena zoipitsitsa, kwa moyo wathu wonse. Takhala nazo zonsezi, ndipo mwakhala mbali yanga pamene tinalenga banja, nyumba, ndi moyo pamodzi. Masiku ano, kumayambiriro kwa chaka cha 26 monga mwamuna ndi mkazi, pamaso pa Mulungu, ndi banja lathu ndi abwenzi, ndikukonzanso malonjezo anga kwa inu, ndikulonjeza chikondi changa chosatha kwa inu, ndikuyembekezera mwachidwi chimene moyo ungatibweretsere.
Kubwezeretsanso Ukwati Wanu Pambuyo pa Kusakhulupirika, Matenda Kapena Nthawi Yopanikiza
Pa tsiku laukwati wathu, ndinalonjeza zinthu zambiri, kuphatikizapo kukhulupirika kwanga. Ndikumva chisoni ndi chisoni, ndikuvomereza kuti ndinaphwanya lumbirolo koma tsopano ndikuzindikira kukula kwa kulakwitsa kwanga. Ena amabwera ndikupita, koma inu mumakhala nthawi zonse m'moyo wanga amene ndimakonda nthawi zonse. Ndikukhulupirira mu ukwati uwu kuposa kale lonse, ndipo ndikutsimikiziranso chikondi ndi kudzipereka kwanga.
Pa tsiku laukwati wathu, ndinalonjeza kuti ndidzakukondani kudwala ndi thanzi langa, ndi bwino kapena zoipa. Chaka chapitacho chayesera malumbiro awo, koma chikondi chathu chosatha kwa wina ndi mzake chaposa. Ine ndikubwera kuno lero kuti ndipange kuyamba kwatsopano, kukonzanso malonjezo athu a chikondi, ulemu, ndi kukhulupirika, ndi kutsimikiziranso chikondi changa pa inu.
Zaka 6 zapitazo, ndinalonjeza kuti ndidzakukondani nthawi yonse yomwe tonsefe tidzakhala ndi moyo. Sindinaganizepo kuti ndikutayika posachedwa, kapena kuti ndikudzimva kuti ndikumva chisoni. Lero, ife tiri kutsidya lina la phiri, ndipo ndine wokondwa kwambiri kuti ndikufika kuti ndipitirize ulendo wa moyo ndi mbali yanu. Apanso, ndikulonjezani kukukondani, kukulemekezani ndi kukupatsani inu zabwino kapena zoipa, mukudwala ndi thanzi, pokhapokha ife tonse titakhala ndi moyo.
Kubwezeretsani Pambuyo pa Ukwati Wapabanja Kapena Kamodzi Kakang'ono
Ndi chisangalalo chachikulu ndinalonjeza chikondi ndi kudzipereka kwa inu pa tsiku laukwati wathu. Koma ubale wachikondi sulipo mu chotupa. Banja lathu ndi abwenzi poyamba adatisonyeza momwe tingakondere, kutithandiza kukula, ndi kutithandiza pamene tapeza wina ndi mnzake. Ndikuyembekeza kuti apitirizabe kukonda ndi kutithandiza ngati tikuwakonda ndi kuwathandiza. Kotero, ine ndikukondwera lero, pamaso pa mboni izi, kuti nditsimikizire kudzipereka kwanga kwa inu, ndipo kachiwiri, ndikulonjezani kukukondani, kukulemekezani, ndi kukutonthoza inu, mukudwala ndi thanzi, olemera, osauka, kukhala abwino ndi oipitsitsa, bola ngati ife tonse tidzakhala moyo.
Kupeza Madalitso a Mpingo
Kawirikawiri mawu omwe munganene pa lonjezo lokonzanso ndi mawu omwewo omwe munganene pa ukwati uliwonse.
Wogwira ntchitoyo angayankhe zokhudzana ndi kukonzanso, ndipo nyimbo iliyonse kapena kuwerenga kungayankhule za chikondi chosatha kapena kubweranso. Lankhulani ndi mtsogoleri wanu za zomwe ziri zoyenera mu chipembedzo chanu.