Malangizo a Cholinga Chokwanira
Ngati ndinu mnyamata amene mwangokhalira kukakamiza bwenzi lake, mumakhala ndi mantha komanso mukudandaula za momwe mungachitire "njira yoyenera." Kuchita nawo mbali ndi chinthu chachikulu kwambiri. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mukuyandikira chaputala chotsatira cha moyo wanu, kotero musanafike pa bondo limodzi, werengani izi ndi zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi chikhalidwe chaukwati.
Zokwatirana ndi Banja
- Yesani madzi: Musanayambe kukambilana, inu nonse muyenera kulankhula kale za kukwatira . Onetsetsani kuti ukwati ndi chinthu chomwe aliyense akufuna, ndipo onetsetsani kuti mutha kuvomereza pazinthu zazikuru monga ana. Ili ndi funso lalikulu lomwe siliyenera kutuluka mu buluu. Simukufuna kuti iye achotsedwe kwathunthu, ngati chinthu chodabwitsa chiri chotsimikiziridwa chotsimikiziridwa kuti chiwongolera kuti "inde," ngati ayi, "Ndiyenera kuganizira za izo."
- Zimadabwitsa: Ngakhale kuti mwakambirana za kukwatira, kukonzekera kwaukwati kokha kungathe-ndipo kuyenera-kudabwa. Pezani kamphindi ndi njira yomwe sangakayikire .
- Konzekerani nokha: "Kodi mudzakwatirana ndi ine?" Ndi funso losavuta, koma ndi mawu ovuta omwe amachititsa kuti anthu ambiri azilankhula malilime. Yesetsani! Zingakhale zopusa, koma nenani mawu mokweza nthawi zingapo. Mukhozanso kulemba ndi kuloweza ndendende zomwe mukanene kuti mutsimikizire kuti ndinu osasunthika komanso odalirika momwe mungathere.
- Pezani ndondomeko yoyenera yogwirizana: Popeza kuvala mphete yothandizana ndi moyo wanu wonse, tsimikizani kuti ndibwino . Mungapeze mwayi wowonera malo ogulitsira mphete pamene mukuyenda kudutsa sitolo, kapena mungayambe kukambirana. Mukhozanso kufunsa amayi ake, mlongo, bwenzi lapamtima, ndi zina kuti athandize kusankha chovalacho.
- Dziwani ngati akufuna kutenga mphete yowonjezera: Akazi ena amakhala okongola kwambiri komanso amafuna kukhala mbali ya ndondomekoyi, ndipo motere: mphete ndi ndalama zambiri, choncho njira yabwino yopangira Zoonadi amalikonda kwambiri kuposa kupita kukagula limodzi? Zedi, mukhoza kutaya chinthu chodabwitsa chifukwa akuyembekeza kale mphete inayake, koma ngati mwalankhula za ukwati, amadziwa kuti akubwera posachedwa.
- Lankhulani ndi makolo ake: Takhala tikuyenda kutali kuyambira masiku a dowries, koma palinsobe ulemu wina pokhuza madalitso a makolo .
- Sankhani malo enieni: Ganizirani za malo omwe mumawakonda kwambiri ndipo musankhe malo abwino kuti mufunse funsoli. Zingakhale zophweka monga m'chipinda chanu chokhalamo kapena zovuta monga kumudula kumapeto kwa mlungu ku Paris. Musamamufunse ku sitima yapamwamba!
- Khalani opanga : Phatikizani umunthu wanu, zinthu zomwe mumakonda, zokondweretsa, ndi zina zotero. Pangani izo mwapadera ndi zosaiwalika mmalo mopangira chokonza chopangira choki.
- Gwerani ku bondo limodzi: Kenanso, nthawi zasintha, koma pali chinachake chokongola ndi chikondi cha mwamuna pa bondo limodzi ndikufunsa chikondi cha moyo wake kuti akwatirane naye. Ngakhale ngati simunali mwambo wamwamuna, izi zingapangitse kuti pempho likhale lofunika kwambiri.
