Mkwati Wonse wa Ukwati Uwuuzira Uyenera
Malumbiro aukwati ali apadera kwambiri. Ndiwo mawu apadera omwe angakugwirizanitseni ndipo amaimira kudzipereka kwanu kwa wina ndi mzake, choncho mutenge nthawi yanu kupeza mawu abwino a mwambo wanu - kapena muzilemba nokha.
Lonjezoli lidzakuthandizani kuti muyambe kupeza malonjezo anu, kaya mwambo wanu ndi wachikhalidwe kapena ayi , chipembedzo kapena dziko. Tengani malumbiro awa ngati chitsimikiziro, koma omasuka kuti musamangomwenso malumbiro anu a ukwati monga momwe mungakhalire ndi zokongoletsera zanu, mawu achikondi, ndi kuseketsa.
Malonjezo Achikwati Achikhalidwe
Chikhalidwe sichimatanthauza "kusangalatsa." Taganizirani za malumbiro a chikwati a ukwatiwa. Kwa maukwati apachibale, malumbiro amenewa ndi okongola kwambiri kuti akhale okhaokha, koma ngati ndinu banja lokonzekera lomwe mukufuna kulemba malumbiro anu , izi zidzakhala zozizwitsa zokondweretsa:
" Ine, [ dzina ], ndikukutengani [ dzina ], kuti mukhale [ mwamuna / mkazi ] wanga, kuti mukhale ndi kugwira kuyambira lero lino, kuti ndikhale abwino kapena oipitsitsa, olemera, osauka, odwala ndi odwala, kukonda ndi kuyamikira; kuchokera tsiku lino mpaka imfa ife timagawana.
"Ine [ dzina ], tengani inu [ dzina ], kuti mukhale [ mwamuna / mkazi ] wanga, wokondedwa wanga mu moyo ndi chikondi changa choona chenicheni. Ndimayamikira mgwirizano wathu ndikukukondani tsiku lirilonse kusiyana ndi kale lomwe. adzakukhulupirirani ndikukulemekezani, kuseka nanu ndi kulira pamodzi ndi inu, kukukondani mokhulupirika nthawi zabwino ndi zoipa, mosasamala kanthu za zopinga zomwe tingakumane nazo.
Ndikukupatsani dzanja langa, mtima wanga, ndi chikondi changa, kuyambira lero lino mpaka nthawi yonse imene tonsefe tidzakhala. "
"Ine, [ dzina ], ndikusankha iwe [ dzina ] kuti ukhale [ mwamuna / mkazi ] wanga, kuti ndikulemekeze pazopambana zako ndi zolephera zako, kukusamalira iwe mu matenda ndi thanzi, kukuthandizani, ndi kukula ndi iwe m'nyengo zonse za moyo. "
"Ine, [ dzina ], ndikukutenga iwe, [ dzina ], kuti ukhale bwenzi langa, wokondedwa wanga, [ amayi / abambo ] a ana anga ndi [ mwamuna / mkazi wanga ]. Ndidzakhala wanu nthawi zambiri komanso nthawi zosowa, nthawi za matenda ndi nthawi za thanzi, nthawi za chisangalalo ndi nthawi zachisoni, nthawi za kulephera ndi nthawi za kupambana.Ndalonjeza kukuyamikirani ndikukulemekezani, kukusamalira ndikukutetezani, kutonthoza ndi kukulimbikitsani, ndipo khalani ndi inu, kwamuyaya. "
"Ine, [ dzina ], ndikukutenga iwe, [ dzina ], kuti ndikhale mnzako, ndimakonda zomwe ndikukudziwa, ndikudalira zomwe sindikuzidziwa. Ndikuyembekeza mwachidwi mpata wokulira palimodzi, kumudziwa [ munthu] / mkazi ] inu mudzakhala, ndi kukondana pang'ono tsiku lirilonse. Ine ndikulonjezani kuti ndikukondani ndikukuyamikirani kupyolera mu moyo uliwonse umene ungatibweretsere. "
"[Dzina], ndikukutengerani kuti mukhale mwamuna [mkazi / mkazi wanga]." Pamaso pa mbonizi, ndikulonjezani kukukondani ndikukusamalirani pokhapokha ife tonse tikhala ndi moyo. mphamvu zomwe ndikudzipereka ndekha kwa inu ndi zolakwa zanga zonse ndikukuthandizani pamene mukusowa thandizo, ndipo ndikuyang'ana kwa inu pamene ndikufuna thandizo. Ndikusankha iwe ngati munthu amene ndimusamalira. "
"Ine, [dzina], nditengeni inu, [dzina], kuti mukhale wokondedwa wanga [mwamuna / mkazi], kuti ndikuthandizeni, kuti ndikulemekezeni, kuti ndikusangalatse inu, kuti ndikhale pambali panu ndi chisoni ndi chimwemwe, mu nthawi zabwino, ndi zoipa, ndikukondani ndikukuyamikirani nthawi zonse.
