Mwachidziwitso, mphatso sizikufunikira kuti zowonjezera zowonjezera. Choyamba, kukonzanso malonjezo sikofanana ndikwati popeza banja lidayamba kukhala limodzi (mwina kwa nthawi ndithu) komanso osakhazikitsa banja latsopano mofanana ndi momwe angakwatirane kumene. Ngakhale Emily Post, wolemekezeka kwambiri wazaka za m'ma 2000, akuvomereza kuti kubwezeretsa malonjezo si ukwati. Ndi phwando lachikumbutso, choncho, musamadzimvere kuti mubweretse mphatso.
Kawirikawiri, maanja adzaphatikizapo chilemba pamalonda omwe akuti "palibe mphatso, chonde." Komabe, mwambo wapadera monga chikondwerero cha zaka 25 , kubweretsa mphatso kwa banjali ndi chinthu choganizira, makamaka ngati muli pafupi nawo.
Kusankha Mphatso Yaikulu Yokonzanso Mphatso
Mosiyana ndi mwambo waukwati, mphatso sizinkayembekezeredwa, kotero maanja ambiri samapanga zolembera za mphatso pofuna kukonzanso lonjezo lawo. Kusakhala ndi zolembera zomwe mungasankhe kungapangitse alendo kukhala ovuta omwe akufuna kupereka mphatso yachikondwerero kwa awiriwa, kotero tinaganiza zokambirana nawo mphatso zowonjezera zowonjezera. Onani malingaliro ndi malingaliro awa!
Pitani pa Chinachake Chokhalira
Posankha mphatso kwa banja lomwe likukonzanso malumbiro awo, ndi bwino kutsindika malingaliro osati ndalama. Mwinamwake mukhoza kuwapatsa buku la chikumbutso kapena chithunzi chajambula, ndipo muwalembere zithunzi ndi zithunzi zomwe mwazitenga zaka zambiri, kapena kukumbukira momveka bwino monga banja.
Chinthu china cholingalira ndi chomveka kwa anthu awiriwa chingakhale chithunzi chokhala ndi zithunzi ziwiri, komwe angapange chithunzi cha tsiku lawo lachikwati choyambirira pafupi ndi chimodzi cha chiwongolero chawo.
Tsatirani Mwambo
Ngati mukumva kuti muli ndi maganizo opatsa mphatso, ganizirani kusankha mphatso malinga ndi chaka cha ukwati omwe akukondwerera.
Pali mndandanda wabwino wa zikondwerero za tsiku ndi tsiku zomwe zingathandize kuchepetsa chisankho chanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati banjali likukondwerera zaka 15, mphatso yachikhalidwe ndi kristalo kuti muwapatse kaseti yokongola ya kristalo. Kwa zaka 25, mphatso yamtengo wapatali ndi siliva, kotero mukhoza kuwapatsa siliva yolembedwa ndi monogram yawo ndi tsiku lolemekeza nthawiyo.
Pangani Chinachake Chachizolowezi
Talingalirani kukhala ndi chida chojambula kapena chokongoletsera chomwe chimapangidwira dzina lachiwiri kapena tsiku laukwati ngati memento wokongola. Kaya ndi chizindikiro cha matabwa chokhala ndi dzina loyamba la awiriwa kapena cholembera cholembera chindunji cha malumbiro awo aukwati, ndizotheka komanso yotsika mtengo kupanga phwando lachikondwerero kukondwerera mwambo wapadera.
Perekani Zomwe Mukumana nazo
Ngati mukufuna kusonkhanitsa chuma chanu ndi anzanu kuti mupereke mphatso ya gulu, ganizirani kutumiza banja kuti likhale lopuma, kapena mphatso ina yomwe imathandiza kuti azigwiritsa ntchito nthawi yabwino. Ganizirani zinthu monga makalasi ophika, masewero oyendetsa sitima, kulembetsa ku chikwama cha mwezi wa vinyo kapena zofanana.
Khadi Lidzachita Zabwino Kwambiri
Kupatsa bwenzi lokhazikika ndi khadi lokhazikika kumakhutira kukwaniritsa lonjezo.
Ngati mukumva kuti mulibe maganizo a mphatso kwa anthu omwe akukwaniritsa malumbiro awo, ingotenga khadi yabwino kuti muwonetsere kuyamikira kwanu ndi chimwemwe.