Kuchititsa Anthu Amene Amakuzungulirani Kukhala Otonthoza
Kodi munayamba mwawonapo anthu akuwongolera pamene ali m'mavuto kapena osavuta ? Zimakhala zovuta kuziika momasuka ngati mumadziwa komanso mumadziwa luso losavuta.
Kukhala munthu wachifundo kumafuna kudziŵa makhalidwe abwino ndikukhala ndi luso loyika anthu ena momasuka. Ngakhale kuti anthu ena amawoneka kuti abadwa ndi chida ichi, chikhoza kuphunzitsidwa. Mukamaphunzira, kuchita, ndikukulitsa luso limeneli, mudzadabwa ndi momwe anthu akukukhudzirani.
Khalani Wachisomo
Choyamba poika ena kukhala omasuka ndikukhala achifundo ndi okoma mtima kwa aliyense. Phunzirani makhalidwe abwino ndikugwiritsa ntchito pazochitika zonse, kaya muli pamsonkhanowu kapena mumakhala nawo limodzi ndi anzanu.
Malangizo a tsiku ndi tsiku:
- Phunzirani malamulo ofunika kwambiri pa malo alionse omwe mumakhala nawo. Zotsatira izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pamene mukucheza ndi anzanu komanso pamene mukudya masana ndi antchito anzanu. Ndikofunika kudziwa momwe mungagwirire pazomwe mukukhalira, kapena mudzapeza kuti mutsala.
- Makhalidwe ena odzikweza amagwiritsidwa ntchito pafupifupi nthawi zonse. Anzanu ndi anzanu akuwona kuti mukudziwa momwe mungachitire pazochitika zonse, ndipo mwina akutsata kutsogolera kwanu.
- Pewani kuchita makhalidwe oipa . Mwinamwake mukudziwa kale zomwe iwo ali ndipo ngati mulibe ena mwa iwo kapena ayi. Chitani chilichonse chomwe chimafunika kuti muthetse chizolowezicho. Mwinanso mungamufunse mnzanu wapamtima kuti akutulutseni ngati mutatuluka.
Chitirani chifundo
Mukakhala ndi anthu ena, yesetsani kuganizira za momwe mumamvera. Ngati mutembenukira kwa ena, adzakopeka kwa inu chifukwa mumasamala. Funsani mafunso okhudza iwo ndi kumvetsera mayankho awo. Chitani chinthu chabwino kwa wina popanda kuyembekezera chinachake.
Njira zosonyeza kuti mumasamala:
- Chitani chinthu chapadera kwa anthu m'moyo mwanu ndipo chitani zenizeni pa zosowa za aliyense.
- Yambani kukambirana komwe kumawakonda anthu omwe muli nawo. Ngati muwona kuti adasinthidwa, sankhani nkhani kuzinthu zomwe akuzisamalira. Nthawi zonse mverani zomwe munthu wina akunena popanda kuganizira zomwe mukufuna kunena.
- Lemezani ena ndikuwapatsa matamando chifukwa cha zomwe wapanga. Musamangotenga ngongole chifukwa cha ntchito ya anthu ena.
Onetsani Chidaliro
Munthu wodalirika kawirikawiri amakhala kosavuta kuti azikhala mozungulira kusiyana ndi munthu yemwe sakhala womasuka mu khungu lake. Khalani munthu amene ali ndi chidziwitso ndi kudzidalira kuti akhale omasuka muzochitika zonse. Ngati mwakhala ndi tsiku lovuta, yesetsani kuti musanyamule wina aliyense ndi mfundo.
Palibe cholakwika ndi kutuluka nthawi zina, koma samalani kuti musamachite nthawi zambiri. Kuchita zimenezi kumapangitsa anthu kusamvetsetseka kwambiri, ndipo ayamba kuthandizira kuti apeze zowonjezereka. Simukufuna kukhala munthu amene ali wodandaula.
Yesetsani kuti muzisangalala. Ngati mukuchita mantha, ena angakhalenso, choncho mutenge mpweya wozama ndikuwongolera pang'onopang'ono. Pewani kulankhula mofulumira, kapena muwonekere. Perekani anthu omwe muli nawo malo ambiri omwe sangakhale nawo.
Dziwani
Dziwani zomwe zikuchitika kuzungulira iwe. Izi zimaphatikizapo chirichonse pozindikira munthu amene waima yekha kuti adziwe zochitika zatsopano zamakono.
Njira zowonetsera kuzindikira:
- Yandikirani munthu amene waima yekha, gwedeza dzanja lake , ndipo funsani mafunso oyenera okhudza iye. Yankhani ndi ndemanga kuti mumudziwe kuti mwamumvetsera.
- Werengani nyuzipepala kapena kumvetsera nkhaniyo nthawi zonse kuti muthe kukambirana bwino za zomwe zikuchitika padziko lapansi. Ndi bwino kunena maganizo anu, koma nthawi zonse mverani maganizo otsutsana ndi ulemu.
- Samalani chilankhulo cha thupi ndikudziwiratu kuti ndi nthawi yani yosintha nkhaniyo kapena kuthetsa kukambirana.
Muzigwira Ntchito
Perekani munthu wina chidwi chanu chonse. Pewani kuyang'ana nthawi ndi nthawi pamapewa awo, kapena iwo akuganiza kuti mukufunafuna kuthawa.
Munthu amene mukumuuza nthawi iliyonse ayenera kumverera ngati kuti ndiwe wofunika kwambiri m'chipindamo. Yang'anani maso, kumwetulira pamene kuli kotheka, ndi kugwedeza kuti muwonetse kuti mukumvetsera.
Gwiritsani Bwino
Lolani nokha kumasuka ndi kusangalala ndi kuseka kokoma nthawi ndi nthawi. Zimasonyeza kuti ndinu munthu wokondwa, ndipo izi zikokera anthu kwa inu. Musatengepo ndemanga pang'onopang'ono, kuphatikizapo zomwe zikukhudzana nanu. Zimene mumaona kuti ndizolakwika zingakhale zabwino kwa ena. Phunzirani kuseka nokha mukalakwitsa.