Pamene abwenzi anu kapena banja lanu akwatirana, pali mitundu yonse ya luso laukwati ndi malamulo omwe amayendetsa khalidwe lawo. Koma kodi mumadziŵa kuti pali malamulo kwa alendo a ukwati ? Kuyang'anitsitsa zokondweretsa zaukwati izi ndizosachita kuti mutsimikize kuti musadzipereke mwachinyengo pa zochitika za wokondedwa wanu.
Chikwati Chachikwati Chokwanira
- Chitani RSVP mwamsanga. Banja lirilonse likupanga chisankho chochuluka malinga ndi chiwerengero cha anthu omwe angathe kupezeka pa ukwatiwo. Chiwerengero cha mutu chikukhudza momwe mipando ingati ikufunikila, ndizinthu zingati zomwe ziyenera kugulidwa, ndi angati omwe amadyetsa wothandizira ayenera kukonzekera, ndi zina zotere. Ngati muyenera kuchotsa RSVP yanu mutalandira chiitanidwe, chitani mwamsanga mwamsanga. Banja likhoza kukhala ndi nthawi yochepa asanayambe kupereka nambala yomaliza kwa wodwalayo. Ngati chinachake chimabwera maminiti omaliza, musayitane alendo olemekezeka - adzakhala otanganidwa ndi kukonzekera kumapeto kwa miniti ndi ndondomeko. Tumizani imelo yochenjeza kuti mupepese chifukwa chosakhalapo.
- Musati mubweretse mphatso ku ukwati, ngakhale makadi ndi cheke kapena ndalama ziri zoyenera. Mungasankhe kukhala ndi mphatso yaukwati yomwe imatumizidwa kunyumba ya banjali tsiku lisanafike kapena pambuyo pa tsiku laukwati. Ndipotu, mwakhala ndi chaka chimodzi mutatha ukwatiwo kuti mupereke mphatso . Kubweretsa mphatso pamodzi ndi inu kumatanthauza kuti wina wa phwando la ukwati ayenera kudandaula za momwe angapezere kunyumba.
- TUMIZANI mphatso ngakhale mutakhalapo. Ngakhale mphatso zaukwati sizikufunika , ndi mwambo kutumiza mphatso kwa okondwa awiri, ngakhale simukupita ku ukwatiwo. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, khadi losinkhasinkha lomwe likufotokoza malingaliro anu abwino ndiloyenera.
- YAM'MBUYO YOTSATIRA Mavalidwe angakhale olembedwa paitanidwe laukwati. Ngati sichoncho, mungatenge nthawi yocheza ndi maimidwe a malo ndi malo, kuti mudziwe kuti zovala ndi zoyenera . Ngati mukudumphadumpha, kapena simudziwa kuti "Chilumba Chosavala Chovala Chotani" amatanthawuza, tumizani kwa membala wa phwando kapena pitani pa webusaiti yathu ya ukwati kuti mufotokoze bwino.
Mwambo Wachikwati wa Ukwati
- MUSAMADZIWA. Nthawi yomwe ili paitanidwe laukwati ndi nthawi yomwe mwambowu udzayambe, osati nthawi yomwe alendo akuyembekezera kufika. Ngati pempho la ukwati likunena kuti mwambowu udzayamba pa 5, onetsetsani kuti mudzafikapo pa 4:45 kuti mudzipatse nthawi kuti mupeze mpando, kucheza ndi alendo ena, ndikukhazikitseni. Latecomers amaika pangozi yosokoneza processional kapena ntchito. Mipingo ndi masunagoge ena amatha kulepheretsa alendo kuti alowe kumalo omwe mwambowu wayamba.
- MUSAMATENGE zithunzi pa mwambowu. Osati kokha kusokoneza kwa alendo ena, mwina mungapeze njira ya ukwati wojambula zithunzi. Siyani kujambula chithunzi kwa akatswiri ndi kulemekeza chiyero cha mwambo patsogolo panu.
- MUYENERA kumvetsera ndi kuwerenga pulogalamu yaukwati ngati wina waperekedwa. Miyambo yambiri ili ndi mbali zomwe mpingo umayimilira ndikukhala pansi. Pulogalamuyo kapena otsogolera angakuuzeni nthawi yoti muchite zimenezo; Ngati sichoncho, tsatirani kutsogolera kwa ena pafupi nanu. Ngati mwathupi simungathe kuima, khalani chete.
Malingaliro a Ukwati wa Ukwati
- MUSABWERERE tsiku koma pempho lanu litatchula dzina lawo kapena "Wokondedwa". Kumbukirani kuti mtengo wa munthu aliyense wopita ku ukwati ndi wokwera, kotero kubweretsa alendo osayembekezeka ndi zopanda pake. Izi zikuphatikizapo ana anu kapena achibale ena!
- KUSAKANANA ndi alendo ena. Pamene mungapatsidwe ku tebulo lapadera kuti mudye chakudya, mumalandiridwa kuyenda pakhomo la phwando ndikucheza ndi alendo ena madzulo.
- MUSAMADYA . Pamene ukwati ndi nthawi yokondwera, palibe amene amayamikira mlendo woledzera amadzichititsa manyazi. Imwani mowa mopitirira malire.
- MUSAPEREKE CHIPHUNZITSO CHIPHUNZITSO Pokhapokha mutapemphedwa kuchita zimenezo.
- Kondwerani nokha, ndipo auzeni okwatiranawo kuti ndinu okondwa nawo.