Anyamata awa Ali ndi Ntchito Yeniyeni Yopanga
Kaya ukwati wanu ndi wawukulu kapena waung'ono, muyenera kudziwa udindo wa osewera . N'zosavuta kudziwa za mkwati ndi mkwatibwi: Amangowonekera, amawoneka okongola, amalonjeza malonjezo awo, ndipo amamwetulira nkhope zawo kupyolera muzochitika zonsezi. Koma bwanji za azimayi ndi othandizira ?
Ndani Akuyesera Kukhala Wachibale?
Wokwatirana ndi munthu yemwe ali wofunika kwa mkwati amene mkwati akufuna kukhala mbali yoonekera ya ukwati wake.
Angakhale bwenzi lapamtima, mbale, msuweni, kapena abambo. Masiku ano, iye akhoza ngakhale kukhala iye; Amuna ambiri akufunsa abwenzi achikazi kuti akhale mbali ya gulu lawo la atumiki (ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri amatchedwa olemekezeka, osati anthu ovala bwino, ndi kuvala diresi osati suti kapena tux).
Pazikwati zazing'ono, nthawi zambiri mumakhala munthu mmodzi yekha, ndipo amatha kugwira ntchito zonse. Iye ndiyenso ndi munthu wabwino kwambiri, ndipo ndizo zomwe amachitchula nthawi zambiri ngati iye yekhayo ali ndi groomsman. Ngati ukwatiwu ndi wawukulu, nthawi zambiri pamakhala anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana, omwe amasankhidwa kukhala munthu wabwino kwambiri. Izi nthawi zambiri ndi mchimwene wake kapena bwenzi lake lapamtima.
Pamene mkwati akufuna kukhala ndi abwenzi ake abwino komanso amuna omwe amamukonda kwambiri, ayenera kuonetsetsa kuti ali ndi gulu lomwe liri ndi udindo wokwanira kugwira ntchito zawo kapena munthu mmodzi amene akufuna sungani thukuta kwa ena.
Kuti alemekeze mabwenzi awo apamtima, okwatirana angasankhe kukhala ndi amzawo osiyana ndi othandizira. Ngati ndi choncho, ntchito ya ogwira ntchitoyo ndi kungowatengera alendo ku mipando yawo pa mwambowu.
Udindo wa Groomsman
Groomsman amachita zambiri kuposa kungoyima ndi kuyang'ana bwino. Amakhalanso mlangizi kwa mkwati, amathandiza mkwati kukhala wokonzeka, ndipo amathandiza pazomwe akukonzekera ukwati.
- Amathandiza mkwati, amamulangiza, amamvetsera mantha amodzi asanakwatirane
- Thandizani mkwati kuti asankhe zomwe azigalu azidzavala
- Amayesedwa pa sitolo yogulitsira mankhwala kapena mwamsanga amamutumizira miyeso yake ndipo amapereka kutenga ndi kubwezeretsa suti
- Amapita kuzochitika zonse zaukwati, kuphatikizapo maphwando ochita nawo phwando, madyerero alionse, phwando, ndi chakudya chamadzulo
- Amathandizira kukonzekera ndi kulipira phwando
- Ndi okwatirana, kumathandiza kukongoletsa galimoto yopulumukira
- Amapereka chikondwerero cha ukwati ndipo kawirikawiri amakhala ndi chibwenzi
- Amathandiza mkwati kumasuka ndi kuvala tsiku la ukwati
- Pokhapokha mkwati atapatukana ndi othandizana nawo, amasonyeza alendo ku mipando yawo pa mwambowu
- Gwirani mphete pa mwambowu ngati iye ali munthu wabwino kapena yekha wokhala ndi groomsman
- Kuvina ndi osowa alendo ndi alendo osakwatiwa alendo pa ukwatiwo
- Amathandizira kunyamula mphatso ndi zinthu zina pambuyo paukwati
Ndalama
Pali ndalama zambiri zomwe zimaphatikizapo kukhala wothandizana nawo.Izi ndizofunikira pa zovala zaukwati ndi chipinda chilichonse chofunikira cha maulendo ndi hotelo ya phwando ndikusunga phwando, komanso mphatso. Wolowa manja ayenera kukhala ndi malingaliro awa mu malingaliro pamene amalandira ulemu ndikukhala patsogolo ndi mkwatibwi za zomwe ali komanso sangakwanitse.
Akavomera kuti akhale wosamalira, sayenera kudandaula za mtengo. Njira zotheka kuti groomsman athe kusunga ndalama zikuphatikizapo:
- Akufunsa kuti azivala suti ali kale
- Kulemba tux yake
- Kukhala ndi abwenzi m'malo mokhala m'chipinda cha hotelo
- Kuponya phwando lachibwana (mwinamwake kanyumba paki yamapaki)
- Afunseni anthu ena kuti agwirane pamodzi kuti apereke mgwirizano