Ndikukulonjezani ichi kuchokera mumtima mwanga, kwa masiku onse a moyo wanga. "
Ngati mukudandaula kuti ndinu alendo bwanji mukuganiza za malumbiro anu achikwati, musakhale. Ngati awa ndi mawu olondola kwa inu ndi mnzanu, ndiye kuti ndiwo mawu omwe muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito. Pamene malumbiro ali oona, palibe chokhumudwitsa pa iwo. Komanso, ngati mukutsatira malumbiro awa, pali njira zina zomwe mungasankhire mwambo wanu .
Malumbiro Achikwati Okhaokha
Kusunga malumbiro anu aukwati ndi njira yabwino yosinkhasinkha za ubale wanu. Izi ndi zitsanzo zabwino, ngakhale kuti mutha kupeza zambiri. Ndipotu, angakulimbikitseni kuti mulembe nokha .
"Ine, [dzina], ndikutsimikizirani chikondi changa kwa inu, [dzina], pamene ndikukupemphani kuti mugawire moyo wanga. Ndinu munthu wokongola kwambiri, wochenjera, komanso wowolowa manja amene ndakhala ndikudziwa, ndipo ndikulonjezani kuti ndikulemekezeni nthawizonse.
Mwachifundo, mopanda dyera, ndi kudalira, ine ndigwira ntchito ndi mbali yanu kuti ndipange moyo wodabwitsa pamodzi. Ndikukutenga iwe, [dzina], kuti ndikhale mwamuna [mkazi wanga], kuti ndikhale ndi bwino kuyambira lero, kuti ndikhale wabwino kapena woipitsitsa, wolemera kapena wosauka, wodwala komanso wathanzi kwa nthawi yaitali ife tonse tidzakhala ndi moyo. "
"[Dzina], ndimakukonda iwe ndiwe bwenzi langa lapamtima. Lero ndikudzipereka kwa iwe muukwati ndikukulonjeza ndikulimbikitseni, kuseka ndi iwe, ndikukutonthozani nthawi zachisoni ndikumenyana.
Ndikulonjeza kuti ndikukondani nthawi zabwino komanso zoipa, pamene moyo umawoneka wosavuta komanso ukawoneka wovuta,
pamene chikondi chathu chili chosavuta, komanso pamene pali khama. Ndikulonjeza kuti ndimakukondani komanso nthawi zonse ndimakukondani kwambiri. Zinthu izi ndikukupatsani lero, ndi masiku onse a moyo wathu. "
"[Dzina], kodi mumatenga [dzina] kukhala mkazi wanu wokwatiwa?" [Aliyense amayankha, "Ndimachita."] "Kodi mumalonjeza kuti mumamukonda ndi kumukonda, mukudwala ndi thanzi labwino, Olemera kwa osauka, poipa koposa, ndi kusiya ena onse, musungire nokha kwa iye, pakuti inu nonse mukhala ndi moyo? " [Aliyense akuyankha, "Ndimachita."] "Kodi inu mumalonjeza pamodzi pamaso pa abwenzi anu ndi abambo anu kuti nthawi zonse mumakhala ndizokhazikika, mutengere nokha wina ndi mzake monga mwamuna ndi mkazi?" [Onse akuyankha, "Ife timatero."] "Kodi inu pamodzi mukulonjeza kuti mudzakondana, kuyamikirana ndi kulemekezana wina ndi mzake zaka zambiri?" [Onse akuyankha, "Ife timachita."]