- Muuzeni chifukwa chake mukufuna kumukwatira: Musangonena mawu aang'ono anayi okha. Tsopano ndi mwayi wangwiro woti mumuuze chifukwa chake iye ndi wanu, chomwe ukwati umatanthauza kwa inu ndi zomwe mukuyembekeza m'tsogolo. Mungathe kunena ngati, "Moyo wanga sunayambe wakhalapo chimodzimodzi nditatha kukumana nawe, wandipangitsa kukhala wosangalala kwambiri, wodekha komanso wouziridwa kwambiri. Kodi mungandichitire ulemu wondikwatira? "
- Auzeni nkhaniyi: Musamve ngati mukuyenera kuti muwononge nthawi yomweyo. Tengani kamphindi, ngakhale mutalika nthawi yaitali, kuti muwonetsere zomwe mukuchita ndikugwirizana. Gawani nkhaniyi mukakonzeka.
Zokwatirana Zokwatirana Don'ts
- Musati ukhale wovomerezeka: Ngati olemba malemba akuyenera kuti akhulupirire, ndiye kuti malingaliro onse a ukwati amachitika pamsewu kutsogolo kwa mazana a anthu. Pokhapokha atanena kuti akufuna malangizowo, ndizosavuta kuti pulogalamuyo ikhale yapadera, chinthu chenicheni. Ambiri akwatibwi angakhale okonda kukhala ndi mphindi yamatsenga ikhale pakati pa awiri a inu. Pambuyo pa zonse, muli ndi moyo wanu wonse kuuza ena za ukwati wanu, koma muli ndi mphindi imodzi yokha.
- Musabise mphete yowonjezera: Ndimadana kunena, popeza ndikudziwa kuti pali owerenga ena omwe akukonzekera kuchita izi, koma kubisala mphete yowonjezera chakudya ndi maganizo otopa. Zakhala mu mafilimu chikwi ndi ma TV, ndipo simungapambane mfundo iliyonse yodzinenera.
- Musakonzekere pa masewera a masewera: Zimadalira mkwatibwi wanu ndi mtundu womwe muli nacho, koma masewera a masewera ambiri sali abwino kwambiri. Iwo ali okweza, osokonezeka ndipo inu simungakhoze kukhala ndi malingaliro amodzi a chikondi ngati chochitika chofunika kwambiri chomwe chikuyenera.
- Musachite izi pamaso pa banja lake: Zomwe zili patsogolo pa banja zimapanganso zina zomwe simukufunikira. Tengani mphindi ino kuti mukhale awiri a inu. Mabanja anu adzalumikizana ndi banja lanu mwachisawawa, ndipo safunikanso kupezeka mukamaliza funsolo. Osadandaula: mukhoza kutchula aliyense mwamsanga pambuyo pake.
- Musati muzipangitse zovuta kwambiri: Muyeneradi kuyesera kuti mukhale apadera ndi opanga ndi malingaliro anu, koma koposa zonse, ndikofunika kuti muziika patsogolo pa zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri: malingaliro enieni. Ngati simungathe kuika maganizo chifukwa mukudandaula kuti ngati limapangitsa kuti balononi ipite pa nthawi, ndiye kuti mukudandaula za chinthu cholakwika.
- Musati muyambe kukondana kwambiri mu ubalewu: Pamene mutasunthira chikondi choyambirira choyamba, ndizovuta kuti musachite zinthu zopanda pake, zopusa. Onetsetsani kuti mumadziwana bwino komanso zomwe aliyense wa inu akufuna muukwati musanapereke wina ndi mzake kwa moyo wanu wonse. Kudikira mpaka chiyanjano chanu chikhale cholimba chingalimbitse ukwati wanu. Ndikofunika kukhala ndi chipiriro pang'ono.
- Musamuyembekezere kuti anene, "inde," nthawi yomweyo: Kufunsa munthu kuti akukwatirane ndi chinthu chachikulu. Mukupempha wina kuti azikhala ndi moyo wanu wonse. Tikukhulupirira kuti awiriwa adakambirana zaukwati ndipo ali pa tsamba limodzi, choncho adzayankha ndi "Inde"! Koma chifukwa chakuti mwafunsa sizitanthauza kuti ali wokonzeka. Ngati muli wokondeka akuti, "Mwinamwake," muzitenga mwatsatanetsatane ndikumupatsa nthawi yochulukirapo. Simukufuna kuti munthu wodabwitsa uyu akwatira Tom, Dick ndi Harry aliyense amene adamfunsa, mungatero?