Makhalidwe Akumwera kwa Belle Belle

Kodi mumati "Maam" ndi "Bwana" popanda kuganizira za izo? Kodi mumamwa tiyi yanu yokoma ku mitsuko ya masoni? Kodi mumadziwa nthawi yogwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "dalitsani mtima wanu"? Kodi mumayamikira ubwino wa mlongo wonyansa amene adzaima pambali panu podutsa kapena woonda? Ngati mungayankhe kuti inde kufunso ili, mukhoza kukhala kumwera kwa mtima, ngakhale simukukhala kumwera.

M'mbuyomu, mabomba akumwera akhala ndi chikhombo chodziwika bwino ndi malamulo omwe aperekedwa kuchokera kwa aamamasita awo ndi agogo awo.

Zina ndi zinthu zofanana monga, "Nthawi zonse muitaneni amayi 'mama' ndi bwana '." Zina ndizogawo kapena zachinsinsi kwa mabanja ena.

Cholinga chachikulu mu bukhu losungirako zolemba zapamwamba chokhazikitsidwa chakumwera ndikuwonetseratu mbali yanu yochepetsetsa ndipo simunayambe (kapena nthiti) kuti mudziwe momwe mulili amphamvu. Ngakhale kuti amatsatira mwambo wamakono, belle wamakono amadziwa za chikhalidwe cha pop ndipo akuphatikizapo zinthu zina zomwe sizikusokoneza maganizo ake akumwera.

Kukhala wolemekezeka bwino kumadzulo kulibe kanthu kochita ndi ndalama zomwe abambo anu ali nazo kapena momwe mumaphunzitsira. Kwenikweni, kusonyeza ndalama kapena kutchuka mwanzeru kwa munthu yemwe sadziwa bwino kwenikweni kumayesedwa bwino (kummwera amalankhulana zachinyengo).

Dziko lamakono lakumwera ndilolowetsa nawo usilikali kuti akhale membala wa Junior League. Boma lakumwera liyenera kuti linayendayenda padziko lonse lapansi, koma silikumana ndi mizu yake chifukwa njira zake zakumwera zimathamanga kwambiri.

Kudya

Kaya abatizidwa mu ntchito ya amayi ake kapena amayi omwe amakhala pakhomo, amalingalira malo abwino omwe amakhala oyenera kwambiri. A belle akumwera amakonda china chabwino, ndipo ngati waperekedwa kupyolera mu mibadwo, ndibwino kwambiri.

Atsikana ambiri kummwera amadziŵa kale zomwe ndalama zawo zasiliva zimakhalapo nthawi yaitali asanakhale ndi chithunzi cha omwe angakwatirane.

Ngati bwenzi limasankha kusakwatira (ndipo nthawi zonse limasankha chisankho chakumwera), amatha kudya zakudya ndi kunyada ndikupeza njira yolankhulira mzere wa malo okhala ndi alendo ake popanda kuwonekera.

Makhalidwe akumwera ali ndi ma tebulo . Amadziwa kuyika tebulo kuti adye chakudya, ndipo amadziwa kuti ziwiya ziti ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito pa sukulu iliyonse. Munthu akalakwitsa kapena ataya , amadziwa kuphimba munthuyo kuti asatengere manyazi.

Kusangalatsa ndi Kuchitidwa

Pamene belle lakumwera likuitanidwa ku phwando, ukwati, kapena chochitika china, mowolowa manja amabwezera RSVP . Chimwera chakumwera chimabwera ndi mphatso zothandizira mkaziyo - nthawi zina mpaka kufika pochititsa manyazi mkazi wosauka chifukwa palibe chinthu chochulukirapo kapena chochulukirapo m'dziko lake. Sangawononge phwando, koma ngati mlendo wosavomerezeka amamuyang'anira, amatha kuchita chilichonse chomwe chimachititsa kuti munthuyo amve bwino.

Atangobwera kunyumba kuchokera ku phwando kapena usiku wonse, belle woyenera kum'mwera adzakulemberani zikalata ndikuyitumiza pakalata yomweyo. Ngati ali wokonzedweratu, akhoza kukhala ndi cholembera ndi pepala m'galimoto ndikutumizira panjira yakuchokera ku chochitika chake.

Kuti musatumize mawu othokoza ndi opanda pake, ndipo belle lakumwera lidzachita chirichonse kuti zisazitchedwe kuti ndi amwano.

Belle wamakono wam'madzi amadziwa njira yake yozungulira khitchini komanso makolo ake. Ngati atha kuphika, amatha kuchita bwino. Ngati simukudziwa, amadziwa kukonzekera chakudya chokongoletsera pa china china ndipo amawonetsa kuti mwachikondi adalenga chinthu chilichonse kuchokera pachiyambi. Ndipo belle akumwera amadziwa momwe angapangire tiyi wokoma, kumwa mowa kumwera kwa South.

