Kodi ndibwino kukhala ndi anzanu? Kapena ndi bwino kukhala nokha?
Palibe yankho lolondola kapena lolakwika kufunso ili - ndipo musalole kuti aliyense akuuzeni. Ndi lingaliro laumwini lomwe anthu onse okhalamo ali ndi ufulu wopanga, ndipo yankho lanu liyenera kudalira zomwe mukufuna pa nthawi yomwe mukuyang'ana kubwereka.
Ngati mukufuna kuthandizidwa kuti mukhale ndi wokhala naye , ganizirani zifukwa zomwe anthu amachitiramo chifukwa chosankha njira imodzi.
Chifukwa Chokhala ndi Wogona
Pali zifukwa zambiri zokhala ndi wokhala naye. Onani ngati chimodzi mwa zifukwazi chikukupemphani:
- Simudzasungulumwa. Ngakhale simunayandikana ndi mnzanu wokhala naye, kukhala naye wina kumatanthauza kukhala ndi munthu wina, kotero simudzasungulumwa.
- Mupeza phindu. Kukhala ndi mnzanu wowonjezera kumangowonjezera mosavuta. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli ndi ndondomeko zosiyana, wokhala naye akhoza kudyetsa nyama yanu kapena kuthirira zomera pamene simuli kunyumba kuti muchite. Ngati mutuluka kunja kwa tawuni, mnzanuyo angakuuzeni za mauthenga ofunika omwe mumalandira.
- Inu mudzapulumutsa ndalama. Mukakhala ndi mnzanu, mumasunga ndalama m'njira zingapo. Choyamba, mutha kubwereka nyumba yaikulu yomwe ingakupatseni malo onse komanso ofunika kwambiri. Mudzagawitsanso ngongole zogwiritsira ntchito komanso mtengo wogulitsa, pakati pa zina zogulira nyumba. Komanso, ngati inu kapena mnzanuyo mumaphika (ngakhale mutangochita zofunikira), kuphika awiri (kapena atatu kapena kuposera) nthawi zambiri amasunga ndalama pophika limodzi.
- Mudzakhala ndi thandizo. Ndi wokhala naye, mungathe kugawana ntchito zapakhomo kuti mupange nyumba yanuyo. Kotero, simudzasowa kuti muzichita malonda nthawi zonse. Kapena, ngati mutakhala shopper wosankhidwa, mnzanuyo akhoza kutenga njira zina zomwe muyenera kuchita. Kugawana mauthenga kumathandiza kuwunikira katundu wa nonse awiri.
Zifukwa Zopanda Kukhala ndi Wogona
Anthu ambiri amadziwa zifukwa zokhala ndi wokhala naye koma amamva kuti zifukwa zokhala yekha zimakhala zovuta kwambiri.
Simuyenera kukhala ndi mnzanu ngati:
- Mukufuna zambiri zachinsinsi. Ngati mumakhala nokha, mutha kukhala ndi chinsinsi chambiri kuposa momwe mumakhalira ndi ena. Mwachidule, kusakhala ndi ogona nawo kumatanthauza kuti mukhoza kuchita zomwe mukufuna pamene mukufuna. Mwachitsanzo, mungathe kukhala ndi alendo pafupipafupi kapena kupita kunyumba mochedwa ndikuchoka mofulumira popanda kudera nkhaŵa za kukhumudwitsa mnzanuyo.
- Simukufuna kuika mavuto. Ngakhale kuti kukhala ndi mnzako kungakhale chondipindulitsa, pali mitundu yambiri ya mavuto omwe angabwere muukwati wokhala naye . Izi zimachokera ku mikangano ya moyo (taganizirani za mnzanu amene amakonda kusewera pagita pamene mukufunikira mtendere ndi bata kuti muphunzire kapena kugwira ntchito) pazinthu zachuma (taganizirani za mnzanu yemwe akulephera kubweza gawo lake la lendi ndi ndalama). Kukhala yekha ndi njira yokhayo yotsimikizira kuti palibe vuto lililonse limene limayamba.