Thandizani ana kupukuta ulemu wawo usanadye chakudya chamadzulo kapena kusonkhana kwa banja
Chithunzi chodziwika bwino cha Norman Rockwell cha agogo awiri aakazi omwe akutumikira chakudya cha Thanksgiving ku banja lawo lachikondi sanena nkhani yonse ya mchitidwe wa tebulo pa tsiku la Turkey.
Simungathe kulemberana mauthenga a anyamata ake pansi pa nsalu ya tebulo. Simukuwona kuti pakati ndikuyang'anitsitsa pa silverware, ndikudabwa kuti foloko imagwiritsa ntchito choyamba. Ndipo ali mwana wamng'ono yemwe akuponya zoyenera chifukwa akufuna chikho chofiira, osati pinki imodzi?
Zikondwerero sikuti ndilokhakha lokha pamene ma tebulo a ana amayamba kusewera. Ana onse amatha kusakaniza pa nthawi ya chakudya chamadzulo asanadye chakudya chamadzulo. Nawa malangizowo.
Masamba Oyamba a Ana
Pa kuyendetsa chakudya chamadzulo kapena masiku angapo musanayambe, pitirizani kuyang'ana mwachidwi zomwe mumayembekezera ndi mwana wanu.
- Choyamba, ayenera kunena "chonde," "zikomo" ndi "inunso."
- "Chonde perekani msuzi wa kranberi."
- "Zikomo chifukwa cha chakudya chamadzulo."
- "Kodi ndingakhululukidwe?"
Kupatula ana aang'ono kwambiri, ana ayenera kuyembekezera kugwiritsa ntchito bwino maso pamene akulankhula ndi akuluakulu ndipo ayenera kuyankha mafunso mokondwera mmalo mochitapo kanthu.
Ana a msinkhu wa sukulu ndi mmwamba ayenera kuperekapo kuti awathandize wothandizira mukangofika, ndiyeno perekani kuthandiza kuthandiza kuyeretsa mutatha kudya.
Zoyembekeza Zoyenera Zakale
Kwa ana aang'ono kwambiri, zimakhala zovuta kukhala ndi mtendere kwa nthawi yaitali.
Mukhoza kutenga nthawi yambiri yomwe ingakhalepo nthawi yayitali, monga kubweretsa mpando wotsitsimula kuti mwanayo amve bwino kapena kutulutsa makalata ndi mabala kuti awamasule akatha kudya.
Koma dziwani nokha kuti mumvetsetse bwino ngati mwana wanu wazaka zitatu akufuna kusewera m'chipinda chotsatira pambuyo pa mphindi 10 (kapena zisanu!) Patebulo. Mwanayo sakuyesera kusokoneza; iye akungochita m'badwo wake.
Pamene ana akukula, ziyembekezo zanu ziyenera kusintha.
Pali nthawi yovuta pazaka zapachiyambi pamene ana ayamba kugwiritsa ntchito ma tebulo abwino ...
ndiyeno pang'onopang'ono. Phunzitsani luso lachiwiri kapena zitatu lomwe mukufuna kuti agwiritse ntchito, monga chonde, ndikuthokozani, koma musayembekezere kuti azitha kuchita bwino pa Phokoso lothokoza, makamaka ngati mwangoyamba kuphunzitsa khalidwe labwino kunyumba.
Ana a sukulu ndi achikulire akhoza kukhala nthawi yonse ya chakudya, ngakhale kuti pangakhale mfundo pamene akuluakulu sangakayikire kukhululukira ana, malingana ndi kumene kukambirana kukukwera.
Akudziyika okha
Monga njira zoyamikira , mungayese kuwauza ana anu kuti azidya pang'onopang'ono kusiyana ndi momwe amachitira. Achinyamata amadziwika kuti amawotcha zakudya zawo, koma amakhala ndi khalidwe labwino ngati akuyenda limodzi ndi alendo ena ndipo samapempha mphindi ziwiri kuti azakhali a Judy apeze mwayi wolawa.
Chakudya
Ana angakhale odyetsa bwino, koma amayenera kuyesa zakudya zambiri. Iwo samasowa gawo lokweza; kulira pang'ono kudzachita.
Chofunika kwambiri, ayenera kukhala ndi malingaliro otseguka komanso maganizo abwino pamene ayesa mbale. "Kodi ndiyenera?" Ndi "Yuck!" Sayenera kulekerera pa chakudya chamadzulo, choncho achenjeze ana anu nthawi yambiri yomwe mukuyembekezera.
Malangizo ena ofulumira:
- Palibe amene ayenera kuyamba kudya chakudya mpaka aliyense atatumikiridwa, ndipo ngakhale ndibwino kuti muyime ngati wina akukonzekera kuti adalitsidwe.
- Pamene chakudya chimaperekedwa kalembedwe ka banja, chiyenera kudutsa kuchokera kumanzere kupita kumanja
- Ana ayenera kuika zipilala zawo pamasana awo kumayambiriro kwa chakudya.
- Ngati wina afunsira mchere, munthu yemwe ali pafupi kwambiri ayenera kudutsa mchere ndi tsabola.
- Musayambe kudutsa tebulo kwa chinachake. Lembani munthu yemwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndikuti, "Amalume Charlie, kodi chonde mungapititse ma rolls?"
Sungani Malamulo Ena
Malamulo angapo ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito kudutsa gululo.
- Palibe matelefoni kapena zipangizo zina zamagetsi patebulo.
- Palibe zipewa.
- Chew ndi pakamwa panu mutsekedwa.
- Musalankhule ndi chakudya m'kamwa mwako.
- Sambani manja anu musanabwere pa tebulo.
Pakati pa maholide ndi chaka chonse, madera ambiri amapereka maphunziro a ana abwino pamapaki ndi zosangalatsa kapena mapulogalamu ena. Kungakhale koyenera nthawi ndi ndalama kuti mulembetse ana anu phunziro.
Mungayambenso mwambowu ndi banja lanu komwe kamodzi pa sabata-mwinamwake pa Lamlungu-chakudya chimakhala chachilendo. Mukhoza kuchidya kunyumba kapena kuresitilanti, ndipo aliyense ayenera kuchita mwakhama.
Koma yesetsani kuti musamangoganizira kwambiri za "malamulo" a ulemu , monga mphanda yomwe mungagwiritse ntchito nthawi. Mfundo yaikulu ndi yakuti ana amagwiritsa ntchito makhalidwe abwino pamene ali omasuka komanso otsimikiza. Adzasokoneza anthu akuluakulu ndikuchita chitetezo ngati ali ndi manyazi kapena osamva. Limbikitsani chitsimikizo chawo pochita chiyanjano nthawi zambiri, ndipo ana anu azigwiritsa ntchito bwino popanda kuganizira za izo.