"[Dzina], ndikulonjeza kuti ndimakukonda ndikukusamalirani ndipo ndidzayesa njira zonse kuti ndikhale woyenera chikondi chanu.
Nthawi zonse ndimakhala wokhulupirika kwa inu, wokoma mtima, woleza mtima, ndi wokhululuka. Koma koposa zonse, ndikulonjeza kukhala bwenzi lenileni ndi lokhulupirika kwa inu. Ndimakukondani."
"Ine, [dzina], ndikukutengani, [dzina], kuti mukhale [mwamuna / mkazi] wanga, kuti mugwire nawo nthawi zabwino ndi nthawi zovuta. Ndidzichepetsa ndikupatsani dzanja langa ndi mtima wanga pamene ndikulonjeza chikhulupiriro changa Chikondi kwa inu Monga momwe ndikukupatsani lero ndikuzungulira kwanga, chikondi changa kwa inu ndi chamuyaya, monga momwe chimapangidwira ndi zinthu zosabvunda, kudzipereka kwanga sikudzatha.
Ndili ndi mphete iyi, ndikukupatsani phwando. "
"[Dzina], kodi mumalonjeza kuti mumakonda [dzina] ndi zaka zanu zonse kuti mukhale woona mtima, wokhulupirika, ndi wokoma mtima kwa iye? Kodi mumalonjeza kumupatsa iye chimwemwe chomwe iye akukupatsani, ndi kumulemekeza iye chifukwa cha yemwe iye ali, osati yemwe mukufuna kuti iye akhale? " [Aliyense amayankha, "Ndimachita."]
"[Dzina], ndi chikondi changa chonse, ndikukutengerani kuti mukhale [mwamuna / mkazi wanga]. Ndidzakukondani mwa zabwino ndi zoipa, kudzera mu chimwemwe ndi chisoni. Ndiyesera kumvetsa, ndikudalira inu Tonse tidzakumana ndi zochitika zonse za moyo ndikugawana maloto ndi zolinga za wina ndi mzake. Ndikulonjeza kuti ndidzakhala woyanjana naye mu ubale wachikondi ndi woona, malinga ngati ife tonse tidzakhala ndi moyo. "
"[Dzina], ndikulonjezani kukukondani, kukhala bwenzi lanu lapamtima, kukulemekezani ndikukuthandizani, kukhala oleza mtima ndi inu, kugwira ntchito limodzi ndi inu kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zathu, kukuvomerezani, ndi kugawana moyo ndi inu zaka zonsezi. "
"[Dzina], ndikukutengerani kuti mukhale [mwamuna / mkazi wanga] kuyambira pano mpaka pano, kuti muyanjane ndi inu ndi kugawana zonse zomwe zikubwera, kuti mukhale [mwamuna / mkazi wanu] wokhulupirika, kuti mupereke ndi kulandira, kulankhula ndi kumvetsera, kulimbikitsa ndi kuyankha, kudzipereka kopangidwa mwachikondi, kusungidwa m'chikhulupiriro, ndi kukhazikitsa kwatsopano kosatha. "
Ine, [dzina], ndikulonjezani chikondi changa chopanda pake kwa inu, [dzina], pamene ndikukupemphani kuti mugawane moyo wanga. Ndikulonjeza kukhala wokoma mtima, wopanda dyera, olemekezeka, ndi odalirika kuti palimodzi, maloto athu a tsogolo labwino akwaniritsidwe. Kufikira izi ndikuitana onse omwe alipo kuti awonetsere kuti ndikukutenga [dzina] kuti mukhale [mwamuna / mkazi] wanga, kuti ndikhale ndikugwira, kuyambira lero lino, kuti ndikhale bwino kapena oipitsitsa, olemera kapena osauka, matenda ndi thanzi malinga ngati tonsefe tidzakhala ndi moyo. "
