Ngati panopa mukukonzekera ukwati, mwinamwake mwawerenga nkhani zambiri zomwe mukugawana nazo zomwe muyenera kuzichita ndipo muyenera kuchita pomwe mukukonzekera tsiku lanu lalikulu. Chinthu chimodzi chomwe sichiri chofunikira kwambiri? Ukwati umakonda. Kuyankhula momveka bwino, sikofunikira kapena kufunika ndi njira iliyonse, kotero ngati muli ndi bajeti yovuta musamangokhalira kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zomwe simungakhale nazo pa tchotchke yokongoletsera yomwe ingathe kutha. Ngati mukusankha pakati pa chinthu chomwe chingawathandize kwambiri alendo ndi zomwe zimakondweretsa ukwati, timalangiza kusankha zakale.
Komabe, ngati mwakhala mukugawa chizindikiro chochepa cha kuyamikira kwanu ndi alendo omwe adayenda kuchokera kutali ndi kutali kuti akakondwere ndi inu, izi ndizo zomwe mumachita komanso zomwe simukuyenera kuzidziwa. Pano, malingaliro ena ochokera kwa ogulitsa achikwati omwe akhalapo, akuwona zonse, ndipo amakhalapo kuti akambirane nkhani yaukwati yomwe yachita zolakwika ndi zomwe zinachitidwa bwino.
01 a 08
MUSO: Khalani ndi Mphoto kunja kwa Ntchito
Ngati mukufunafuna kukondana kwaukwati chifukwa mumamva ngati mukuyenera, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti muziwawombera kwathunthu. Mukuwachitira kale alendo anu madzulo, zosangalatsa, zakumwa, ndi kuvina, choncho mphatso yolekanitsa siidayenela.
"Musamve chisoni ngati mukumva kuti muli ochepa pa nthawi (kapena bajeti) kuti mukhale osangalatsa kwambiri. Kodi ndizokondweretsa kuwonjezera pa ukwatiwu? Ndithudi, dziko lapansi lidzatha ngati anthu sadzasiya ndi ndikukonda? - Paula Ramirez, Mbiri ya Mankin Mansion
Zomwe zikunenedwa, ngati mukufunadi kupereka alendo anu okondedwa, pali zambiri zosakwera ukwati zokonda kuganizira. Mukhoza kuwapatsa kanthu kakang'ono ndikudya, monga maswiti kapena cookie. Sichiyenera kukhala chinthu chophweka, chabe chochepa cha chikondi chanu ndi kuyamikira!
02 a 08
CHOCHITA: Sankhani Chinachake Chothandiza
"Ndizo zokha zokha zokondweretsa ngati zili ndi tanthauzo kwa inu! Zilibe masiku omwe alendo anu akuyenera kuchoka ndi chinthu china. Chinthu choyenera kukhala chinthu choyenera kukumbukira ukwati ndi mphatso kwa alendo. Zomwe zakuchitikirani ndi njira yabwino kuposa chinthu chopanda tanthawuzo. " -Alex Chalk, Taylor'd Events
Chalk imasonyezanso kugwiritsa ntchito mayeso a litmus kuti ukwati wanu uzikonda maganizo. Ngati mulibe chiyanjano chaukwati chomwe chimayimilira kuti ndinu ndani kapena muli ndi gawo lapadera la umunthu wanu, ndiye pangani kusunthira ndalama zanu ku gawo lina la bajeti yanu. "Kodi mungachite chiyani kuti alendo awathandize kukhala omasuka kapena kuwonjezera chinthu china chosangalatsa? Sinthani ndalama kuchithunzi monga Photo Booth, caricature artist, poem artist kapena kulipira gulu kuti muphunzire koleji nkhondo nyimbo."
03 a 08
ZIMENE MUNGACHITE: Ganizirani za Mphatso Yothandiza
Ngati mukukumana ndi chisokonezo chifukwa cha zowonongeka, ganizirani zopereka polemekeza chikondi chomwe mumakonda kapena chifukwa m'malo mwa alendo omwe angatenge kunyumba. Mphatso yothandizira ndi mphatso yamtengo wapatali yomwe imabweretsa nkhuni, makamaka ngati musankha chikondi chomwe chimatanthauza chinachake kwa inu, patokha.
