Kukhala Atate wa Mkwatibwi ndi ntchito yaikulu kwa pafupifupi bambo aliyense. Laden wokhala ndi maganizo komanso ndi chidwi chofuna kukumbukira zabwino (komanso ndi wojambula zithunzi pazochitika zonse), maukwati angapangitse abambo abwino kuti azikhala ndi thukuta lozizira. Ndizodabwitsa kuona mwana wanu akukula, kukwatira ndi kuyamba banja lake, koma zochitika zokhudzana ndi ukwati wonse zingathe kuwonetsedwa ndi ngozi ndi zovuta.
Tsiku la ukwati wokha lingakhale vuto lalikulu kwambiri kwa abambo. Chikhalidwe chachikulu cha chochitikachi chingakhale chodabwitsa. Kufika pomaliza kuzindikira kuti mwana wanu adzakhala mbali ya moyo watsopano ndipo banja latsopano lingakhale lolimba. Ndipo zimakhala zovuta ngati simukukonda kwambiri mpongozi wanu.
Kupatsa Mwana Wanu Wamwamuna
Chizolowezi cha abambo kupereka mwana wake wamkazi chimakhala ndi maziko ake kuyambira masiku a mabwenzi otetezeka komanso okwatirana. Ana aakazi ankaonedwa kuti ndi "chuma" cha bambo wawo: ndipo bamboyo anali woyenera kupereka mwana wake kwa mkwati. M'zinthu zina, mkwati "adagula" ufulu wake kwa mkwatibwi.
Mwamwayi, nthawi ndi miyambo zasintha kwambiri, koma chikhalidwe chimapitirizabe chizindikiro kuti amavomereza ukwatiwo.
Sikuti bambo ndi mwana aliyense adzafuna kutenga gawoli, ngakhale kuti bambo akuyenda mwana wake pansi pa kanjirayo amavomereza bwino ndipo nthawi zina amakhudza mbali ya mwambowu.
Tsopano, zidzakuwoneka ngati inu, Adadi, mukuyika mwana wanu mwanjira yeniyeni ndi mophiphiritsira m'manja ndi chisamaliro cha munthu yemwe sali wokonzeka kulandira udindo. Koma ndi chizindikiro chodabwitsa cha apongozi anu atsopano ndipo chiyenera kuchitidwa mwachifundo.
Nanga Bwanji Miyambo Yachikhalidwe?
Abambo ena amamva ngati mwana wawo wamwamuna komanso wokondedwa wake akulemba malumbiro awo , kapena akwatirana pamwamba pa phiri kapena kwinakwake.
Maganizo amenewo ndi omveka. Koma nkofunika kuti abambo ambiri "ayambe kuyenda" popanda chitetezo chiri pangozi. Mwachitsanzo, mosasamala kanthu kuti ndimakonda mwana wanga bwanji, sindikanapita ku phwando limene limaphatikizapo kutuluka. Choncho tengani msewu wapamwamba pano ndipo mulole mwana wanu wamkazi, mayi ake ndi mkwati ndi amayi ake apite.
The Toast or Speech
Chikondwerero chokwanira paukwati ndicho kukhala ndi phwando laukwati limodzi kuti azichita chakudya chamadzulo kapena mwambo waukwati wa tsiku lotsatira. Bambo wa mkwatibwi amayenera kutenga mbali yaikulu pa pulogalamuyi pokhapokha atagwiridwa. Muzinthu zambiri zoterezi, kaya pa chakudya chamadzulo kapena paukwati, munthu wabwino kwambiri akuwombera mkwatibwi, mzimayi wolemekezeka akukweza mkwati, ndipo abambo a mkwatibwi amapereka chofufumitsa kwa banjali .
Zotsatirazi ndi mndandanda wa zojambula zaukwati zomwe sizichitika ndi webusaiti Yomwe Yatulutsidwa.
1. Konzekerani. Sankhani omwe akugwiritsanso ntchito mankhwalawa, momwe mungayankhire komanso zomwe munganene bwino musanakwatirane.
2. Khalani owona mtima. Gwiritsani ntchito mawu anu omwe ndi kulankhula kuchokera pansi pamtima. Izi zidzakhala zosavuta kukumbukira ndikutanthauza zambiri kwa anthu awiriwa kusiyana ndi chikhomo chomwe chimabwereka kuchokera m'buku.
3. Khalani mwachidule. Sungani tochi mkati mwa mphindi ziwiri kapena zitatu mphindi.
(Eya, aliyense angathe kuloweza pamtima mphindi ziwiri.)
4. Muzikhala osamala. Musamachite manyazi manyazi pa tsiku lawo lapadera. Mtima wa mkwati wosweka kuchokera kwa bwenzi lakale, ntchito yamphuno ya mkwatibwi, maukwati oyambirira, zomwe zinachitika pa chipinda cha bachelor kapena bachelorette, zonse ziyenera kukhala zotsalira.
5. Muziyamikira. Pambuyo pake, cholinga chonse cha chotupa ndi kunena zabwino za anthu omwe akulemekezedwa.
6. Muzichita. Muzichita zojambulajambula, pamaso pa galasilo, opanda zolemba zanu. (Kumbukirani kuti ngati muli ndi galasi m'dzanja limodzi ndi maikolofoni mumzake, mungafunikire dzanja lachitatu kuti muwerenge kuchokera pazinthu zanu !!)
7. Khalani omveka bwino. Mitsempha ndi kukumbukira sikuthandizidwa ndi mowa. Pewani mizimu mpaka mutapambana bwinobwino.
8. Khalani okoma mtima. Sungani champagne wanu.
Ukwati wamapikisano sikumenyana ndi chikwama. Galasi yanu siyifunikira kuti ikhale yotsitsimuka pambuyo pa toast iliyonse. Ndiponso, magalasi a clinking kapena vinyo ayenera kuchitidwa mosamala. Mosiyana ndi makoswe a mowa, kristalo ndi yovuta.
9. Khalani ogwirizana. Yang'anani pa banja ndi alendo pamene mukuyankhula pang'onopang'ono komanso momveka bwino.
10. Khalani okongola. Kumbukirani kukweza galasi yanu palimodzi ndikupukuta galasi yanu kumapeto kwa toast.