"Ine, [dzina], ndikukutengani, [dzina], kuti mukhale [mwamuna / mkazi] wanga. Ndikulonjeza kuti ndikulemekezeni ndikukuthandizani, kukhala oleza mtima ndi achikondi kwa inu, kugwira ntchito ndi mbali yanu kuti mukwaniritse zinthu zomwe timayamikira ndikuzilota, ndikukondwera nthawi yathu pamodzi. Ndikukulonjeza zonsezi kuchokera pansi pa mtima wanga pa moyo wathu wonse. "
"Ine, [dzina], ndikukutengani, [dzina], kuti mukhale [mwamuna / mkazi] wanga, kuti ndizigawana nthawi zabwino ndi nthawi zovuta, pambali. Ndikukupatsani dzanja langa, ndi mtima wanga, ndikuyembekeza kuti chikondi changa chidzakhala nthawi zonse malo abwino. Monga momwe bwalo ili liribe mapeto, chikondi changa kwa inu ndi chamuyaya. Monga momwe zimapangidwira ndi chitsulo chosatha, kudzipereka kwanga kwa iwe kwamuyaya. Ndili ndi mphete, ine ndikukwatira. "(Ichi ndi chitsanzo cha lumbiro laukwati panthawi ya mwambo.
"[Dzina], lero ndikukutengerani inu [mwamuna / mkazi wanga]. Tsopano sitimva mvula, chifukwa aliyense wa ife adzakhala malo obisalamo. Tsopano sipadzakhalanso kusungulumwa, pakuti aliyense wa ife adzakhala mnzake kwa wina. Pali moyo umodzi wokha patsogolo pathu, ndipo nyengo zathu zidzakhala zabwino komanso zotalika. Ndikulonjeza kuti ndikukondani, ndikulemekezeni, ndikukuyamikirani, ziribe kanthu zomwe zili patsogolo pathu, malinga ngati ife tonse tidzakhala ndi moyo. "
Malonjezo Achikwati Achipembedzo
Kwa akwatibwi achipembedzo, aakazi, ndi mabanja, mwambo wa tchalitchi ndi chinthu chopatulika kwambiri. Phatikizani chikhulupiriro chanu ku malumbiro anu pa mwambo wapadera umene simudzaiwala.
Ngati mukufuna kupanga malumbiro anu achikwati a chipembedzo, funsani ndi mtsogoleri wanu musanayambe. Chikhulupiriro chilichonse chiri ndi miyambo yawo yaukwati, choncho funsani omvera anu zomwe akufuna.
"Ine, [dzina], ndikukutenga iwe, [dzina], kuti ukhale wanga [(mwachoncho: mwamuna kapena mkazi wanga mwalamulo), bwenzi langa lokhazikika, bwenzi langa lokhulupirika ndi chikondi changa kuyambira lero. Pamaso pa Mulungu, banja lathu ndi abwenzi, ndikupatsani lumbiro langa loti ndikhale wokondedwa wanu kudwala ndi thanzi labwino, nthawi zabwino ndi zoipa, ndi chimwemwe komanso chisoni. Ndikulonjezani kuti ndikukondani mopanda malire, ndikuthandizani zolinga, kukulemekezani ndi kukulemekezani, kuseka ndi inu ndi kulira ndi inu, ndi kukuyamikirani nthawi yonse yomwe tidzakhala ndi moyo. "
"[Dzina], ndimakukondani Ndikufuna kukhala [mwamuna / mkazi wanu] kuti tidzatumikire Khristu palimodzi. Kudzera mwa zosadziwika ndi mayesero a moyo, ndikulonjeza kukhala wokhulupirika kwa inu ndi kukukondani, kuti pamodzi ife tikhoza kukula mu mawonekedwe a Khristu ndi kuti nyumba yathu ikhale yotamanda kwa Iye. "
"Pamaso pa Mulungu ndi abwenzi athu ndikukuthandizani kuti mukhale [mwamuna / mkazi wanga], ndikulonjeza ndi thandizo la Mulungu kuti ndikhale mwamuna ndi mkazi wokondedwa ndi wokhulupirika kwa ife tonse titakhala ndi moyo."
