Kodi munakhalapo ndi mnzanu yemwe ali pa foni yake kuposa momwe amakuuzani mukakhala pamodzi? Kodi mumamva kuti abwenzi anu akusokonezedwa ndi mafoni awo mpaka kufika poti simumve zomwe mumanena panokha? Kapena kodi ndinu munthu amene amanyalanyaza mgwirizano wamoyo pofuna kukambirana nkhani ? Zochitika za munthu yemwe amacheza pafoni ndikunyalanyaza bwenzi lake tsopano akutchedwa "phubbing."
Kukhala Pamoyo-Ndi Munthu
Chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe mungachite kuti mukhale ndi ubale uliwonse ndikumvetsera kwa munthu wina, kaya muli naye poyankhula kudzera pa foni. Komabe, pali zofunikira zomwe muyenera kuzimvera, ndi kuyankhulana kwa moyo kumabwera koyamba ndi foni kutenga chotsatira mpaka mutakhala nokha. Kuchita mwanjira ina kungakhale kovuta-kuyika ndi kuchititsa munthu winayo kupeŵa kukhala ndi inu m'tsogolomu.
Kuphulika
Chinthu chimodzi chokhumudwitsa kwambiri ndi momwe mafoni am'manja atengera miyoyo yathu ndipo ambirife sitidziwa zomwe zikuchitika pozungulira ife. Pamene tinyalanyaza munthu amene tili naye kuti tiyankhule kapena kutumiza uthenga pafoni zathu zam'manja, tikukhala amwano . Kuwombera si chinthu chabwino ngati mukufuna kukhala wolandiridwa. Ndipotu, anthu akachita zimenezi, ndimasiya kukonza nawo.
Malangizo Okulumikiza Kuyanjana kwa Moyo ndi Foni Yanu
Ambiri a ife tiri ndi mafoni athu pa ife nthawi zonse.
Pambuyo pake, simudziwa nthawi yowopsa. Izi ndi zabwino, koma muyenera kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino mukakhala mukukhala pakati pa anthu.
Nazi zina zomwe mungachite:
- Ikani foni yanu chete mukakhala ndi anzanu. Kuchita zimenezi kumatsimikizira kuti mumagwirizana kwambiri ndi ubale wanu ... ndiko kuti, ngati mutha kukana zofuna zanu kuti muwone foni yanu maminiti pang'ono. Ngati mukudandaula za kusowa chinachake chomwe chiri chofunika kwambiri (monga moto wamoto kapena mwana akugwera ndi kuthyola fupa), ikani foni kugwedezeka ndikungoyang'ana pang'onopang'ono musanapatse munthu amene mumamvetsera.
- Khalani achifundo. Kodi mumamva bwanji mukagawana zakukhosi ndi mnzanu kapena wokondedwa amene amayang'ana pafoni yake nthawi zonse? Palibe amene amakonda kunyalanyazidwa ... kapena kukhala ndi malingaliro akuti ndife ofunika kwambiri kuposa munthu amene salipo. Choncho mumusamalire momwe mukufunira kuti azimuthandizira ndikuchotsa foni yanu.
- Musakonzekere ngati mukuyenera kukhala pa foni. Ngati mukudziwa kuti wina akukuitanani, ndipo muyenera kulankhula ndi munthu ameneyo, pangani ndondomeko zanu ndi abwenzi anu nthawi ina kapena tsiku pamene simungasokonezedwe.
- Ikani foni yanu panthawi ya chakudya. Mudzadya bwino chakudya chanu, ndipo chidziwitso chodyera chidzakhala chosangalatsa kwambiri kwa inu ndi anzanu ngati mumaganizira zambiri pa zokambirana za chakudya chamadzulo komanso mochepa pa foni yanu.
- Ngati muyenera kuthana ndi foni kapena mauthenga akuti, "Ndikhululukireni, ndangokhala masekondi pang'ono chabe." Kenaka samalirani chilichonse chimene muyenera kuchita ndipo mulole woitanira kapena kapepala akudziwe kuti mubwerere naye.
- Pamene muli mu lesitilanti, phulani pamene seva ikuyitanitsa kapena kupereka chakudya chanu ndichabechabe. Munthuyu amagwira ntchito mwakhama kuti atsimikizire kuti wokhutira ndi womasuka, choncho muyenera kumusamalira.
