Panthawi imene kusudzulana kungaoneke ngati kofala, mwamuna ndi mkazi wake omwe amatha kukhala pamodzi poduka ndi ochepa thupi amafunika chikondwerero china. Ngati inu ndi mkazi wanu mwakhala mukuchita chikondwerero chofunika kwambiri , kapena mukufuna kuti mukhale ndi "ukwati woposa", ganiziraninso za lonjezo lanu.
Zifukwa Zomwe Muyenera Kufunira Kukonzanso
- Mukufuna kukondwerera zaka zanu zisanu, zaka khumi, khumi ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri, ndi zina zotero.
- Inu munangokwatira kokha mwalamulo kale, ndipo tsopano mukufuna kukwatira mwachipembedzo.
- Inu munangokwatira kumene mwachipembedzo kale, ndipo tsopano mukufuna kukwatira mwalamulo.
- Ukwati wanu woyamba unali ndi gawo lina la tsoka, ndipo inu mukufuna kuti muchite.
- Simunali ndi ndalama zambiri paukwati wanu woyamba, ndipo mukufuna ukwati wochuluka.
- Mudakwatirana ndi anthu ochepa chabe, ndipo mukufuna kunena malumbiro aukwati pamaso pa abale ndi abwenzi ambiri.
- Mudakhala ndi nthawi zovuta mu ubale wanu, ndipo tsopano mukufuna kukatsimikiziranso kudzipereka kwanu kwa wina ndi mnzake.
- Mukungoganiza kuti zingakhale zachikondi.
Pazifukwa zowonjezera, chifukwa choyipa chokhala ndi mwambo wotsitsila chiwongoladzanja chidzakhala chifukwa chakuti mwaphonya kukonzekera ukwati ndikufuna kuponya phwando lina. Cholinga cha ukwati uliwonse, koma makamaka chiwongolero cha malonjezo , chiyenera kukhala malonjezano omwe mukupanga kwa wina ndi mzake, komanso mwambo wopatulika wa ukwati, osati phwando.
Mmene Mungayambitsire Malumbiro Anu Achikwati
Uthenga wabwino ndi wakuti, pali malamulo ocheperako komanso zosafunika ndi zowonjezera zowonjezera malonje kuposa mwambo wina uliwonse.
Zingakhale zophweka ngati inu nokha muli pamalo okongola powerenga malonjezo omwe mwalemba, kapena nkhani yokongola ndi alendo mazana.
Njira Zoyamba Zokonza Maphwando
Monga momwe zilili ndi kukonzekera kwaukwati , muyenera kuyamba ndi kuzindikira momwe mungakondwerere mwambo, kulandira bajeti, kusankha tsiku ndi kupeza malo.
Mabanja ena omwe ali achikulire adzakhala ndi ndalama zambiri kuposa pamene adakwatirana nthawi yoyamba; ena omwe makolo awo anathandiza nthawi yoyamba adzakhala ochepa kwambiri. Nkhani yabwino ndi yakuti lonjezo lopanga lonjezo limakhala lochepetsetsa kusiyana ndi kukwatirana koyamba, ndipo ndi malamulo ochepa pa zomwe "ziyenera kuchitika," mukhoza kuganizira kwambiri zinthu zomwe zili zofunika kwa inu.
Kodi Kuyenera Kubwezeretsedwanso Kwabwino Kumakhala Motani?
Yankho la funso ili liri pa chifukwa chanu chofuna mwambo watsopano wowonjezera. Anthu ambiri anasankha kubwezeretsa malumbiro awo chifukwa adagwidwa kwambiri ndikukonzekera ukwati wawo woyamba, adamva kuti cholinga cha tsikulo chinachotsedwa pa mwambowu. Choncho, zowonjezera zowonjezera zowonjezera zimakhala zikondwerero zapabanja, pamodzi ndi abwenzi apamtima ndi abwenzi omwe alipo, ndi masana kapena chakudya cham'mbuyomo pa malo odyera abwino. Komanso, ena omwe analibe ndalama zambiri paukwati wawo woyamba anali ndi miyambo yovuta kwambiri komanso maphwando pambuyo pake.
Zowonjezera Zowonjezera Vow
Ngakhale mutakhala ndi chikondwerero chachikulu komanso chamtengo wapatali, palinso zinthu zochepa zomwe muyenera kuzipewa:
- Osakhala ndi antchito. Ngati muli ndi ana, mungathe kuwapatsa udindo wapadera pa mwambowu, koma palibe chifukwa chowatchula ngati okwatira kapena azimayi . Mukhoza kuitana phwando lanu loyambirira ndipo muwazindikire panthawiyi.
- Musalembetse mphatso. Ino si nthawi yokonzanso china. Mphatso zaukwati ndizothandiza anthu okwatirana kumene akukhazikitsa banja lawo palimodzi.
- Musataye maphwando a bachelor kapena bachelorette . Ichi ndi chodziwikiratu - mulibe bachelors kapena bachelorettes!
Ndani Ayenera Kutsogolera Kubwezeretsa Mimba?
Popeza kuti mwakhala mukuchita kale ukwati , mwambowu sudzakhala wovomerezeka. Choncho, mungathe kupempha woweruza kapena mtsogoleri kuti azigwira ntchito, koma mukhoza kupempha mnzanu kapena mwana wamkulu kuti atsogolere mwambowu. Kuti mukhale ndi lonjezo losavuta, simukusowa kuti mukhale oyenerera.
Bwerezani Kubwezeretsa Maitanidwe
Ngati mukugwira nokha:
Ulemu wa kukhalapo kwanu
akufunsidwa
kutsimikiziridwa kwa malumbiro aukwati a
Sharon ndi Martin Jones
Loweruka, May 27, 2017
kapena
Chonde tithandizeni
pamene tikukonzanso malumbiro athu achikwati ndikukondwerera zaka 25 pamodzi
Sharon ndi Martin Jones
Loweruka, May 27, 2017
Ngati ana anu akulandira:
Ana a
Sharon ndi Martin Jones
Pemphani ulemu wa kukhalapo kwanu
pa mwambo watsopano wowonjezera makolo awo
ndi zina.
Malumbiro a Ukwati pa Mwambo Wotsitsimutsa Vow
Mwinamwake mukufuna kunena chinachake chosiyana kusiyana ndi akwatibwi a nthawi yoyamba ndi grooms. Anthu ambiri amalemba malumbiro awo, koma mungafunike kudzoza kuti muthe kuyamba. Pezani zitsanzo zabwino zowonjezera zowonjezera mwambo .