Tengani tsamba kuchokera mu bukhu la awiriwa. Ndemanga ya Kevin Dennis ya Fantasy Sound Event Services inafotokozera nkhaniyi ya banja lina lomwe adagwira ntchito ndi omwe anaganiza zopumula chisomo chaukwati ndipo m'malo mwake amapereka gawolo la bajeti ku chikondi:
"Mkwati ndi mkwatibwi sankakonda lingaliro loti apereke chisomo kuti alendo awo sangagwiritse ntchito kwenikweni ndipo mwina akhoza kutayika ... kotero zomwe iwo anachita ndi mkwati ndi mkwatibwi aliyense adasankha chikondi chawo chomwe amachikonda ndipo adapereka ndalama zomwe ndalama pakati pa zothandizira ziwirizi. Zinali zopotoka - alendowo adayenera kusankha chomwe chiwerengero cha ndalamazo chinkaperekedwa kwa chikondi. Panali tebulo ndi tebulo lokoma lomwe linali ndi zipilala ziwiri kuti liyimire chikondi chilichonse, ndipo alendo adasankha chifukwa cha chikondi chawo. "
04 a 08
CHOCHITA: Sankhani Chinachake Chothandiza
Ngati muli m'ndende, yang'anani kusankha chisomo chaukwati chomwe chili chothandiza kwa alendo anu pambuyo pa tsiku laukwati.
"Makandulo amakomera kwambiri alendo, chifukwa amadzikonda mosavuta komanso amapanga zokondweretsa (kunyumba yachikwati!) Kunyumba. M'malo mowapatsa alendo ndi chinachake chimene angayang'ane kamodzi ndikuiwala, kuwatumiza kunyumba ndi makandulo akutanthauza kuti adzakumbukira ukwati wanu nthawi zonse pamene akuwunika. " - Audrey Isaac wa makandulo 100
Isake akupangira makandulo ndi makandulo onunkhira kwambiri ngati mukukonzekera makandulo kwa alendo anu okwatirana. "Aliyense ali ndi zokonda zosiyana siyana ndipo ena akhoza kukhala ndi chifuwa chachikulu. Mukhozanso kulingalira kuti mupeze makandulo a soya kapena a sera, omwe ali osowa bwino m'magulu osonkhana."
Kuti mudziwe zambiri, pezani kandulo yanu ndi makina ovomerezeka payekha kuti mutsirize. Mukhoza kumanga ndi twine kapena nsalu yokongola yomwe ikugwirizana ndi maukwati anu - alendo anu adzakondanso kuwonjezera.
05 a 08
MUSO: Pangani Zokonda Zanu Zanu
Ngati mukukonzekera kupereka chakudya chokwanira, Paula Ramirez akuchenjeza kuti musadzipange nokha. "Nthawi zonse anthu okwatirana amangoganizira zachangu pa mlungu wawo." Mwamwayi, muyenera kusunga mwatsatanetsatane pazinthu zomwe mukuzipatsa alendo kuti adye, kotero simungathe kusamalira polojekitiyi nthawi yayitali. Malingana ndi chomwe chinthucho chiri, ambiri amadya omwe amafunika kuti azipangidwanso ndi kusungidwa tsiku lomwelo kapena ngakhale tsiku la ukwatiwo.
Ramirez akunena kuti mwinamwake mudzapeza nokha popanda nthawi yokonzekera ndi phukusi lodzikonda nokha tsiku lisanadze ukwati wanu. Zingakhalenso zovuta kulembera anzanu ndi abwenzi anu, chifukwa amakhalanso otanganidwa ndi ntchito zina zisanachitike. Ngati mwakhala ndi mitima yanu pa zokondweretsa za ukwati , ganizirani kuchotsa pulojekitiyi chifukwa cha inu nokha, komanso kuti anthu omwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndi inu.
