Kodi mwaphunzira za imfa ya wachibale kapena wachibale wapamtima? Kodi mumadzipeza ngati mutasokonezeka ndi mawu pamene muyesa kuganizira momwe mungasonyezere chitonzo chanu ? Simuli nokha. Kulemba malingaliro anu nthawi ino yachisoni ndi kulira kungakhale kovuta.
Imodzi mwa mauthenga ovuta kwambiri kulemba ndi amodzi omwe amasonyeza chifundo kwa munthu amene wataya wokondedwa wake, kaya ndi wachibale, mnzanga, kapena chiweto chokondedwa .
Komabe, pali nthawi pamene ndi chinthu choyenera kuchita, ndipo muyenera kuimirira.
Kumbukirani kuti munthu amene akulandirayo sakuyesa zolemba zanu kapena akuganizira za inu panthawiyi. Cholinga cha khadi ndicho kupereka chitonthozo kwa munthuyo pamapeto pake. Tengani nthawi yoti mulembe ndi kutumiza khadi mwamsanga mutatha kumva nkhani za kutaya kwa munthuyo. Tsamba ili ndi lokha ngati liri lolembedwa.
Maonekedwe Oyenera a Chifundo Dziwani
Ndi bwino kulembera kalata wanu wachifundo ndikuiyika mu makalata m'malo moitumiza kudzera pa imelo. Mungaphatikizepo mphatso yamalingaliro yeniyeni pamodzi ndi cholemba chanu, ngakhale sizofunikira. Pezani khadi labwino kapena gwiritsani ntchito mabuku anu abwino ndikulemba ndi pensulo. Yambani polemba pepala pa pepala lozoloŵera musanayambe mawu pa khadi lomaliza. Simuyenera kulemba masamba ndi masamba; kalata yanu ingakhale yachidule, malinga ngati ikuchokera pansi pamtima.
Zimene Muyenera Kulemba Mukumvera Dziwani
Pano pali zinthu zosawerengeka zomwe zingaphatikizepo mukumvera chisoni:
- Mukamalemba uthenga wachifundo , kumbukirani kuti sikuyenera kukhala tome yakale yomwe imathamangidwanso ponena za wakufayo. Musayesere kuperekapo tanthauzo la chifukwa chake munthuyo wapita. Mfundo yofunika kwambiri ndi kulola wolandirayo kudziwa kuti mukumuganizira komanso kuti mumasamalira mokwanira kutumiza khadi.
- Uthenga ukhoza kukhala mawu osavuta-amodzi a chiganizo cha chifundo, monga "Ndikupepesa kumva za imfa ya amalume ako." Izi zingagwiritsidwe ntchito kwa munthu amene simukumudziwa bwino, monga wothandizira bizinesi kapena wodziwa naye.
- Kwa munthu amene mumam'dziwa bwino, mwinamwake mungafune kuwonjezera kukumbukira za wakufayo. Musaope kunena nthawi yodabwitsa kapena yosangalatsa. Wolandirayo adzayamikira kumwetulira kudzera misonzi pa kukumbukira nthawi yapadera pa moyo wa wokondedwa.
- Ngati wokondedwayo anafa pangozi monga ngozi ya galimoto, munthuyo angakhale akudabwa kwambiri. Sungani mawuwa mwachidule, koma perekani kuchita chinachake chothandizira kuthandizira. Ndiyeno tsatirani.
- Muloleni munthuyo adziwe kuti ali m'maganizo ndi mapemphero anu. Ngati mukuona kuti munthuyo sakufuna kuti apemphereredwe, mukhoza kusiya kutchula mapemphero. Ngakhale mutasankha kupempherera munthuyo, kumbukirani kuti izi ndi za munthu yemwe mumamutumizira khadi-osati za inu.
- Tsekani kalatayo ndi chithandizo . Izi zikhoza kukhala kubweretsa chakudya, kumudziwitsa munthuyo kuti mumapezeka pazokambirana pa khofi, kapena kufuna kuthandiza ndi ntchito. Mungathe kunena momveka bwino za zomwe mungachite, kapena mungathe kungopereka kuti mukhalepo kwa aliyense amene akumva chisoni .
Chimene Sichiyenera Kuphatikizapo Chifundo Dziwani
Pali zina zomwe simuyenera kulemba mu khadi lachisomo. Pewani kuyesa kuwonjezera clichés zopanda pake monga, "Ali pamalo abwino tsopano." Izi sizingatheke kuti wolandirayo amve bwinoko ndipo akhoza kutulutsa zotsatira zoipa. Munthu amene akuvutika ndi kutayikayo akukhumudwitsa ndipo safunikira kuwerenga ndemanga iyi.
Musamuuze munthu yemwe mumadziwa momwe akumvera. Ngati mwakumva chisoni chimodzimodzi, mwina akudziwa ndipo safunikira kukumbutsidwa nthawi ino yachisoni. Ngati simunadutsepo izi, mudzapeza kuti simukudziwa.
Zitsanzo za Chisoni Mauthenga
Samantha wokondedwa,
Pepani kumva za kudutsa kwa amalume ako. Anali nthawi zonse moyo wa phwando, akubweretsa kumwetulira kwa aliyense yemwe anakumana naye.
Sindidzaiŵala nthawi imene aliyense adagwiritsa ntchito kazoo pa phwando lako lobadwa. Ndikutsimikiza kuti nthawi zonse zosangalatsa zidzasokonekera ndi aliyense amene amudziwa.
Ndikufuna kuti mudziwe kuti inu ndi banja lanu muli m'maganizo ndi mapemphero anga panthawi yovutayi. Ngati mukufuna chilichonse, musazengere kufunsa. Kapena ngati mukusowa wina woti mumvetsere , ndiyimbireni nthawi iliyonse. Ndilipo kuti ndikhale ndi ana amasiye sabata yotsatira ngati inu ndi mwamuna wanu mumakonda nthawi yanu.
Mwachifundo,
Amanda
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Wokondedwa Hal,
Ndinamva chisoni kwambiri kumva za agogo anu aamuna akudutsa. Ndikudziwa kuti munali naye pafupi ndipo mum'phonya kwambiri.
Muli m'maganizo anga pamene mukupita ku Texas ku maliro ake. Ngati mukufuna winawake kuti ayang'ane panyumba panu kapena abweretse makalata anu, mundidziwitse. Ndidzakhala wokondwa kuthandiza m'njira iliyonse yomwe ndingathe.
Mnzako,
Jake