Imodzi mwa nthawi zazikulu m'moyo wanu ndi pamene mumakonzekera ukwati kapena mukufunsidwa. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa nthawi zosangalatsa komanso zosaiŵalika zomwe mwinamwake mungakhale nazo. Pali zovuta zambiri kuti zikhale bwino. Ingokumbukirani, palibe lingaliro langwiro, basi chomwe chiri changwiro kwa inu nonse. Khalani nawo mbali yofunika kwambiri m'malingaliro: onetsetsani kuti muli m'chikondi komanso mumasankha munthu woyenera!
Nazi malingaliro ndi momwe mungapangire ukwati wanu kukhala chosaiwalika ndi chosangalatsa:
- Ngakhale kuti zingawoneke ngati mwambo wamtunduwu, dziwani bwino za apongozi anu am'tsogolo kuti mudziwe ngati angakufunseni ngati mukufuna kupempha ukwati. Ndi bwino kulakwitsa pambali yochenjeza ngati simukudziwa ndikufunsa azimayi ndi abambo chilolezo. Mukhozanso kupempha kholo lomwe mzanu wam'tsogolo ali pafupi kwambiri (mwachitsanzo, kholo la bambo kapena agogo ake omwe anamulera).
- Dziwani zokwanira za mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wam'tsogolo kotero kuti mutha kupanga chidziwitso chabwino komanso chothandiza. Simukufuna kum'tengera kumunda wamphesa kuti akafunse ngati ali mu AA kapena ku paki yamapikisano ngati akuyendetsa matenda, chabwino! Ganizirani zokonda / zosakondeka za mnzanuyo, zokonda, ntchito zamakono ndi zina zotero. Inunso mudzafuna chinthu chodabwitsa. Kotero, mwinamwake kuchita chinthu chomwe iwe mwachizolowezi kumachita sikungamupangitse iye kumusiya.
- Sankhani ngati mukufuna kugula mphete yothandizana nayo musanayambe kapena mutasankha kukwatirana. Zingamveke zosamvetsetseka kuti mulibe mphete, koma ziri bwino ngati mukufuna kuti bwenzi lanu lamtsogolo lidzatenge mpheteyo. Izi zingakhale mbali yosangalatsa kwambiri yopezekapo. Mukamagula mphete yothandizira, onetsetsani kuti mulibe bajeti kapena ndalama.
- Samalani nthawi. Osakonzekeretsa kukonzekera ukwati ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wam'tsogolo akukakamizidwa kapena kukhumudwa.
- Sankhani chinachake chimene sichikumbukika panthawi ya chiyanjano chanu. Mwachitsanzo, malo ena, kumvetsera nyimbo inayake, kapena nthawi yomwe mumakumana naye poyamba, kumpsompsonana, mumakhala ndi tsiku lanu loyamba, ndi zina zotero.
- Muzilankhulana mwachikondi pazomwe mukufuna kukwatirana. Ngati muli ndi nkhondo tsiku limenelo kapena chinachake choipa chikuchitika mosayembekezereka, mungafune kusiya pempho ngati n'kotheka. Ngati muli ndi vuto lodziwa chomwe chiri chikondi, werengani pamutu kapena pa bukhu.
- Sitikulimbikitsidwa kuti muchite chinachake chopusa (monga kumangiriza mphete yothandizira ku chingwe cha kite kapena nsomba), muyenera kuyesetsa kuti ukwati wanu ukhale wosangalatsa. Ngati musankha njira yopusa, onetsetsani kuti bwenzi lanu kapena bwenzi lanu ali ndi masewera.
- Pitirizani kukondweretsa ukwati wanu. Zowonjezereka kwambiri zokhuza ukwati ndizo, zinthu zomwe zingasokonezeke ndi zomwe mukukonzekera!
- Onetsetsani kuti musataye mphete yothandizira ngati mutagula imodzi ndikuibisa. Anthu ena amabisa mphete yothandizira bwino kwambiri moti sangathe kuipeza. Gulani inshuwalansi musanatulutsenso m'masitolo odzola!
- Ndibwino kuti banja lanu lizikhala lapadera. Kulongosola pamaso pa banja la mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wam'tsogolo kapena pa masewera a masewera kungakhale kosangalatsa mu mafilimu, koma m'moyo weniweni, ndi bwino kusunga ukwati wanu pakati pa awiriwa.
Kumbukirani:
- Nthawi zina maganizo anu okwatirana amatha kukana. Konzekerani izi ndipo dzipangire nokha.
- Ganizirani zambiri panthawiyi kusiyana ndi mphete yothandizira ndi zina zakunja zomwe zikutsutsana ndi pempholi.
- Yesetsani kuti musapereke malingaliro anu powonetsa momwe mukuchitira mantha.
Chimene mukusowa:
- Ndondomeko
- Malo
- Ngongole yothandizira
- Chikondi chochuluka, chidaliro komanso chisangalalo
Mwinanso mungakonde kuwerengera: Kodi simukuyenera kuchita? , Kodi Ndinu Wokonzeka Kukwatirana? , Kodi Ndingasankhe Bwanji Wolondola?
* Nkhani yasinthidwa ndi Marni Feuerman
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