Kukonzekera ndi Kuwoneka

Chimake chakumwera nthawi zonse chimakonzedwa bwino , koma sichimasungunula misomali yake kapena kudula tsitsi kumaso. Akhoza kuvala jeans, koma samayiwala kumeta tsitsi. Simudziwa nthawi yomwe mudzawonetse mwendo. Mano ake nthawi zonse amawala bwino kotero amatha kuwomba kusangalatsa kwakumwera kwakumwera. Chilichonse chokhudza momwe mbali ya kum'mwera imaonekera, mwachangu, kuphatikizapo tsitsi lake lakuthwa lomwe lingakhale litatenga maola kuti lifike.

Ndi mkazi amene amadzikuza ndi kunyada. Mudzawona akukweza mutu wake pamene akukhala molunjika. Pamene akuyenda, ali ndi chida chokongola chomwe mwachidziwikire chakhala chikugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa maola pamaso pa galasi.

Malamulo a Southern Belle

Pali mabuku a malamulo a kumwera, koma atsikana omwe amakulira kumwera sayenera kuwawerenga. Amadziwa zomwe zimayembekezeka kwa iwo kuyambira pomwe ayamba kuyankhula. Akafika msinkhu wina, amawonekera pa cotillion, kutulukira mpira, kapena njuchi zam'mbuyomo kuti dziko lidziwe kuti banja lawo likuwaona kuti ali okonzeka kuthana ndi dziko lapansi.

Bete lakumwera limakhala ndi malamulo ena omwe sayenera kuthyoledwa, kapena adzakhala nthawi zonse manyazi pa banja:

• Nsapato zoyera sayenera kuvala pamaso pa Isitala kapena pambuyo pa Tsiku la Ntchito, pokhapokha zitakhala ku ukwati wanu. Ndiye ndibwino, koma mukasintha kuchokera ku mwinjiro wanu, muyenera kusintha nsapato zanu, kapena mudzawoneke ngati zovuta . Komabe, ndi bwino kuvala "nyengo yozizira" pakati pa Tsiku la Ntchito ndi Pasaka.
• Mosasamala kuti ndi maulendo angati omwe amapangidwa ku guwa, mkwatibwi wam'mwera akuvala zoyera.
• Cleavage imakhala madzulo. Dzuŵa lisanalowe, limbani chifuwa chanu.
• Kufunafuna chingamu pagulu ndi ... chabwino, ndizovuta.
• Mabomba am'mwera akumwera amatha kusuta ndi kumwa, koma sayenera kuyenda ndi ndudu kapena kumwa m'manja. Mwina wina akubweretserani kwa inu kapena kuti afike pampando wanu.
• Musalumbire pagulu . Ngati chinachake chikukugwedezani, sankhani mawu akuti euphemism, monga "darn," "mphukira," kapena "ndimayang'ana."
• Kondani banja lanu, ngakhale anthu ovomerezeka ... makamaka anthu apamwamba. Amakupatsani chinachake choyembekezera kuyanjanitsana kwa banja ndi chinachake choti mukambirane mtsogolo.
• Mkazi amene anabala iwe nthawi zonse amakhala "Amayi," pokhapokha atasankha kwambiri "Amayi," ndipo munthu woyambirira m'moyo wanu adzalitcha konse kuti "Adadi."
• Mabomba a kumwera omwe amapita ku koleji amadziwa kuti sabata yothamanga ndi yotani, ndipo ali ndi malo apadera kwa amayi awo, agogo awo, kapena nyumba ya azakhali. Kukhala cholowa chimapereka ukonde wotetezera, kuonetsetsa kuti pulogalamuyi ikatha kumapeto kwa sabata ... pokhapokha atachoka pamapeto otsiriza ndikuwombera kwambiri kuti "alongo" akonze.

• Dziwani momwe mungayendetsere popanda kuyendetsa. Ngati mukukaikira, chotsani chinthu chimodzi musanachoke panyumba. Kum'mwera, izi zimatchedwa "kukongola kosavuta."
• Musamunene . Pamene muli ndi chinachake choti muzinene chomwe sichili chabwino, tambani ndi, "Dalitsani mtima wake" kapena "Chonde mwapempherere iye," ndipo mukhoza kuthawa ndi chirichonse.
• Ngati simudziwa dzina la wina, mungagwiritse ntchito mawu achikondi monga "sweetie," "wokondedwa," "shuga," kapena "darlin". "
• Pamene wina akudwala kapena apita, abweretse chakudya kwa banja. Anthu amamva njala pamene akusamalira wodwalayo komanso atamwalira wokondedwa wake, koma alibe nthawi yoti aziphika. Ambiri a kum'mwera amakhala ndi casserole yomwe ena amayembekezera. Ngati sakulandira, amada nkhaŵa kuti mwina mukudwala, ndipo mungapeze anthu akuwonetsa pakhomo panu ndi chakudya.
• Kusambira kwakumwera kumalamulira nthawi zonse, ndipo amachita zimenezo mosangalala. Komabe, pamene akudumpha pamodzi ndi zida zogonjetsedwa ndi nsapato zoyera pamlungu musanayambe kuthokoza Thanksgiving, mumatha kumuyang'anitsitsa kuti atsimikize kuti amayi ake sakuwoneka.