Mmene Mungauze Abwino Mwachindunji Muyenera Kuwononga kapena Kuletsa Ukwati Wanu
Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe angaganize kuti abwezeretse kapena kukhetsa ukwati - palibe omwe ali osangalala kapena ophweka. Koma mutapanga chisankhochi, kodi mungauze bwanji alendo anu, ndipo chikuchitika ndi mphatso zonsezi?
Makhalidwe Abwino Mukamasiya Ukwati Wanu
Pakakhala vuto limene limakuchititsani kuti musamayambe kukwatirana, muyenera kuyesetsa kutumiza alendo anu mwamsanga. Ambiri mwa iwo angafunikire kuchotsa maulendo oyendayenda, omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi nthawi yobwezera.
Ena adzangokhalira kuyamikira kuti akhala akudziwitsidwa. Ndikoyenera kufotokozera mwachidule chifukwa chake ukwati ukukhazikitsidwa, monga "chifukwa cha Mkwatibwi wodwala" kapena "chifukwa cha imfa m'banja."
Kuuza Banja ndi Anzanga
Ngati ukwati sunayambe kulengezedwa, mukhoza kungouza abwenzi anu apamtima ndi achibale anu kuti mukubwezeretsani ukwati wanu, ndi ndani amene adzadziwitse wina aliyense amene akufunsa
Ngati maitanidwe asanatuluke, komabe alendo ambiri adziwa kale tsiku lanu lachikwati, tumizani khadi losindikizira losavuta, kuwerenga limodzi ndi:
Chifukwa cha matenda a banja, ukwati wa Anne Scott kwa Kamau Thomas sudzachitika pa October 14 monga poyamba. Tsiku latsopano laukwati lidzalengezedwa mwamsanga.
Kapena, ngati mukudziwa kale tsiku latsopano:
Bambo ndi Akazi a Jeffery Scott
kulengeza kuti ukwati wa mwana wawo wamkazi
Amayi Anne Scott
ku
Bambo Kamau Thomas
zomwe zinasinthidwa, zidzachitika tsopano
pa December 20, 2004, ku Scranton Club.
Pamene oitanidwa atumizidwa, muyenera kuyitanira mlendo aliyense kuti awadziwitse za kubwezeretsedwa. Izi zikhoza kukhala ntchito yayikuru kwambiri kapena yokhudzidwa ndi inu nokhayo - anzanu ndi achibale anu angakuthandizeni kupanga mayitanidwe.
Kulola Alendo Akudziwa Pamene Akuletsa Ukwati
Mukapanga chisankho chovuta kuti muchotse ukwati, muyenera kudziwitsa alendo anu mwamsanga. Monga mukubwezeretsa ukwati wanu, muyenera kutumiza makadi osindikizidwa ngati oitanirawo sanapite, ndipo aitaneni aliyense ngati ali nawo.
Makhadi osindikizidwa ayenera kuwerengedwa pamzere mwa:
Bambo ndi Akazi a Jeffery Scott
Lengezani kuti ukwati wa mwana wawo wamkazi
Anne Scott
Kuti
Kamau Thomas
Sitidzachitike monga momwe zakhalira.
Kufotokozera Chifukwa Chake Mukutsekera Ukwati
Ngakhale anthu ambiri angakufunse chifukwa chake mukuchotsa, sikofunika kufotokoza. Ngati muthamangitsidwa, nenani chinachake chonga "tinapanga chisankho chosakwatirana pakalipano." Inde, dongosolo lanu lothandizira la abwenzi apamtima ndi achibale lanu lidzakuthandizani kumva chisoni chifukwa cha imfa ya ukwati ndi ukwati.
Adziwitse Wogulitsa Onse
Ngati kuchotsedwa kuli chifukwa cha imfa m'banja, matenda, ndi zina, funsani chithandizo cha inshuwalansi yaukwati wanu. (Mwamwayi, ngati mwalepheretsa chifukwa cha mapazi ozizira , simudzapindula ndi ndondomeko yanu.)
Kenaka yambani kulankhulana ndi ogulitsa anu, poyamba ndi foni, ndiye polemba. Onetsetsani malonda anu omwe ayenera kukhala ndi ndondomeko yotsutsa kukulozani kuti mubwererenso gawo lanu la ndalama ngati mutatulutsidwa ndi tsiku linalake. Pamene mukuyandikira ku ukwati, simungathe kubwereranso. Komabe, ndibwino kuti mulembe polemba kuti pasakhale wina amene angayese kukulipirani zochuluka kuposa momwe mwagwiritsira ntchito kale.
Musaiwale Kuletsa Chisanu
Kukhoza kwanu kubwereketsa ndalama zilizonse, makamaka pa matikiti oyendetsa ndege kapena maulendo, zimadalira makamaka mtundu wa tikiti yomwe mwagula, ndi ndege za ndege kapena ndondomeko yowotsutsa. Ngati munagula inshuwalansi yaulendo, imangogwira ntchito pa matenda, masoka achilengedwe, ndi zina zotero, osati kusintha kwa mtima.
Kuletsa Ukwati Wachikwati
Ngati mwakhala mukukonzekera chovala chanu, simungathe kubweza ndalama zanu. Pambuyo pake, iwo anali kukupangani makamaka kwa inu ndi miyeso yanu. Lankhulani ndi ovala kavalidwe mwamsanga kuti muwone zomwe mungapeze. Ngati atangoyamba kumene, akhoza kuleka kupanga ndikubwezera ndalama. Okonzera ena akhoza kukugulitsani kavalidwe pazomwe akubwera kudzagulitsa kapena kuchotsera. Koma ngati wopanga zovalayo sanganene kuti sangathe kukuchitirani kanthu, mumakhalabe ndi zosankha. Akazi ambiri amagulitsa madiresi awo pa ebay, pamene ena amapita kumasitolo ogulitsa katundu, kapena amangopereka zovala zawo ku chikondi. Okwatibwi angapo amatha ngakhale kutenga madiresi awo kumsika ogula zovala kuti azivala diresi kuti athe kuvala nawo maphwando!
Chochita ndi Mphatso
Mukuyenera kubwereranso zonse zomwe mwalandira, zosamba, ndi mphatso zaukwati zomwe mwalandira kwa alendo omwe adawatumizira, pamodzi ndi kalata yoyamikira chifukwa cha kuwolowa manja kwawo. Anthu ena amaganiza kuti zinthu zomwe zimagwirizanitsa okha ndizosiyana, koma popeza mwina simukusowa zikumbutso zaukwati, kodi bwanji kuopseza mnzanu? Mwinamwake mwayamba kugwiritsa ntchito zina mwa mphatso zoyambirira ngati ziwiya zakhitchini ndi zitsulo; ndipo panopa, mwina ndibwino kuti muzisunga.
Nanga Bwanji Phokoso Lokambirana?
Ngati mpheteyo inali banja lolowa nyumba, liyenera kubwerera kubanja kuti linachokera, ziribe kanthu yemwe anasiya ukwatiwo, pa chifukwa chilichonse. Ngati wolandila mpheteyo ndi amene amachotsa ukwati, ayenera kubwerera kwa woperekayo. Ngati, kumbali inayo, ndi wopereka wa mphete yemwe amaitulutsa, ndiye wolandirayo akhoza kusankha kuigulitsa, kugulitsa kapena kubwezeretsa. Ndipo, ngati awiriwa adagula phokoso palimodzi, ndiye kuti adziganiziranso zoyenera kuchita nazo, pamodzi ndi katundu wina aliyense.