Kodi mumamva kuti simukutha msinkhu pakati pa ubwana ndi munthu wamkulu? Kodi mumadabwa kuti ndi chifukwa chiyani munthu wina akukuyembekezerani kuti mukhale ngati munthu wamkulu ndipo mumtsatira wotsatira mumakodwa pamutu ndikuchitidwa ngati ndinu mwana ?
Kukhala wolemera zaka khumi ndi chimodzi ndikovuta. Mukufuna kuti anthu okuzungulirani awone kuti ndinu okhwima, ozindikira komanso okhoza kuchita chilichonse chomwe mukufuna kapena mukufuna kuchita, koma nthawi zina izi sizichitika.
Ndi zoona kuti aliyense ayenera kudutsa zaka khumi ndi zitatu.
Ngakhale kuti simunakwanire mokwanira kuti muwone ngati wamkulu, pali zinthu zomwe mungachite kuti mupeze ulemu umene mukuufuna. Zonse zomwe muyenera kuchita ndikuwonetsa khalidwe lachikulire, ndipo chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe zikuphatikizapo ndikuphunzira ndi kusonyeza ulemu wabwino .
Makolo anu mwinamwake anakuphunzitsani kuti munene "Chonde" ndi "Zikomo" mudakali aang'ono, ndipo mwinamwake mukudziwa malamulo a mitu yabwino, ngakhale mukuiwala nthawi ndi nthawi. Komabe, ndi zambiri kuposa zimenezo. Zimakhudza momwe mumachitira ndi ena, chitani pazochitika ngakhale kuti simukumva bwino, ndikudziwonetsera nokha.
Makhalidwe Panyumba
Kusonyeza khalidwe labwino panyumba kukupatsani chizoloŵezi kuti mutha kuchichita kwa ena. Onjezerani kuti kuti mumakondweretsa makolo anu, ndipo mumakhala ndi mwayi wopambana. Kuchita bwino ndi khalidwe loyenera lidzakondweretsa abambo anu, ndipo phindu linalake likhoza kukhala kuti akudalira inu kwambiri ndi zosankha zina.
Malangizo abwino pamudzi:
- Tengani gawo lanu la udindo. Izi zimaphatikizapo kutenga mbale yanu yotsuka, kuchotsa zinyalala, ndikuyenda galu. Sungani chipinda chanu chatsopano popanda wina woti akugwiritseni inu nthawi zonse.
- Chitani monga mwauzidwa. Mwayi wokha, makolo anu ali ndi chifukwa chabwino chokupemphani kuti muchite zinthu, choncho muzisangalatseni ndi kuzichita ndi mtima wabwino. Inu simungamvetse malingaliro awo tsopano, koma kumbukirani kuti pamene mukufuna kuti iwo abwerereni kunyumba kwa mnzako sabata yotsatira, iwo angakhale akufuna kuti achite.
- Khalani okoma kwa abale anu. Ngati mungagwirizane ndi alongo anu okhumudwitsa kapena abale anu, mukhoza kumakhala ndi wina aliyense.
- Onetsani ulemu kwa achikulire . Pambuyo pake, ngati sizinali za agogo ndi agogo, makolo anu sakanakhala kuno, ndipo inunso simungakhale.
- Khalani woyandikana naye wabwino . Sangalalani, patsani moni, ndikuwonetseni anthu omwe ali pafupi kuti ndinu munthu wabwino.
Makhalidwe ndi Mabwenzi
Ino ndiyo nthawi yomwe moyo wanu wa chikhalidwe umayamba kuphulika. Amzanga amakuitanani kumaphwando, akuyitanani kuti muwone ngati mukufuna kutuluka kumsika, kapena mukungofuna kuti muwoneke ndikuwonera kanema. Kuwonetsera makhalidwe abwino kwa anzanu kumawathandiza kukuyamikirani kwambiri ndipo akhoza kukupezerani maitanidwe ambiri.
Malangizo othandizira kukhala ndi anzanu:
- Bwerani pa nthawi . Sichinthu chaulemu kuti anthu asunge. Zimasokoneza mapulani a anthu ena ngati akuyenera kukudikirirani.
- Musamachite snobby . Zingakupangitseni kudzimva kuti ndizotukuka kuti musamamve mphuno mumlengalenga, koma m'kupita kwa nthawi mumakhala bwino pakuchitira aliyense ulemu ndi kukoma mtima. Simukuyenera kukhala mabwenzi abwino onse, koma mungathe kumwetulira ndi kupereka moni wabwino.
