Kodi munayamba mwakonza chakudya chamadzulo ndipo mwakhala mukuwonetsa alendo mukatha kuyamba kudya? Kodi mwakhala pansi ndikudikirira mlendo wa mlungu kuti awonetsere, atapita maola angapo pambuyo poti avomereze kubwera? Kodi munayamba mwangoyang'anitsitsa nthawi ndipo mumadabwa ngati alendo anu adzawonekera?
Anthu omwe mukuwayembekezera ali ndi khalidwe lopanda ulemu komanso osaganizirani za inu komanso nthawi yanu, ndipo muyenera kusankha momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito pamene akukupanizani.
Zili mkati mwa ufulu wanu kuti mukhale olimba, malinga ngati simukukhala amwano. Munthuyo adziwone ngati akudziwa kuti akuchedwa , koma ngati sakudziwa, palibe cholakwika ndi kumuuza kuti mukufuna kuti akudziwitse chifukwa chakudandaula kapena nkhawa.
Chakudya Chamadzulo Chakudya
Mwatumizira maitanidwe, mukukonzekera chakudya, kuyeretsa nyumba, kupukutidwa kuti mugwiritse ntchito , ndikukhala maola ambiri kukhitchini. Mwachita zonse zomwe mungathe kuti phwando la chakudya likhale labwino, kotero mukuyembekeza alendo anu kuti awonekere pa nthawi yake. Koma munthu mmodzi samatero. Izi zimakhumudwitsa chifukwa zimatumiza chizindikiro kuti amaona kuti nthawi yawo ndi yamtengo wapatali kuposa yanu. Kodi mungatani?
Nawa malangizowo a momwe mungachitire ndi mlendo wa chakudya chamadzulo:
- Ngati muli ndi alendo ena omwe abwera nthawi, mukhoza kuyembekezera zoonjezerapo 10-15 mphindi. Ngati sakanati asonyeze, pitirizani kuyamba chakudya popanda iye. Iye akhoza kulowa nawo pamene iye abwerapo.
- Landirani kupepesa kwake ndikupitiriza. Palibe chifukwa chobwezeretsa zomwe zinamupangitsa kuchedwa, pokhapokha atakhala ndi mbiri yabwino. Ngati atero, mvetserani ndikuwongolera.
- Ngati ino si nthawi yoyamba kuti apite ku phwando, mukhoza kumupatsa nthawi yosiyana (kufika) kuti akafike, ndipo mwinamwake adzakhalapo pamene akuyenera kukhala. Komabe, ngati mupitiliza kuchita izi, akhoza kugwira.
- M'tsogolomu, mungafune kumangomupempha kuti adye chakudya chamadzulo chomwe sichifuna nthawi yeniyeni yokhala patebulo.
- Ngati munthu wamtali ndi mnzanu wapamtima amene watha nthawi zonse, kambiranani naye. Muloleni iye adziwe momwe kulili kovuta kuti mugwire ntchito kuti mukonzekerere phwando la chakudya chamadzulo ndipo mutha kuyamikira kulingalira kwake nthawi yanu pokhala komweko pamene akuyenera kukhala.
Zakale Zanyumba
Muli wokondwa pokhala ndi nyumba kumapeto kwa sabata. Pambuyo poyeretsa nyumba yanu, kuika zitsulo zatsopano pabedi, kuonetsetsa kuti matayala abwino kwambiri apachikidwa mosamala mu bafa ya alendo, kugula zakudya zomwe amawakonda ndi zokometsera, ndikukonzekera zochitika kuti asatope, mukuyembekezera kuti chitani gawo lawo pofika pamene akunena kuti adzatero. Mphindi zochepa musanafike, mumakhala bwino kuti musayang'ane ngati momwe mumamvera. Tsopano mwakonzeka ku kampani yanu.
Nthawi yoikika imapita, ndipo iwo akadalibe apo. Ola lina likudutsa, kukudetsani nkhawa ndipo mwinamwake ndikudabwa ngati mawaya anu adutsa, ndipo mwina iwo sanagwirizane kuti abwere kuno sabata ino. Inu mwatsala pang'ono kusiya pa iwo pakhomo la pakhomo potsirizira pake. Kodi muyenera kunena chinachake?
Nawa malingaliro pa zomwe mungachite pamene mwanyumba wanu akuwonetsa mochedwa:
- Khalani ndiubwenzi mukamulonjera pakhomo. Muwonetseni iye m'chipinda chake ndikupitiriza kukhala wabwino.
