Kodi munayamba mwadzipeza mutayikapo kanthu kena kamene munganene pamene amayi a munthu wina amene mumadziwa amachoka? Kodi mukudandaula kuti ngati mutanena chinachake , zidzakuchitikirani njira yolakwika? Izi nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta ndipo zimatha kupanga ngakhale chilankhulo cholunjika kwambiri. Koma mukudziwa kuti mukufunikira kunena chinachake kuti mumve chisoni ndikuwonetsa kuti mumasamala, ziribe kanthu momwe zingakhalire zovuta.
Sizomwe zimakhala zosavuta kubwera ndi mau abwino pamene mnzanu ataya wokondedwa.
Kutayika kwa amayi kumakhala kovulaza, ngakhale kwa akuluakulu, kotero khalani ndi nthawi yoganizira zomwe mukufuna kunena musanayambe kutsegula pakamwa panu kapena kulembera mawu omvera omvera . Gwetsani malingaliro ena, tengani gawo kuchokera pa zomwe mwalemba, ndiyeno mubwerere ndipo muwerenge mokweza. Musatengere nthawi yayitali - tsiku limodzi kapena awiri pafupipafupi - koma musathamangire mwina.
Pitani
Ngati munthu amene amayi ake anamwalira ndi mnzanu wapamtima, mukufuna kumuchezera kuti asonyeze kuti mumamukonda. Perekani chitonthozo mwa kungokhala komweko. Muloleni amudziwe kuti simukufuna kuthamanga, koma mudzakhalapo ngati akufuna kulankhula. Limbikitsani kuchita ntchito yomwe angawope, monga kuyeretsa chipinda kapena aderese zikomo zikalata zanu za maluwa .
Ngati munthu amene wataya amayi ake si bwenzi lapamtima, mungafune kuitanitsa. Lankhulani chifundo chanu mwachidule momwe zingathere, perekani thandizo lanu ndi chirichonse chimene mukufuna kuchita, ndi kuchoka pafoni kuti ena athe kudutsa.
Nthawi zonse ndibwino kupita ku maliro kukapereka thandizo kwa opulumuka. Komabe, ngati simungathe kupezekapo , mulole munthuyo adziwe kuti maganizo anu ndi mapemphero anu ali ndi banja.
Tumizani Chidziwitso kapena Khadi
Tumizani chidwi kapena khadi kwa munthuyo mwamsanga. Muzisunga mwachidule koma tanthauzo.
Nazi zitsanzo za zomwe mungathe kuzilemba:
Wokondedwa Martha,
Ndikupepesa kumva za imfa yanu. Amayi anu anali amodzi okongola kwambiri omwe ndakhala nawo. Nthawi zonse anali ndi kumwetulira kwabwino komanso moni wochezeka pamene ndinamuwona. Chonde musazengereze kuyitana ngati mukufuna chilichonse.
Chikondi,
Jane
Sylvia wokondedwa,
Pepani kumva za amayi anu akudutsa. Ayenera kuti anali wonyada ndi inu ndi zonse zomwe munachita. Ndipatseko foni pamene mumamva ngati mukuyankhula.
Pemphero lanu,
Alena
Wokondedwa George,
Ndikufuna kutumiza chifundo changa pa imfa ya amayi anu. Nthawi zonse ndinkakonda kumva nkhani zomwe munali nawo m'chipinda cham'chipinda, makamaka zomwe amayi anu adaphika ma cookies kwa ana onse oyandikana nawo. Ndikudziwa kuti adzasowa.
Wogwira naye ntchito ndi bwenzi,
James
Thandizo Lopereka
Ambiri omwe amasiya amayi awo amayamikira zopereka zothandizira, ngakhale atakana. Zimatonthoza kudziwa kuti anthu amasamalira mokwanira kutenga nthawi yochita chinachake.
Zinthu zina zomwe mungapereke ndikuphatikizapo zakudya, kugwiritsa ntchito njira, kapena kuthandiza pamaliro . Ngati munthuyo ali ndi ana, mungapereke ngakhale kwa ana. Musamve kupweteka kwanu ngati munthuyo akukutsutsani. Muloleni iyeyo adziwe kuti zopereka zanu zikuyimira.
Pambuyo pa Msonkhano
Aliyense atasiya maliro, zinthu zina zamasiku ano zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kwa banja la womwalirayo.
Izi ndizofunika nthawi zambiri pamene akusowa thandizo.
Nazi zina zomwe mungachite kuti muthandize:
- Thandizo lithetsere mavuto ena. Anthu ambiri amadutsa mu maliro a amayi awo. Komabe, mutatha, maganizo amabwerera, ndipo izi zikhoza kukhala pamene mnzanu akufunikiradi wina.
- Fufuzani ndi kufunsa ngati pali chilichonse chimene mungachite. Lolani bwenzi lanu kuti abweretse zomwe zimabwera m'maganizo chifukwa palibe wina amene amadziwa momwe akumvera. Mvetserani ndi kuyankha mafunso owongoka kapena pempho lothandizidwa.
- Thandizani kuthandizira ndi zina mwazochita. Izi zimaphatikizapo zinthu monga kuyeretsa nyumba, kuphika, kuyenda ana ku sitima ya basi, kapena kugula zakudya. Kuchita zimenezi kudzamuthandiza kuganiza bwino kudzera m'mabuku omwe amadza ndi kutaya amayi ake.
- Thandizani kupanga zinthu zanu. Ngati bwenzi lanu liyenera kupyolera mu zinthu za amayi ake, mukhoza kupereka thandizo. Izi zingaphatikizepo kusankha mwapang'onopang'ono kudzera mu katundu wake kapena kupyolera mu mapepala ofunika okhudzana ndi inshuwalansi ndi malo ake.
Bwererani ku Chizolowezi
Pakatha masabata angapo, yesetsani kubwereranso kuntchito zowonongeka ndi mnzanu, podziwa kuti adakali ndi chisoni chimene chingathe kwa nthawi yayitali. Zosokoneza zingamupatse mpumulo wofunikira kwambiri kuchokera kukumverera kwanthawi zonse.
Tsiku lobadwa, Maholide, ndi Chikumbutso cha Kutaya
Masiku ena akubwera adzakhala ovuta kwambiri kuposa ena. Anthu ambiri amavutika ndi melancholia pa tsiku lakubadwa kwa amayi awo, Tsiku la Amayi , pa maholide , komanso pa tsiku limene akupita. Tengani nthawi yolemba kalata masiku amenewo kuti musonyeze kuti mukuganiza za mnzanuyo. Limbikitseni kuti mumutenge kukadya kapena kupita ku kanema kuti muthe kuchepetsa chisoni. Komabe, muyeneranso kukhala wokonzeka kulankhula ndi kukumbutsani ngati zomwe mnzanu akufuna.