Pambuyo kulandira mphatso, kupita ku phwando la chakudya chamadzulo, kapena kusiya nyumba ya munthu kuchokera usiku wonse , mumadziwa kuti muyenera kulemba ndemanga yothokoza , koma simungathe kudziwa zomwe munganene. Anthu ambiri amafuna kuwatumiza, koma samadziwa nthawi zonse momwe angagwiritsire ntchito malingaliro awo.
Ngati mwatayikira mawu mukakhala pansi ndi pepala ndikulembera chinachake kuti muwonetse kuyamikira chifukwa cha kupatsa kwa wina aliyense kutsatira malangizo awa.
Simukusowa kugwiritsa ntchito mawu amodzi kapena kulemba chirichonse choyenera mphoto. Chinthu chachikulu chimene muyenera kuchita ndi kusonyeza kuti mumayamikira mphatso kapena kuchereza alendo.
Inde, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito mawu anu, koma ndi ndondomeko yoyenera, sayenera kutenga nthawi yaitali kuti muyamikire kulemba ena kuti mudziwe momwe mumayamikirira mphatso zawo, kuchereza alendo, kapena kulingalira.
Musanayambe, muyenera kudziwa chomwe mukuthokoza munthuyo. Ngati izi ndi zapadera pawafa, phwando la kubadwa, kapena chochitika china chomwe chimaphatikizapo mphatso zambiri kuchokera kwa anthu ambiri, khalani ndi wina yemwe akulemba zomwe mwawatsegula.
Sonyezani Kuyamikira
Mungaganize kuti kuyamikira kumaperekedwa, koma pali anthu ena amene amanyalanyaza kulemba mwachidule "Zikomo," ngakhale kuti icho chinali cholinga cha cholembera.
Mitu yothandizira ndi chingwe choyamba:
- Zikomo chifukwa cha ...
- Ndine woyamikira chifukwa ...
- Ndine woyamikira chifukwa ...
- Ndikuyamikira ...
Lembani Mphatso Kapena Chichita
Musati mutenge njira yophweka ndi kungonena, "Zikomo chifukwa cha mphatsoyi." Ngakhale kuti iyi ndiyamiko yoyamikira, imakhala yosakhudzidwa ndi umunthu womwe umapangitsa kuti mapepalawo asawoneke moona mtima. Ichi chidzakhala gawo lachiwiri la mzere woyamba kapena chiganizo choyamba.
Nazi zitsanzo izi:
- Zikomo chifukwa cha zoyikapo nyali zokongola.
- Ndikuthokoza kwambiri chifukwa cha kuchereza kwanu mwachikondi.
- Ndikuthokoza chifukwa cha ubwenzi wanu ndi kufunitsitsa kumvetsera pamene ndikufunika kulankhula.
- Ndikuyamikira khadi la mphatso ku malo odyera omwe ndimakonda kwambiri .
Tchulani Chifukwa Chake Choyamikirira
Izi zingaphatikizepo zomwe mukukonzekera kuchita ndi mphatso kapena momwe zinakuthandizirani. Nthawi zambiri gawo ili lidzakhala chiganizo chachiwiri chazolemba zanu zikomo.
Nazi zitsanzo zina za gawo ili lakuthokoza:
- Mwamuna wanga ndi ine tidzakondwerera mwambo wathu wammbuyo posachedwapa, ndipo tidzakhala tikugwiritsa ntchito zoyikapo nyali kuti tiyambe kukondana kwambiri.
- Munandipangitsa kuti ndimve ngati gawo la banja panthawi yathu.
- Ndakhala ndi nthawi yovuta kupanga chisankho changa, ndipo munandithandiza kwambiri pokhalapo kwa ine.
- Amatumizira zakudya zamtundu zabwino kwambiri m'tawuni, choncho ndimayang'anira nthawi zonse kudya kumeneko.
Onjezerani Chidule Chotsatira
Ichi chiyenera kukhala chinthu chomwe chimakhudzidwa makamaka ndi munthu yemwe mumamutumizira. Mungathe kulemba ziganizo chimodzi kapena ziwiri, malinga ndi zomwe mukufuna kunena komanso momwe mumadziwira bwino munthu winayo. Pewani chinthu china chomwe chingapite kwa wina aliyense.
Nazi njira zina zomwe mungathe kutsekera timapepala:
- Tingafune kukupatsani chakudya chamadzulo nthawi yayitali.
- Ndikuyembekeza kukuwonani inu ndi John nthawi yomweyo mukakhala mderalo. Tipatseni ife musanabwere kotero tikhoza kumasula ndondomeko yathu.
- Ngati mumasowa wina woti muyankhule naye, chonde musazengereze kuyitana.
- Mwinamwake nthawi yotsatira tikakonzekera ulendo (dzina la malo odyera), tikupatsani telefoni, ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuti mutha kujowina.
Lowani Chidziwitso
Zizindikiro zaumwini zimatsindika ubale wanu ndi munthu winayo. Ngati muli ndi mtundu wina wa " zibwenzi ," apa ndi malo omwe mungagwiritsire ntchito. Apo ayi, bwerani ndi chinachake chimene chimamupangitsa munthu wina kumverera zabwino zomwe mukumuyamirira.
Nazi zitsanzo izi:
- Chikondi
- Mwachikondi
- Amzanga nthawi zonse
- Pals kwanthawizonse
- Mwachikondi
Nthawi yabwino yotumizira ndondomeko yoyamika mutangolandira mphatso kapena chirichonse chomwe mukuthokoza munthu wina. Komabe, ngati sabata imodzi kapena iwiri yadutsa, musalole kuti izi zikhale chifukwa chosawatumizira.
Chitani izi mwamsanga.