Makolo ambiri akufuna ana awo adziwe momwe angachitire, koma ambiri sadziwa kumene angayambire. Zinthu zofunika kwambiri kuziganizira ndizokhazikitsa chitsanzo mwa kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino komanso kukhala osasinthasintha.
Makhalidwe abwino ayenera kuphunzitsidwa ali aang'ono kwambiri chifukwa nthawi zina zizoloŵezi zoipa zimakhala zovuta kusintha. Makolo ayenera kuzindikira kuti kuyambira nthawi yomwe ana awo abadwa, iwo amatengera chitsanzo.
Ngati makolo ali achipongwe, anawo adzakhalanso opanda pake. Njira yabwino kwambiri yophunzitsira makhalidwe abwino ndiyo kunena malamulo ndikuwonetsa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito malamulowa tsiku ndi tsiku. Mukhoza kupanga zokondweretsa ndi Masewera a Etiquette kwa Banja .
Yambani Ndi Zowona
Yambani ndi malamulo apadera omwe ana anu ayenera kutsatira kuyambira ali aang'ono kwambiri ndikuyamba kunyumba . Simukufuna kupondereza ana anu kapena kuwopseza chitukuko chawo powonjezera malingaliro omwe sali okonzekera mofulumira kwambiri. Nthawi zonse mumatha kuwonjezera malamulo oyenerera ngati akufunikira.
Chitsanzo cha malamulo oyambirira:
- Musasokoneze.
- Sungani zitsulo zanu patebulo.
- Musayese pakamwa panu kutseguka.
- Nenani "chonde" ndi "zikomo."
- Gwiritsani ntchito "mkati" mawu pamene muli mkati.
Pang'onopang'ono yonjezerani malamulo monga mwana ali wokonzeka
Mukangomva kuti mwana wanu ali wokonzeka kutsatira malamulo oyenerera , adziwe kuti mumanyadira kuti ndiwe wamakhalidwe abwino, ndipo mukufuna kumuphunzitsa zatsopano.
Adzawona izi ngati chinthu chabwino, ndipo amatha kulandira makhalidwe abwino. Ngakhale kuti miyambo ina imasintha, khalidwe labwino silimasintha .
Mndandanda wa mayendedwe oyenera kuwonjezera pazofunikira:
- Phunzitsani zinthu zofunikira pazomwe zili pa tebulo komanso momwe mungachitire pa chakudya chamadzulo.
- Mukamadya kunyumba ya munthu wina, pewani kukhumudwitsa maganizo a mnzanuyo
- Yankhani foni mwaulemu.
- Tsatirani malingaliro oyenera a foni ndi kusokoneza munthu "wamoyo" yemwe ali ndi foni yam'manja.
- Tumizani zikomo manotsi .
- Ngati kuitanidwa kuli ndi pempho la RSVP , nthawizonse muyankhe pamapeto pake.
- Musamunene za aliyense.
- Gwirani zitseko kwa aliyense yemwe ali ndi manja ake odzaza kapena akusowa thandizo lina.
- Khalani okoma kwa aliyense.
Kupeza Chinthu Chosowa
Mawu achikale akuti, "Opeza, otaika maliro," ndi olakwika pa mlingo umodzi. Choyamba, kupeza chinachake sikungakhale chako. Ndiponso, munthu amene wataya chinthucho sayenera kulira pamene akuwona kuti apezeka. M'malo mwake, ayenera kumwetulira pamene akukuthokozani chifukwa chakubwezeretsani. Phunzitsani mwana wanu kuti ayang'ane mwiniwake wa chilichonse chimene amapeza chifukwa kusunga popanda kuyesera kuti amupeze munthuyo si kulakwitsa.
Lemekezani Akulu ndi Anthu Olamulira
Pokhapokha munthu wachikulire kapena munthu yemwe ali ndi ulamuliro akupempha mwana wanu kuchita chinachake chimene akudziwa kuti ndi cholakwika, kulemekeza n'kofunikira pakukhazikitsa ubale wabwino. Iyi ndi malo ena omwe mungapereke chitsanzo kuti muwonetse mwana wanu momwe maonekedwe akuonekera kunja. Kuitana munthuyo ndi dzina la bwana wake, monga Bambo, Akazi, Akazi, Akazi, kapena Dr. ndi chiyambi chabwino.
Mvetserani zomwe munthu yemwe ali ndi ulamuliro akunena ndipo musamulepheretse pokhapokha pali vuto.
Mukawona kapena kumva mwana wanu akutsatira zomwe mukuyembekeza, perekani matamando popanda kuchitapo kanthu.
Pewani Makhalidwe Oipa
Kukhazikitsa khalidwe labwino kwa ana anu kungakhale kovuta ndi zochitika zonse zomwe angakumane nazo pamoyo wawo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Komabe, n'zotheka, koma kumafuna khama kwambiri komanso kubwereza malamulo. Mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito zomwe ana akuwona monga zitsanzo za momwe angayesere. Ngati awona wina akuchita phwando lachikondwerero kapena chojambula pa TV komwe munthu amatsutsa, funsani zomwe munthuyo ayenera kuchita m'malo mwake.
Nthawi zambiri, mawu abwino ndi othandiza kwambiri kuposa olakwika. Komabe, nthawi zina mumayenera kugwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "ayi" kuti muzitsindika makhalidwe abwino. Mukawauza zomwe sangachite, perekani njira ina yoipa.
Zitsanzo za makhalidwe oipa:
- Kulavulira
- Kuwombera kapena kukunkha kumaso kwa wina
- Kugwiritsa ntchito mafuta
- Kutaya zinthu mwaukali
- Kuitana winawake dzina loipa
- Kuponyera kapena kupopera
- Kukhudza ena mosayenera
- Kugwira chinachake kuchokera kwa wina
- Kupempha kapena kuwomba
- Kusokoneza nthawi zonse
Makhalidwe abwino ndi ofunika mu chitukuko chilichonse. Makhalidwe abwino omwe ana anu amaphunzira ali aang'ono adzalimbikitsidwa kukhala akuluakulu ndikuwathandiza kuti apambane kwambiri ndi abwenzi , moyo wa banja, ndi ntchito. Ntchito yonse yolimbika ndi khama lomwe mumayesetsa pophunzitsa ana anu makhalidwe abwino zimabweretsa mphotho yodziwa mwana wanu kuti adzikonzekere yekha mudziko lotukuka. Yembekezerani zolakwitsa zingapo nthawi ndi nthawi. Thandizani mwana wanu kuwongolera ndikupitiriza.