Kukongola ndi Chisomo cha Jackie O Chikhoza Kupindula ndi Makhalidwe Oyenera ndi Maonekedwe
Kodi munayamba mwawonapo munthu amene mumaganiza kuti ndi wokongola komanso wokondweretsa kwambiri anthu ambiri? Kodi mumadabwa kuti chinsinsi cha munthu ameneyo ndi chiyani? Inu mukhoza kudabwa ndi momwe izo ziri zophweka.
Anthu omwe amadziwa ndi kusonyeza ulemu woyenera nthawi zambiri amawoneka ngati okongola. Ngakhale simunabadwire ku malo okongola, ndi chinthu chomwe mungaphunzire poyang'ana anthu omwe mumawakonda, kuwunikira malemba pazochita zoyenera , ndi kutsatira malangizo.
Ndiyeno muyenera kuchita zomwe zimabwera mpaka chikhalidwe chachiwiri.
Yambani kukhala wokongola pamaso pa galasi mukakhala nokha, ndikuwonetsani anzanu "latsopano". Mukakhala omasuka ndi anthu anu atsopano, tengani nawo kulikonse.
Njira Yomwe Mukuyang'ana
Palibe chimene mungachite ponena kuti anthu adzakuweruzani momwe mumayang'anirako, choncho mugwiritseni ntchito. Simusowa kukhetsa akaunti yanu ya banki kuti muwoneke bwino. Muyenera kukhala anzeru ndi zosankha zanu.
Malangizo oyeretsa momwe mumaonekera:
- Makhalidwe - Imani bwino ndikugwedeza mutu wanu mukamayenda. Musagwedezeke mukakhala. Chilankhulo chanu chimanena zambiri za inu.
- Kufotokozera - Osati kunjenjemera. Simusowa kusekerera nthawi zonse, koma yesetsani kukhala ndi mawonekedwe aubwenzi pa nkhope yanu.
- Zovala - Valani moyenera . Ngati muli ndi kukayikira za zomwe mungavalidwe ku chochitika china, funsani wothandizira kapena wothandizira ndikupeza. Musayambe kuvala zovala zofiira kapena zonyansa. Tengani nthawi yopukuta nsapato zanu.
- Makeup - Understated nthawi zonse zimakhala bwino kuposa kuchuluka kwa makeup. Yambani ndi nkhope yoyera ndipo sankhani chinthu chimodzi kuti chikule. Akatswiri ambiri amapanga makasitomala kuti azisewera maso kapena milomo, osati onse.
Njira Yomwe Mukukamba
Mkazi wokongola amalankhula molimba mtima pa nkhani zomwe amadziwa. Iye ndi womvetsera wabwino yemwe amachititsa anthu ake kukhala omasuka.
Ngati mutha kuyika anthu ena momasuka , malingaliro awo a inu adzakhala abwino.
Momwe mungayankhulire ndi kukongola:
- Sungulani nthawi zambiri ndipo yang'anani maso.
- Lankhulani momveka bwino ndikupewa kugwiritsa ntchito slang omwe sudziwika kwa anthu omwe mukuwawuza.
- Pewani kukhala mfumukazi. Musamalankhule ndi anthu onse omwe mumalankhulana nawo. Sungani awo kwa abwenzi anu apamtima omwe angakhale odalirika kuti asunge chidaliro.
- Musadzilemekeze nthawi zonse.
- Musapereke zambiri zaumwini. Pali zinthu zina zomwe anthu safunikira kuzidziwa.
- Khalani wokambirana bwino . Sinthani chidwi kwa munthu winayo, ndipo akuganiza kuti ndinu wanzeru.
Mmene Mukuchita
Kuti muwoneke ngati mkazi wokongola, muyenera kuchita ndi ulemu ndi poise . Musamachite chinachake chachibwana kapena chopusa kuti mutenge chidwi.
Njira zochita mwanzeru:
- Pewani chilichonse chochititsa manyazi. Mwachitsanzo, kumwa mowa komanso kudumphadutsa pamtunda sikumakhala kosangalatsa. Khalani osasamala ndipo musachite chilichonse chomwe chingakuchititseni manyazi.
- Tengani makalasi kuti mukhale bwino nokha kapena phunzirani chinachake chatsopano.
- Khalani ndi kuyamikira zamasewera. Pitani ku zikondwerero zamakono ndi ballet. Pitani ku museums.
- Kambani nawo masewera ndipo khalani okonda masewera okonda .
- Musanayambe kupita kumalo atsopano, phunzirani miyambo komanso chilankhulo chokwanira.
- Mukaitanidwa ku phwando, tumizani RSVP yanu mwamsanga ndipo musaiwale kubweretsa mphatso ya hostess .
- Musaiwale kutumiza mawu oyamikira .
- Phunzirani ndikuwonetsa ma tebulo abwino pakudya.
- Khalani tiketi yabwino ku restaurants, salon ya tsitsi, ndi kwina kulikonse komwe mumalandira ntchito.
- Khalani okoma mtima komanso owolowa manja kwa ena.
- Khalani olemekezeka pa malo anu enieni . Osati anthu ambiri omwe akufunikira chipinda china chokwanira.
- Pangani kusonkhana kwa ena omwe akukuitanani ku nyumba zawo.