Kusokonezeka kwa chikhalidwe ndi zochitika zenizeni kwa anthu ambiri omwe amasamukira kudziko lina . Aliyense amene wakhalapo kapena kuphunzira kapena kuyendayenda kwambiri m'dziko lina adlawa ndipo adakhala ndi khalidwe linalake lachikhalidwe. Panthawi yomwe zingamveke ngati akusowa kunyumba, koma anthu ambiri omwe sanakhale nawo pulogalamu yamakono samadziwa kuti magawo amodzi akudutsa pakusintha chinenero, dziko, ndi chikhalidwe chatsopano.
Kodi Chikhalidwe Chimasokoneza Chiyani?
Kumvetsetsa chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe ndi momwe zimakhalira kudzakuthandizani kuzindikira mosavuta ndikupangitsa kuti kuyenda kwanu kukhale kosavuta.
Pulogalamu ya Oxford Dictionary imatanthauzira chikhalidwe chodabwitsa monga momwe zimawonongera chisokonezo pamene mwamsanga mwadzidzidzi muli chizoloƔezi chosadziwika kapena njira ya moyo. Ichi ndi chidule chabwino; Komabe, tiyeni tizitsuka pang'ono. Mukasamukira ku dziko latsopano , zonse sizikudziwika; nyengo, masewera, chinenero, chakudya, kavalidwe, maudindo, maudindo, miyambo, ndi kuyankhulana - makamaka, zonse zomwe mumagwiritsidwa ntchito sizinayambe.
Mudzapeza kuti tsikulo likuwonekera mosiyana, bizinesiyo imayendetsedwa mwanjira yomwe ingakhale yovuta kumvetsa, ndipo malo ogulitsira amatsegulidwa ndi kutsekedwa pa maola omwe simungayambe mumalowera. Zomwe mumapanga zimachotsedwa-kilter, fungo, mawu, ndi zokonda si zachilendo, ndipo simungathe kuyankhulana ndi anzanu - ngakhale kugula mkate.
Ichi ndi chikhalidwe chodabwitsa. Ndipo ngati mtundu uliwonse wa mantha, pali chotsimikizika ndi pafupifupi pafupifupi.
Zizindikiro za Chikhalidwe Chodabwitsa
- Kumva chisoni ndi kusungulumwa
- Kuda nkhawa kwambiri ndi thanzi lanu
- Mutu, ululu, ndi chifuwa
- Kusagona kapena kugona kwambiri
- Kupsya mtima, kuvutika maganizo, ndi kuvutika
- Kukonzekera chikhalidwe chanu
- Kuyesera kwambiri kuti musinthe ndikukhala okhudzidwa ndi chikhalidwe chatsopano
- Mavuto ochepa kwambiri amaoneka ngati ovuta
- Amanyazi kapena osatetezeka
- Khalani okhudzidwa ndi ukhondo
- Kusokonezeka kunyumba
- Kumverera kuti watayika kapena wosokonezeka
- Kufunsa funso lanu kuti musamukire kumalo ano
Malo Osungirako Chimwemwe
Monga chidziwitso china chatsopano, mumakhala wokondwa pamene mukuyamba ku dziko latsopano ndipo mukuchita mantha ndi kusiyana komwe mumawona ndikukumana nazo. Mumamva kukhala okondwa, olimbikitsidwa, ndi opindulitsa. Panthawiyi, mumakhalabe pafupi ndi zonse zomwe mukuzidziwa kunyumba.
Mavuto Osautsa
Chilichonse chomwe mukukumana nacho sichimakhalanso chatsopano; Ndipotu, ndikuyamba kumva ngati khoma lakuda zomwe zikukulepheretsani kuwona zinthu. Mumasokonezeka, nokha, ndipo mumadziwa kuti machitidwe omwe akudziwika bwino sapezeka mosavuta.
Kubwereranso Gawo
Panthawi imeneyi, mumayamba kukana kuvomereza kwanu. Mukukwiyitsa, kukhumudwa, ndipo ngakhale kumenyana ndi anthu oyandikana nawo. Mukuyamba kulingalira moyo "kunyumba" ndikuyerekezera chikhalidwe chanu chachizolowezi. Simukukonda chikhalidwe, chinenero, ndi chakudya. Mukuzikana ngati zochepa.
Mwina mungakhale ndi tsankho pa chikhalidwe chatsopano.
Musadandaule. Izi ndi zachilendo. Mukusintha. Izi ndizochita zachizoloƔezi zabwino zatsopano. Ganiziraninso pamene mudayambitsa ntchito yatsopano kapena mutasamukira ku nyumba yatsopano kapena mumzinda watsopano kapena mukakhala ndi munthu wina. Kusintha kulikonse kungakuchititseni kuyang'ana mmbuyo mwa mantha ndikudabwa chifukwa chake munasankha chisinthiko.
Autonomy Stage
Iyi ndi gawo loyamba pakuvomerezeka. Ndi malo oyamba pamene mukuyamba kukwera pamwamba pa mitambo ndikuyamba kumverera ngati nokha. Mukuyamba kuvomereza kusiyana ndikumverera ngati mungayambe kukhala nawo. Mumakhala otsimikiza kwambiri ndipo mumatha kulimbana ndi mavuto omwe angabwere. Simukudzimva kuti muli nokha, ndipo mumatha kuyang'ana dziko lozungulira ndikudziwe komwe muli.
Udindo Wodziimira
Ndiwe wekha kachiwiri!
Mumalandira chikhalidwe chatsopano ndikuwona zonse ziri zatsopano, koma zowoneka bwino. Mumakhala omasuka, okhulupirira, komanso otha kupanga zosankha mogwirizana ndi zomwe mumakonda. Simukudzimva nokha nokha. Mumayamikira kusiyana ndi kufanana kwa chikhalidwe chanu chatsopano. Mumayamba kumva kwanu.
Mmene Mungadzithandizire
Pali zinthu zingapo zomwe mungachite kuti muthandize nokha kupyolera muzochitika za chikhalidwe. Choyamba, yesetsani kuthamangirako ndipo m'malo mwake mutumikizane ndi gulu, yesetsani gulu la masewera, kudzipereka, kupita ku tchalitchi, kapena kuphunzira chinenero. Kusonkhana ndi anthu atsopano ndikukakamiza kukhala gawo la anthu ammudzi kudzakuthandizani kudutsa muzengerezi.
Komanso, ndikofunikira pamene mukukhazikika kudziko lanu latsopano kuti mutsimikizire kuti malo anu akukhala bwino komanso omasuka. Kukhazikika m'nyumba yatsopano ndi chimodzimodzi m'dziko lachilendo monga momwe zilili m'dziko lanu. Tengani nthawi yomwe mumayenera kumverera bwino.
Tulukani. Yendani kuzungulira malo anu atsopano . Awonetsedwe. Sungani. Pitani ku ofesi imodzi ya khofi kapena sitolo ya masitolo kapena msika. Posachedwa mudzazindikiridwa. Palibe chomwe chimati muli kunyumba, monga mnansi akuti "bwino m'mawa" m'chinenero chilichonse.
Pitani pa maulendo. Khalani alendo mumzinda wanu womwe. Lowani pa maulendo apanyumba. Dziwani mudzi wanu, mbiri yake, ndi chikhalidwe chanu. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale woyendetsa polojekiti, ndipo potsiriza, gawo la ufulu.