- Khalani kutali ndi miseche. Musanene zinthu zoipa za anthu ena omwe mumawadziwa. Yendani kutali mukamva ena akuvutitsa munthu wina . Ngakhale kumvetsera nkhani zoopsa kumakupangitsani kukhala wolakwa mwa mgwirizano.
- Musanayambe kuitanitsa mnzanu, yang'anani nthawi. Simukufuna kumudetsa nkhawa kwambiri munthu, mochedwa kwambiri, kapena pa nthawi ya chakudya.
- Musalowetse manyazi manyazi a kamera popanda chilolezo. Ino ndi nthawi yabwino kuganizira momwe mungamvere ngati atakuchitikirani.
- Samalani pakugawana zambiri zambiri. Mabwenzi anu sayenera kudziwa zambiri zokhudza chikhalidwe chilichonse cha moyo wanu.
- Khalani ndi khalidwe lanu labwino kumsika . Ogulitsa ena ndi ogulitsa sitolo adzayamikira bizinesi yanu mochuluka ngati mumalemekeza ena kumalonda.
- Ngati ndinu wothamanga mukakhale masewera abwino - ngakhale mutapambana masewerawo. Kumbukirani kuti padzakhala phindu.
- Khalani okoma mtima kwa aliyense yemwe ali olumala . Thandizani kuti muthandize kupeza chinachake kuchokera pamwamba pa alumali. Izi ndizochepa zomwe mungachite kuti tsiku la munthu wina likhale lowala kwambiri.
Makhalidwe Kusukulu
Sukulu si malo okha omwe mungaphunzire kuchokera ku mabuku, ndi kumene mumapanga ndikulitsa luso lanu labwino. Tsatirani malangizo awa pakukhazikitsa mbiri yabwino pakati pa aphunzitsi anu ndi anzanu:
- Pita kumayambiriro abwino tsiku loyamba la sukulu . Maonekedwe oyambirira ndi ofunika, ndipo amakhala ndi inu kwa nthawi yaitali.
- Phunzirani ndi kugwiritsa ntchito luso loyenera mukakhala kusukulu.
- Gwiritsani ntchito zojambula zamalankhula ndikuganiza musanalankhule kotero kuti musanene kanthu mwachinyengo kwa wina aliyense.
- Gonjetsani nkhawa za anthu ndikuganizira za ena m'malo moganizira nokha.
- Khalani oyamba kucheza ndi anthu omwe simukuwadziwa. Kumbukirani kuti mutakumana ndi munthu yemwe sali mlendo.
Makhalidwe a Masamba
Kumbukirani pamene amayi anu ankakuuzani kuti mutenge zidutswa zanu patebulo? Ameneyo sanali malamulo okha opunduka omwe anapanga. Mfundo apa ndi yakuti mabala anu angapangitse gome kuti liphatikize, ndipo palibe amene amakonda chakudya chawo akukwera pamabala awo chifukwa chakuti wina satsatira mchitidwe wabwino pa tebulo.
Nazi mfundo zina zofunika pa nthawi yodyera chakudya:
- Kugwiritsa ntchito ma tebulo oyenera kudzakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi madalitso abwino ndi banja lanu ndi aliyense amene akukuitanani kuti mudye chakudya.
- Dziwani zina mwa malamulo oyenera kwambiri odyera mu lesitilanti .
- Kudya ku buffet kumakhala kosangalatsa ngati mumadziwa malamulo oyambirira.
- Ngati mumataya chinachake kapena mungapange zolakwika zina , mudziwe choti muchite. Ena amvetsetsa ngati mukutsuka chisokonezo chanu ndi kupepesa.
Zida Zamakono
Pakali pano mukhoza kukhala ndi foni kapena piritsi yomwe imapita nanu kulikonse. Gwiritsani ntchito moyenera, kapena mutha kuopseza ena kukhala ndi inu. Kuphatikizanso apo, simukufuna kuti chipangizo chanu chamagetsi chikugwiritse ntchito pamoyo wanu.
Malangizo pa kulankhulana kwa magetsi:
- Gwiritsani ntchito khalidwe labwino la foni kaya muli panyumba, kumsika, kapena kutayika pa nyumba ya mnzanu.
- Musaiwale makhalidwe anu pamene muli pa intaneti .
- Kumbukirani kuti zamasewera ndizovomerezeka. Ngakhale mutaganiza kuti mutumiza uthenga wapadera, iwo ukhoza kutumizidwa kwa anthu ambiri. Musaikepo kanthu kena komwe simukufuna kuti makolo anu, anzanu akusukulu, ndi aphunzitsi anu awone.