Mawu ndi zochita ndizolimba. Mukati muchita chinachake, ena akuyembekeza kuti muchite izo, kapena mutha kukhala ndi mbiri yosatsatira zomwe mwadzipereka ndikusiya anthu pansi. Kusamalitsa mawu anu nthawi zokwanira kungachititse anthu kuthamanga kumalo ena pamene akukuonani mukubwera.
Anthu Osasunthika
Aliyense amadziwa wina yemwe amadziwika kuti ndi wolemekezeka koma samatsatira.
Awa ndi anthu omwe amapanga malonjezo koma mwamsanga amaiwala za iwo kapena kusintha mauthenga atangomva zomwe akufuna.
Nazi njira zambiri zomwe anthu salemekeza ulemu wawo kapena alephera kuchita zabwino:
- Iwo amati iwo adzayitana, koma iwo amaiwala kapena ayi pa chifukwa chirichonse.
- Amavomereza kukumana ndi khofi kapena chakudya chamasana, koma samawonekera.
- Iwo amapereka kuthandizira ndi chinachake, koma pamene nthawi ifika, palibe malo omwe angapezeke.
- Iwo samatumiza manotsi oyamikira, kuyamikila abwenzi kuti zakupindula, kapena kulakalaka mnzanu wapamtima kukhala tsiku lokondwerera kubadwa.
Ngati zina mwazimenezo zimachitika kamodzi kapena kawiri, akhoza kukhululukidwa. Komabe, ngati pali njira yochuluka ya khalidweli, ulemu wawo uli pangozi. Mabwenzi ndi anzawo akudziŵa mwamsanga kuti sangakhulupirire kuti asunga mawu awo, ndipo samalemekeza ena.
Chifukwa Chochitira Mwaulemu
Kulemekeza mawu anu sikungochita zokhazo zomwe mukunena kuti mudzachita chifukwa zochita zanu zimanena zambiri kuposa mawu.
Kuchita mwaulemu ndi chinthu chomwe chingathandize kupanga ndi kusunga anzanu. Zimakhudzanso malo anu ndi kampani yanu mwa njira yabwino.
Nazi zifukwa zenizeni zoyenera kuchita mwachilungamo:
- Kudalirika. Pamene ena adziwa kuti akhoza kudalira inu, anthu akufunitsitsa kukukhulupirirani ndi kusunga mawu anu. Muli oitanidwira ku zochitika zamasewera, ndipo kuntchito, mumakhala ngati mukukweza.
- Khalani ndi nthawi. Kukhala nthawi yayitali kumataya nthawi ya anthu ena ndikuwapatsanso chidwi kuti simukuwakonda kapena nthawi yawo.
- Kudalira. Anthu olemekezeka akhoza kudalirika m'njira iliyonse. Pamene wina akuuzani chinsinsi, nkofunika kuti muteteze chikhulupiliro chimenechi mwa kusagawana ena.
- Ulemu. Anthu olemekezeka amalemekezedwa. Anzanu amakulemekezani kwambiri, ndipo anzanu akukuonani ngati chitsanzo cha munthu yemwe ayenera kuyamikira.
- Kunyada. Aliyense yemwe amachita nthawizonse mochititsa manyazi amatha kutaya kunyada kwake.
- Mphamvu. Anthu olemekezeka ali ndi mphamvu zambiri pamoyo wawo komanso kuntchito. Pamene akamba, anthu amamvetsera.
Momwe Mungalemekezere
Ambiri olemekezeka ali ndi makhalidwe ena omwe ali nawo, kotero phunzirani zomwe ali, yesetsani kuwatenga, ndikuyesetsanso kufikira atakhala achiwiri. Ndizopatsidwa kupereka lipulo la ulemu, koma kuikapo muchitetezo kumabwereza zonse zomwe mumanena.
Nazi zina mwa zomwe mungachite kuti mukhale olemekezeka:
- Khalani otsimikizika. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, musayese kubisa kumbuyo kwa kunyada kapena fano lomwe simungathe kukhala nalo.
- Tsatirani. Ngati munena kuti muchite chinachake, chitani ndipo chitani bwino, ngakhale zitatenga nthawi kuti muwone momwemo.
- Khalani achifundo. Pamene wina akusowa thandizo, musawanyengere iwo ali pansi. Onetsani chifundo ndikuwapatsa dzanja ngati n'kotheka. Ngati simungathe kuwathandiza, awonetseni munthu amene angathe.
- Pezani njira yanu. Izi zimakhudza kugwira ntchito mwakhama pofuna kulipira ndalama komanso kulemekeza anthu. Musati muyembekezere chinachake pachabe.
- Musati muyembekezere chinachake pobwezera. Ngati mumachitira munthu wina kanthu, musamugwire mutu wake ndikuyembekeza kubweza.
- Khalani owona mtima koma osati kutanthauza. Uzani zoona, koma musanene chinachake chokhumudwitsa ngati sikofunikira. Nthawi zina ndibwino kuti mutseke pakamwa panu.
- Khalani ndi chikhulupiliro cholimba. Imani zomwe ziri zolondola ndipo khalani patali zomwe ziri zolakwika. Pewani kuchita nawo khalidwe lililonse loipa.
- Khalani othandizira. Phunzitsani mwachitsanzo ndikuyankha mafunso kuti muthandize wina. Kenaka khalani wolimbikitsana pamene munthuyo atulukira yekha.
- Landirani zolakwika. Aliyense ali nawo, popanda kupatula. Muyenera nthawi zonse kuyesetsa kukonza zolakwa zanu, koma osaitana nthawi zonse anthu ena.
- Musanyoze ena. Ngati wina akuchita chinachake chochititsa manyazi, yesetsani kunena chinachake chokhumudwitsa, ziribe kanthu momwe zikumveka bwino. Anthu akhoza kuseka chifukwa ndizoseketsa panthawiyi, koma ataganizira za izo, iwo sadzakuganizirani pang'ono.
- Khalani masewera abwino. Simungathe kupambana masewera onse, kugulitsa, mphoto, kapena kukondwerera kutchuka. Landirani izo, zikondweretseni wopambana, ndipo pitirirani nazo.
Banja, Amzanga ndi Ogwira Ntchito
Munthu wolemekezeka amalemekeza maubwenzi osiyanasiyana, kuphatikizapo omwe ali ndi abanja, abwenzi , ndi anthu omwe amagwira nawo ntchito. Nazi njira zina zomwe amasonyezera ulemu ndi ulemu:
- Khalani okondwa chifukwa cha zinthu zabwino zomwe zimachitikira ena. Adziwitseni kuti mukusangalala nawo.
- Pazithunzi, khalani achifundo pamene zinthu sizili zabwino kwa anthu m'moyo wanu. Musayese kuti muwonetsere choipa chirichonse chimene chimachitika, ziribe kanthu kuti mukuwoneka kuti ndi osafunika bwanji.
- Limbikitsani anzanu ogwira nawo ntchito zotsatsa, kuphatikizapo zomwe munkayembekezera. Mwinanso mungakhale mzere, ndipo apamwamba angayang'ane momwe mumachitira ndi anthu ena.
- Pewani nsanje. Chiwombankhanga cha maso chobiriwira ndi chosangalatsa kwambiri kotero sichiyembekezere kukhala ndi zonse zomwe anthu ena ali nazo.
- Gonjerani masiku apadera, monga masiku okumbukira masiku, maholide, ndi zikondwerero.
Ulemu ndi chinthu chimene chimayesetsa koma chimakhala ndi mphoto yaikulu. Kulemekezeka kudzakuthandizani panyumba, ndi anzanu, komanso mu ubale wamalonda