Izi zikunenedwa, ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito tsiku lotsogolera kapena wothandizira utumiki wanu, uwu ndi ntchito yomwe mungapereke kwa iwo, pamene mukupulumuka ndalama pang'ono pogula katundu wanu nokha. Tikhoza kumaphatikizira ku chinthu chophweka ngati mukufuna kukwera njirayi, ngati buledi yamasipi .
06 ya 08
ZIMENE MUNGACHITE: Ganizirani za Kufotokozera ndi Kugawidwa kwa Othandizira Anu
Pitirizani kukumbukira momwe angaperekere alendo anu komanso nthawi yanji. Kuwayika pa matebulo a alendo ndi njira yanu yabwino kwambiri yotsimikizira kuti pali zambiri kwa aliyense. Kumbukirani kugula 20 peresenti kuposa chiwerengero cha alendo ngati muli ndi mipando yambiri, kotero pali imodzi pampando uliwonse.
Mwinamwake mukukonzekera kukondweretsa ukwati wanu muwonetsedwe wapadera ndi osangalatsa - malingana ndi zomwe mumakonda ndi izi zomwe zingapangitse malo okongola kwambiri ndi ndondomeko ya ukwati wanu. Ndikofunika kuonetsetsa kuti wojambula zithunzi akujambula zithunzi zanu musanalowe alendo anu.
Mukasankha kupereka zokondweretsa pamene alendo anu achoka, mungaganizire mwina kukhala ndi wina woyang'anira kuti mlendo aliyense amangotenga imodzi, kapena kugula zambiri kwa alendo omwe akugwira zambiri kuposa gawo lawo.
07 a 08
ZIMENE MUNGACHITE: Ganizirani za Chilengedwe
Ambiri okwatirana amachotsedwa kuukwati chifukwa cha zowonongeka, choncho ganizirani kunja kwa bokosi ndikuganiziranso zokondweretsa zokondweretsa ukwati. Taganizirani zachitsamba chokhala ngati mapepala okongola, kapena mapepala (monga awa ochokera ku Botanical Paperworks) omwe mungathe kulemba mawu osavuta. Alendo anu akhoza kubzala chisomo chanu mumphika ndikuwonetsetsa maluwa akutha kumera pambuyo pa tsiku lanu lalikulu!
Mu mitsempha yomweyo, onetsetsani kupewa zinthu zomwe zimapanga zowonjezereka kapena siziphweka mosavuta. Timalimbikitsanso kupeĊµa kukongoletsa pa zokondweretsa zaukwati chifukwa zimapangitsa kuti pakhale paliponse, zomwe zimachititsa kuti alendo anu asangalale popanda.
Tikamayankhula za chilengedwe, sitinena zokha zokhazokha, timatanthauzanso zomwe mukuwonetsera kapena kugawira ukwati wanu. Ngati phwando lanu liri kunja, kumbukirani kuti zokonda zanu sizikutentha. Izi ndi zofunika kwambiri pa zakudya zilizonse zomwe simukufuna kuti alendo anu asungunuke!
08 a 08
ZIMENE MUMACHITA
Ziribe kanthu zomwe mumasankha ngati zokondweretsa, kapena ngakhale mutasankha kuwadumpha, muyeneradi kupeza njira yogawira zokoma ndi alendo anu. Gwiritsani ntchito ngati njira yakuwathokoza chifukwa chokondwerera nanu ndikuwonetsa kuyamikira kwanu chifukwa cha chikondi ndi chithandizo chawo. Kusungulumwa pang'ono kumangopita kutali.
Mukumverera kuti mukugwedezeka pa zomwe mulemba pa zokondweretsa zanu zaukwati? Ngati mukuyang'ana kudzoza, yang'anani malingaliro opangira mawu okonda ukwati. Chikondwerero chanu chaukwati kapena mawu oyamikira sichiyenera kukhala buku lalitali kwambiri, choncho muzimasuka kusunga mwachidule, zokoma, ndi-mfundo. Okondedwa anu adzalandira kuyesetsa ndi kuvomereza.