"Ine, [dzina], ndikukutenga [dzina], kuti ukhale [mwamuna / mkazi] wanga, mnzanga wapamtima, wokondedwa wanga m'moyo, ndi chikondi changa choona. Pa tsiku lapadera, tsiku loyera, ndikuvomereza ndikupatseni] pamaso pa Mulungu ndi onse omwe akupezekapo / mboni zanga] kuti ndikhalebe pambali panu monga anu [okhutira: okhulupirika] mwamuna kapena mkazi] mukudwala ndi thanzi, ndi chisangalalo ndi chisoni, komanso nthawi zabwino ndi zoipa. Ndikulonjezani kuti ndikukondani mosasamala, ndikulimbikitsani nthawi za masautso, kukulimbikitsani kuti mukwanitse zolinga zanu zonse, kuseka ndi inu ndikulira nanu, kukula ndi inu mu malingaliro ndi mumzimu, nthawizonse mukhale otseguka ndi owona mtima ndi inu, ndipo tikuyamikirani inu bola ngati ife tonse tidzakhala moyo. "
"[Dzina], ndikukutengerani kuti mukhale [mwamuna / mkazi wanga] kuyambira pano kupita patsogolo, kuti muyanjane ndi inu ndi kugawa zonse zomwe zikubwera, kuti mukhale okhulupirika [mwamuna / mkazi] wanu, kuti mupereke ndi kulandira, kulankhula ndi kumvetsera, kulimbikitsa ndi kuyankha. Izi zidzakhala kudzipereka mwachikondi, kusungidwa m'chikhulupiriro, ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwatsopano. " - ataperekedwa ndi wowerenga Sarabeth Andrews
"Ine, [dzina], ndikukutengani, [dzina], kuti mukhale [mwamuna / mkazi wanga] wokwatirana, kuti ndikhale ndi kugwira kuyambira lero lino, kuti ndikhale abwino, oipitsitsa, olemera kapena osauka, odwala ndi thanzi, kukonda ndi kuyamikira, "Ife timagawana imfa, monga mwa lamulo la Mulungu, ndipo pamenepo ndikukulonjezani."
"Dzina la Mulungu, ine, [dzina], ndikukutengani, [dzina], kuti mukhale [mwamuna / mkazi] wanga kuti ndikhale nawo ndi kubatizidwa kuyambira lero lino, kuti ndikhale abwino kapena oipitsitsa, olemera kapena osauka, odwala komanso wathanzi, kukonda ndi kuyamikira, mpaka tigawanika ndi imfa. Ili ndilo lumbiro langa lalikulu. "
"Dzina la Mulungu, ine, [dzina], ndikukutenga iwe, [dzina], kuti ukhale [mwamuna / mkazi wanga], kuti ndikhale ndi kubatizidwa kuyambira lero lino, kuti ndikhale wabwino kapena woipitsitsa, wolemera kapena wosauka, matenda ndi thanzi, kukonda ndi kuyamikira, kufikira titalekanitsidwa ndi imfa. Ili ndilo lumbiro langa lalikulu. "
Onse awiri atalonjeza malonjezo awo, angafune kunena chinachake mogwirizana monga:
"Musandiumirize kuti ndikusiyeni, kapena kuti ndibwererenso kukutsatirani, pakuti kumene mukupita ndipita komweko, ndipo komweko mukhala komweko, ndidzakhala anthu anga, ndipo Mulungu wanu adzakhala Mulungu wanga. ndikufa, ndikufera komweko ndikuikidwa m'manda. Ambuye achite ndi ine, ndi zambiri, koma imfa ya inu. " -kuchokera "Bukhu la Rute"