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Masewero a Hero / Getty Images Ndizowona. Ndikuganiza kuti ziwombankhanga za mwana zikukhala zinthu zakale. Kusamba kwa khanda ndilopafupi pafupi ndi chochitika. Zoonadi, tinayesetsa kukanikiza envelopuyi ndi ana ophunzitsira ana . Ngakhale, tiyeni tiyang'ane nazo, kuitana anyamata ku ntchito yomwe yapangidwa kuti ikhale yogonana - sizimagwira ntchito bwino. Kotero, ndi chiyani chotsatira? Chikhalidwe chimasonyeza chipani.
Cholinga chatsopano kwambiri ndi lingaliro losavuta kumva: Mumakonda phwando ndi aliyense amene mukufuna kuitanira, mosasamala kanthu za amuna awo, ndikukondwerera pamodzi pamene mukuwulula zakugonana kwa mwana wanu.
Izi zingakhale ntchito yaikulu kapena kusonkhana mwachikondi kwa anzanu apamtima okha ndi achibale anu. Mukhoza kuchita ndi chakudya chamadzulo, kapena zakudya zokha basi. Malamulo alidi - ndithudi, palibe malamulo alionse. Ndikuganiza kuti izi ndizo zomwe anthu amakonda zokhudzana ndi chikhalidwe chimasonyeza chipani.
Ngakhale kulibe malamulo, pali zofanana zomwe ndapeza mukulankhula ndi anthu za phwando: akufuna kuuza ena uthenga wabwino m'njira yapadera ndi yosakumbukika ndipo akufuna kuchita nawo anthu omwe amasamala nawo. Ndipo chakudya, payenera kukhala mtundu wina wa chakudya.
Zambiri Zimavumbulutsa
Apa ndi pomwe mbali yaikulu ya phwando imapezeka. Simukufuna kuyamba phwando nthawi ya 2 koloko masana ndi kulengeza pa 2: 2 masana. Muyenera kulola mikangano ikule ndi kumanga; lolani alendo azidyetsana wina ndi mzake. Anthu ambiri omwe amachita nawo maphwandowa adatengedwa kapena njira yodziwonetsera nokha kuti ndinu mnyamata kapena timu ya timu.
Izi zikatha, ndi nthawi yoti aliyense adziwe ngati pali mtsikana kapena mnyamata ali panjira. Mwa njira yofala kwambiri ikuwoneka kuti ikugwiritsa ntchito chakudya. Maganizo oyambirira omwe ndinamva nawo anali mikate. Iwo anali ndi chisanu kapena mazira obiriwira panja ndipo mkatimo anawulula mtundu umene umasonyeza mnyamata kapena mtsikana. (Nthawi zina makolo samadziwa kapena ayi. Iwo amatenga cholembedwa chosindikizidwa kuchoka ku ultrasound kupita ku bakoloni ndikunyamula keke - kupeza nthawi imodzimodzi yomwe alendo akuchita.)
Maganizo ena omwe ndawawonapo ndi awa:
- mabuloni odzala ndi pinki kapena buluu confetti
- maluwa a helium maluwa m'bokosi limene limatuluka pamene latsegulidwa
- Amayi akukweza malaya kuti afotokoze uthenga wojambula
- bambo wina anagwetsa zojambula zake kuti aulule olemba bokosi achikuda
- dzira la mbalame lokhala ndi uthenga wabisika mkati
- kutsegula kwa envelopu yomwe ikuwulula yankho
- kukhala ndi wina wina akulengeza (mwinamwake ndi ndakatulo)
- Njira zowonjezera zowonetsera kugonana kwa mwana wanu
Mwachiwonekere, ena mwa malingalirowa amatenga nthawi yochuluka ndi khama kukonzekera phwando. Ngati izi ndizo zomwe zimakusangalatsani, mukhoza kukhala okonzeka kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro awa. Ndikuganiza kuti chinachake chomwe amangoziwona mosavuta ndi alendo nthawi zambiri chimakhudza kwambiri anthu. Kupanda kutero, inu mumakhala ndi chiopsezo pokhala ndi mapepala a anthu akuti, "Ananena chiyani?"
Mphatso kapena Zopanda Mphatso
Limenelo ndilo funso la anthu ambiri. Monga ndanenera poyamba, ngati izi ziri m'malo mwa madzi osamba, ndizowopsa bwanji mphatso? Ngakhale kuti amayembekezera mphatso zapakati pazandale zapakati pazinthu zazing'ono zomwe palibe amene angadziwe kuti asanalowetsedwe. Mwinamwake izi zikutanthauza kuti wosamba m'manja kapena sitolo yapamadzi ndilo liwiro lanu. Ngakhale malingaliro asanagwiritse ntchito malamulowa pano, muli omasuka kuyesa madzi nokha. Ndikulingalira kuti izi ndi malo enieni omwe mungathe kuyankha nokha.
Favors Atsamba
Ndine phwando la mtundu wa gal. Ndimakonda kwambiri phwando lalikulu la phwando. Lingaliro la kukwanitsa kutulutsa mabatani, mabanki a timagulu kapena mauta aang'ono kapena masewera monga njira yosonyezera chithandizo pa "timu" yanu imandiyamikira kwambiri. Izi zikuti, sizingatheke, chinthu chosangalatsa chowonjezera pa phwandolo.
(Inde, ndikudziwa kuti amatchedwa maphwando a amuna, koma zomwe mumalengeza ndi ngati mwana wanu ali mnyamata kapena ayi. Sindikudziwa zenizeni ngati tayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mawu osagonana chifukwa cha mafayilo a email kapena chifukwa ife sitinkafuna kunena mawu ogonana, koma ine ndikupusitsa ...)