Makhalidwe Abwino
Monga mukudziwa, kukhala kholo kumakhala ndi udindo waukulu. Inde, ana amafunika kudyetsedwa, kuvala, ndi kukondedwa. Chinanso chimene iwo amafunikira ndi mlingo wathanzi wamakhalidwe ndi maphunziro momwe angakhalire pagulu. Pokhala ndi chidziwitso cha khalidwe labwino, mwana wanu adzachita bwino mu bizinesi, kukhala ovomerezeka ndi anthu, komanso kukhala achimwemwe m'mbali zonse za moyo.
Ana sayenera kukhala ziboliboli zazing'ono, koma ayenera kudziwa zomwe ziri zoyenera ndi zomwe siziri.
Mwachitsanzo, mauthenga akunja ayenera kukhala kunja, ndipo pakhomo, kuthamanga ndi kudumphira mozungulira nthawi zambiri sikovomerezeka.
Ndemanga pa Ana Anu
"Ana tsopano amakonda kukonda; ali ndi makhalidwe oipa, amanyoza ulamuliro; amasonyeza kuti sakulemekeza akulu ndipo amakonda kukambirana m'malo mochita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Ana tsopano ndi olamulira anzawo , osati antchito a mabanja awo. Iwo salinso akuwuka pamene akulu alowa mu chipinda. Amatsutsana ndi makolo awo, amacheza ndi anzawo, amawombera patebulo, amadutsa miyendo, komanso amazunza aphunzitsi awo. "~ Author Author Unknown
Mutu wapamwambawu unanenedwa molakwika ndi Socrates, wafilosofi wachigiriki amene anakhalapo kuyambira 468-398 BC. Ngati ndemanga iyi ndi yowonadi, zimatsimikiziradi kuti palibe chinthu chatsopano pansi pa dzuwa-ana akhala akusocheretsa kuyambira chiyambi cha nthawi. Kukhala ndi mwana wosayamika kungakhale chitsimikiziro cha manyazi nthawi zonse komanso zovuta kwa kholo.
Mwana wanu sayenera kuchita bwino; khalani olimbikitsidwa ndikuchitapo kanthu tsopano. Kumbukirani kuti monga akulu tili ndi zochitika ndi chisomo kuti tisadziwe kunena chinthu cholakwika, chinthu chomwe ife mwachidziwikire tinachiphunzira kuchokera kwa makolo athu komanso chomwe tinalimbikitsidwa ndi anthu. Chinsinsi chomwe tiyenera kuphunzitsa ana athu ndichoyamba kukhala olemekezeka m'zinthu zonse ndikuganiza mozama asanatsegule pakamwa kuti alankhule.
Mawu Olimbikitsa ndi Malangizo
Ana amafunika kuphunzitsidwa kuti azikhala bwino ndikukhala olemekezeka. Kuwonjezera pa kuwauza ana zoyenera kuchita, makolo ayenera kusonyeza mwachitsanzo . Ngati mukuwonetsa mwansanje kunyumba, musamayembekezere kuti ana anu akhale amtundu wa khalidwe lachisomo. Tengani udindo pa khalidwe la mwana wanu ndi kuchita chinachake chokhudza izo. Khalani chitsanzo chabwino chomwe mwana wanu akufuna kuti atsatire. Ulemu umagwidwa ndipo mwana wanu adzalandira luso la kukhala wodekha, wolankhulidwa bwino, ndi wolemekezeka kuchokera ku chitsanzo chanu ndi chilango chanu. Ngati mumaphunzitsa mwana wanu kunyumba kuti mawu awo osayenera kapena achipongwe ndi okongola komanso oseketsa, sangathe kuzindikira vuto pamene ali kunja. Yambani kunyumba.
Perekani mwana wanu kuti amuthandize . Ana amakonda chikondi, makamaka ngati chimachokera kwa kholo kapena wokondedwa. Kawirikawiri makolo amangovomereza khalidwe losafunika la ana awo, osanyalanyaza kupambana kwawo ndi zochita zawo zonse. Kusankha kumeneku kungakhale ndi zotsatira zake. Ana amafuna chisamaliro chilichonse chomwe angachipeze-ngakhale kuti izi zikutanthauza kuchita zinthu zoipa. Limbikitsani.
Phunzitsani mfundo zisanu zomwe mwana wanu ayenera kuzidziwa. Awa ndi "Zikomo," "Chonde," "Ndiloleni ..." "Pepani," ndi "Ayi, zikomo."
Khazikani mtima pansi. Ana amabadwira okha ndipo amalira kuti atsimikizire zosowa zawo. Mayi aliyense amadziwa izi mofulumira kwambiri panthawi yolerera ana. Khalani olimbikitsidwa, monga momwe wina aliyense amaphunzirira kuchita zabwino, ana amafunika nthawi kuti amvetse momwe angakhalire wokoma mtima. Aphunzitseni kufunika kwa kulemekeza maganizo ndi zosowa za anthu ena, ndipo mudzapita kutali kuti mukwaniritse izi.
Pamene ana amaphunzira kumvetsera zambiri, amalankhulani zochepa, kulemekeza ena ndi kudzichepetsa okha, khalidwe lawo lachikhalidwe cha golide liyamba kuunika. Poyamba, mufunika kupereka ndemanga mwamsanga, mpaka adziwe maluso. Iwo potsiriza adzawona zotsatira zabwino zachilengedwe chifukwa cha khalidwe lawo labwino, ndipo izo zidzawalimbikitsa iwo kupitilira mu moyo wawo wonse.
Muzilemekeza Ana Anu
Ana ndi anthu aang'ono ndipo ayenera kulemekezedwa ndi kupatsidwa ulemu.
Otsogolera awa, amayi, abambo, aphunzitsi komanso omwe amadziwa zomwe ayenera kukonzekera kuti apambane ndi maulendo awo. Musanyalanyaze mwayi woyenda tsiku limodzi mu chidziwitso chodala ndi chisangalalo cha yemwe ana ake ali olemekezeka ndi olemekezeka, ali ndi mbiri yabwino ndi mbiri. Yembekezerani zambiri; simudzakhumudwa.
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