- Ngati mudadya kale chakudya chimene munkaganiza kuti mudzagawana ndi mlendo wanu wa sabata, mupatseni chakudya chokwanira (chotsalira ngati muli nacho).
- Ngati sanatchule chifukwa chake watsala pang'ono, muuzeni kuti mumayang'ana kale. Izi zimamupatsa mpata wofotokozera ndi kupepesa.
- Kumbukirani izi mtsogolomu ndipo muzisankha ngati simudzamuitanira kuti azikhala kunyumba kwanu.
- Musamayanjane naye mwamwano ndi ndemanga komanso khalidwe lake. Sizingapangitse wina kumverera bwino, ndipo zingasokoneze ubwenzi wanu mopitirira kukonza.
Njira Zowonetsera Tardiness
Pamene wina nthawizonse amachedwa, ndipo mukufuna kupitiliza kukhala pamodzi mtsogolomu, muyenera kuti mukambirane malingaliro anu.
Kumbukirani kupeĊµa kutsutsa komanso kumveketsa malingaliro anu m'malo molozera chala chanu.
Nazi zina zomwe munganene:
- "Kumwa kuli pa 6:30, ndipo madzulo adzakhala okonzekera 7:00. Ngati simungathe kuzichita nthawi imeneyo, tidzatha kudya popanda inu. "
- "Ndazindikira kuti mwakhala mukuchedwa kumisonkhano yathu ya mlungu ndi mlungu. Kodi ichi ndi chinachake chomwe mukufuna kuti musachite? Ngati ndi choncho, ndidziwitse, ndipo tipeze wina kuti atenge malo anu. "
- "Kodi mungakonde kuti ndikusankhe kuti mukhalepo nthawi?"
- "Munthu wotsiriza amene akufika ali ndi udindo (lembani zosalongosoka)." Zinthu zina zomwe mungathe kuzilemba ndizo "kulipira ngongole" kapena "kukonza phwando lotsatira."
Zimene Sitiyenera Kunena Kapena Kuchita Pamene Mlendo Achedwa
Ngakhale kuti simungathe kulamulira nthawi yambiri ya anthu, mukhoza kuteteza zochita zanu ndi mawu anu . Ndi bwino kupereka ndemanga mwachidule ponena za kufika kwake mochedwa, koma mwinamwake palibe chifukwa choyika mlendo wanu pamtete poyankhira mayankho kapena kutsutsa. Ndibwino ngati simungapange sewero pa munthu yemwe ali mochedwa, kapena mutha kukhala ndi mavuto atsopano omwe mungakumane nawo mtsogolomu.
Zomwe mungayesedwe kuti muzinena koma simuyenera:
- "Ngati simusamala kuti mukhale ndi nthawi, sindikupemphani."
- "Simungakhale mochedwa (tchulani wina)."
- "Mwachionekere simukuyamikira ubwenzi wathu, kapena mukadakhala pano panthawi."
Zinthu zomwe simuyenera kuchita:
- Siyani miniti imodzi kudutsa nthawi yomwe mwavomera kukomana. Angakhale ndi chifukwa chomveka chosafika pa nthawi, kotero mumupatseni maminiti pang'ono.
- Osayankha kuyankha chitseko pamene mlendo akufika mochedwa.
- Kubwezeretsani mwa kukhala yemwe watsala pang'ono.
Zinthu Zina Zofunika Kuziganizira Pamene Mlendo ndi Wopanda Late
Ngati mwatsimikiza kuti mnzanuyo kapena msinkhu wake sali wokha, ndipo mukufunabe kukonzekera, pali zina zomwe muyenera kuziganizira:
- Mitundu ina imakhala ndi nthawi yoti ikhale yoyandikana, choncho mukamanena 6:00, amaganiza kuti ndi bwino kufika 6:15 kapena 6:30.
- Ndikofunika bwanji kuti iwo akhale pa nthawi? Ngati mukuyenera kukhala pawonetsedwe musanayambe, ndikofunika kwambiri kusiyana ndi kuyembekezera nthawi nthawi imene wina akuyimira zakumwa.
- Ngati mukufunadi kumuwona munthuyu, podziwa kuti nthawi zonse amachedwa, yesetsani kuyembekezera ngati akuchedwa mochedwa, ngakhale mutatha kukambirana naye.
- Ngati sanakhalepo pa misonkhano khumi ndi iwiri, musayembekezere kuti zisinthe pokhapokha mutakambirana ndikubwera ku mgwirizano watsopano.
- Bweretsani bukhu kuti muwerenge kapena kukopera pulogalamu ya masewera pa foni yanu kuti mukhale ndi chinachake choti muchite pamene mukudikira.