Sangalalani, Lembani Mwamwano Chifukwa cha Ukwati Wosayembekezeka
Banja lirilonse liri lapadera, kotero palibe kukula kwake-zonse ponena za malumbiro a ukwati. Mwinamwake inu ndi mnzanuyo simuli okhudzidwa kapena omveka ndipo mumakhala osasamala kwambiri pogwiritsa ntchito lumbiro laukwati . Palibe malamulo okhwima omwe amati uyenera kupita ndi mwambo wamba wa zikalata. Ndilo tsiku lanu, choncho likhale lanu, ndipo izi zikuphatikizapo malumbiro anu aukwati.
Ngati inu ndi mnzanu wam'tsogolo mukufuna kugawira mbali yanu yosewera ndi yosangalatsa, mungafune kuganizira kugwiritsa ntchito malumbiro a ukwati omwe amasonyeza bwino umunthu wanu.
Malumbiro awa a Dr. Seuss-inspirational ndi njira yabwino yosonyezera kuti nonse ndinu aang'ono pamtima ndipo musamadzilemekeze kwambiri. Dr. Seuss amadziwika chifukwa cha masewera ake, ndipo izi ndizowongolera zokondweretsa ukwati ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yowonjezeretsa mwambo wanu wokondweretsa . A
Dr. Seuss Ukwati Wokwatirana
Abusa: Kodi mungandiyankhe pakali pano?
Mafunso awa, monga lumbiro lanu laukwati?
Mkwati: Inde, ndiyankha tsopano
Mafunso anu monga lumbiro langa laukwati.
Abusa: Kodi mumutenga kuti akhale mkazi wanu?
Kodi mumamukonda moyo wanu wonse?
Mkwati: Inde, ndimamutenga ngati mkazi wanga,
Inde, ndimkonda iye moyo wanga wonse.
Abusa: Kodi mudzakhala nawo, komanso mumagwira
Monga momwe mudatchulira nthawi ino?
Mkwati: Inde, ndidzakhala, ndipo ndidzagwira,
Monga momwe ine ndanenera pa nthawi ino,
Inde, ndidzamkonda iye moyo wanga wonse
Monga ine tsopano ndimutenga iye ngati mkazi wanga.
Abusa: Kodi mumakonda chabwino ndi choipa?
Kaya ndinu wokondwa kapena wokhumudwa?
Mkwati: Inde, ndimakonda kudzera chabwino ndi choipa,
Kaya ndife okondwa kapena okhumudwa,
Inde, ndidzakhala ndikugwira
Monga ndanenera kale,
Inde, ndidzamkonda iye moyo wanga wonse,
Inde, ndidzamutenga kuti akhale mkazi wanga
Abusa: Kodi mumamukonda ngati muli wolemera?
Kapena ngati muli osawuka, ndi m'dzenje?
Mkwati: Inde, ndimkonda iye ngati ndife olemera,
Ndipo ine ndidzamukonda iye mu dzenje,
Ndidzamkonda nthawi zabwino komanso zoipa,
Kaya tili okondwa kapena okhumudwa,
Inde, ndidzakhala, ndipo ndidzagwira
(Ine ndikhoza kulumbira izi zauzidwa!)
Ndikulonjeza kuti ndimakonda moyo wanga wonse
Mkazi uyu, monga mkazi wanga wovomerezeka
Abusa: Kodi mumamukonda mukakhala woyenera,
Komanso pamene mukudwala?
Mkwati: Inde, ndidzamkonda pamene tidzakwanira,
Ndipo pamene ife tavulazidwa, ndipo pamene ife tikudwala,
Ndipo ine ndidzamukonda iye pamene ife tiri olemera
Ndipo ine ndidzamukonda iye mu dzenje
Ndipo ndidzakonda zabwino ndi zoipa,
Ndipo ndidzakondana pamene ndikukondwera kapena chisoni,
Ndipo ndidzatero, ndipo ndidzagwira
Zaka khumi kuchokera tsopano zikwi zambiri,
Inde, ndimakonda moyo wanga wonse
Mkazi wokondeka uyu ngati mkazi wanga!
Abusa: Kodi mumakonda ndi mtima wanu wonse?
Kodi mungakonde mpaka mutatha kufa?
Mkwati: Inde, ndimakonda ndi mtima wanga wonse
Kuyambira tsopano kufikira imfa timatiyika,
Ndipo ine ndidzamukonda iye pamene ife tiri olemera,
Ndipo pamene ife tathyoledwa ndi mu dzenje,
Ndipo pamene ife tiri oyenerera, ndipo pamene ife tikudwala,
(O, kodi sitingakwanitse izi mwamsanga?)
Ndipo ndidzakonda zabwino ndi zoipa,
Ndipo ndidzakondana pamene ndikukondwera kapena chisoni,
Ndipo ndidzatero, ndipo ndidzagwira,
Ndipo ngati ine ndingakhale tsopano ndiri wolimba mtima,
Ndimkonda iye moyo wanga wonse,
Inde, ndidzamutenga kuti akhale mkazi wanga
Abusa: Ndiye ngati inu mutamutenga iye ngati mkazi wanu,
Ndipo ngati iwe umamukonda iye moyo wako wonse,
Ndipo ngati inu mutakhala, ndipo ngati inu mungagwire,
Kuyambira tsopano mpaka nyenyezi zikuzizira,
Ndipo ngati inu mungakonde mwa chabwino ndi choipa,
Ndipo kaya ndinu wokondwa kapena wokhumudwa,
Ndipo chikondi mu matenda, ndi thanzi,
Ndipo pamene iwe uli wosawuka, ndi pamene uli wolemera,
Ndipo ngati inu mungakonde ndi mtima wanu wonse,
Kuyambira tsopano mpaka imfa inu mumagawana,
Inde, ngati mumamukonda,
Chonde yankhani ndi mawu awa:
Mbusa ndi Mkwati: Ndimatero .
Abusa: Mudakwatiwa tsopano. Kotero mpsompsone mkwatibwi,
Koma chonde, pitirizani kulemekeza.
Dokotala wina wotchuka Dr. Seuss yemwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zambiri pakuwerengedwa kwaukwati ndi ndemanga yotsatira yokhudza kugwa.
"Tonsefe ndife ochepa chabe ndipo moyo ndi wochepa chabe, ndipo tikamapeza munthu amene khalidwe lake likugwirizana ndi lathu, timayanjana nawo ndipo timagwirizana ndi chikondi."
Kusinthidwa ndi kusinthidwa ndi Jessica Bishop