- Musayambe kulemberana kapena kulankhulana pa foni mukamaima pamtengowo kuchokera kwa kashiyo. Ndizochitira mwano kwa wothandizira ndalama ndi anthu omwe ali kumbuyo kumbuyo kwanu kuti asokoneze chidwi chanu kuchokera kuzogulitsa. Ngati muli pa foni nthawi yanu yoyang'ana, muuzeni munthuyo pafoni kuti mubwerere mutatha kumalipira.
- Musagwiritse ntchito foni yanu mukakhala pa ukwati wa winawake. Zonsezi ziyenera kukhala pa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi . Iwo akukuitanani chifukwa akufuna kuti mugawire mphindi yawo yapadera, choncho muwalemekeze pokhalapo mwakuthupi, m'maganizo, ndi m'maganizo.
- Pewani kugwiritsa ntchito foni yanu mukamapita ku maliro. Kulemba mameseji kapena kulankhula pafoni pamaliro kumakhala kovuta. Musati muchite izo.
- Khalani pa foni yanu mukakhala pa symphony , muwonetsero yamafilimu, kapena pamsonkhano. Inu (kapena wina amene akufuna kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yabwino) mudalipira ndalama zambiri kuti muzisangalala ndi zosangalatsa, choncho pindulani ndi ndalama zanu. Kuphatikiza apo, ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito foni yanu panthawiyi, anthu akuzungulirani adzakhumudwa.
Zoopsa za Kuphulika
Ngati ndinu wozoloŵera kugwiritsa ntchito foni, mpaka kufika ponyalanyaza ena pafupi ndi inu, pali zinthu zina zoipa zomwe muyenera kukumana nazo. Nazi zochepa:
- Mabwenzi adzasiya kukupemphani kuti mulowe nawo. Iwo ali otopa chifukwa chosanyalanyazidwa, kotero iwo amapitilira kwa ena amphaka amene akufuna "kusunga izo kwenikweni."
- Mudzakhala ndi mavuto osakaniza. Kusamvetsera malo anu kungakuchititseni kudya mofulumira kwambiri, ndipo kukupatsani chakudya kumakhala kovuta kwa inu.
- Ngati mumagwiritsa ntchito foni yanu pamsonkhano wa bizinesi , mudzaonedwa ngati opanda pake ndipo mungataya mwayi wotsatsa zam'tsogolo ndi kuwukweza .
- Mutha kutaya malankhulidwe anu ndi maluso oyanjana omwe angakukhumudwitseni pazochitika zamagulu ndi zamalonda.
Zimene Muyenera Kuchita Pofuna Kupeza Anzanu
Ngati muli ndi bwenzi lomwe simungathe kukhala pa foni yake, ndipo ndi munthu yemwe mukufuna kuti mukhale naye paubwenzi, nthawi ikhoza kusonyeza chikondi cholimba. Nazi zina zomwe mungachite:
- Nthawi yotsatira akukuitanani kuti mujowine naye, pemphani kuti asiye foni yake kunyumba. Mwinamwake akunena kuti sangathe kuchita zimenezo, ndipo ngati atero, muuzeni kuti mutenga mvula.
- Nthawi yotsatira mukakhala ndi phwando, musaitane anzanu omwe ndi ochimwa kwambiri. Akamapempha chifukwa chake anasiyidwa pa mndandanda wa alendo , onetsetsani kuti mukufuna anthu omwe amafuna kukhala osangalala komanso osangalala.
- Ngati mnzanu akuchotsa foni yake ndikuyamba kutumizirana mauthenga kapena kutumizirana mameseji mukakhala pamodzi, tanyamuka ndi kuchoka. Mwina sangadziwe kuti mwachoka pomwepo, koma akadzachita, mudzakhala ndi mwayi womuuza chifukwa chake mwachoka.
- Popanda kunong'oneza, pewani kuthandizana ndi anzanu ena a phubber. Lolani wolakwirayo adziwe kuti mumamukonda, koma kulankhulana nthawi zonse ndi kulemberana mameseji pa foni yam'manja mukakhala pamodzi ndikutuluka. Muuzeni kuti mumamufunanso momwe analili, asanamangirire foni yake. Mukhoza kuyembekezerana ngati mukuchita izi, khalani okonzekera kuti muyankhe.