Mankhwala a bridal blues
Aliyense amakonda ukwati, koma kodi tikukhala mumtundu wamakwati opsinjika maganizo? Kukonza ukwati kungakhale zopweteka kwambiri ndipo anthu onse-kukondweretsa nthawi zambiri kumafuna kungapangitse mzimu ndi chimwemwe kukhala mkwatibwi. Kugonana ndi vuto lapadera. Ndizochepa chabe, komabe zimakhudzana ndi mavuto akuluakulu a banja komanso zovuta. Zingatheke mosavuta chifukwa cha zinthu zenizeni-funsani mkwatibwi aliyense amene ayesa kutanthauzira mgwirizano wonyengerera kapena wogula zovala za okwatirana ndi antchito awo-ndipo akuchulukitsidwa ndi miyambo ya banja.
Nthawi zambiri pali chisankho chochita, kapena kuthetsa kuthetsa, pa nthawi iliyonse yopita ku guwa. Chikhalidwe chilichonse chaching'ono-ndi chokhumudwitsa-chingakuike mu tizzy ya kamphindi.
Ndizosadabwitsa kuti amayi ena amatenga blues blues. Nazi zina mwazovuta, ndi zotsutsana, kuti akwatibwi akhale:
Bridezillas Zapangidwa, Osati Kubadwa
Iyenera kukhala nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri ya moyo wanu-ndipo mukufuna kuti ikhale yokonzekera ukwati ngati kugwira ntchito yachiwiri. Muyenera kupeza nthawi yokhala ndi zinthu zambiri monga gawo la kalembere pamene mukuyang'anira ogulitsa , nkhawa za banja ndi zofuna zanu, mkwati wanu, malingaliro anu ndi zinthu zamakono zovuta zaukwati. Zoona, akwatibwi ena amawatsutsa koma ambiri ndi anthu abwino, amawopseza kupsinjika kwa kukonzekera kukwatirana, ndipo amadwala nkhawa, kupsyinjika, ndi kuyembekezera kwa iwo omwe ali pafupi naye.
Mkazi Wamwamuna Waukwati Wotsutsa: Mkwatibwi ayenera kuphatikizira kupsinjika maganizo , kudziletsa ndi nthawi kuti awonongeke ngati gawo limodzi la ndondomeko yake ya kukonzekera kukwati.
Mukamamanga nyumba yopanikizika, muzipatula nthawi, muziyenda muwongolero, mutenge masewera, mutenge manicure, mulembe m'magazini, chitani chinachake chosakwatirana. Muyenera kukonda, kulemekeza ndi kudziyesa nokha ngati mukufuna kukondedwa, kulemekezedwa ndi kukondedwa ndi wina!
Aliyense Ali ndi Chinachake Chimene Anganene Ponena za Ukwati Wanu
Siinu nokha mukukumva kuti simungapambane!
Ziribe kanthu yemwe inu muli kapena m'badwo uti, aliyense ali ndi chinachake choti anene za ukwati wanu. Mukhoza kuyamikiridwa ndi mphatso komanso mphatso, koma nthawi imodzi mumakhala ndi malangizo osakakamizidwa, nkhani zovuta zaukwati zomwe simukumva, komanso zotsutsana ndi anzanu komanso achibale omwe ali otayika kwambiri. akukukakamizani. Anthu amakonda kuona kuti ukwati wanu ndi mwayi wokwaniritsa zosowa zawo komanso mabanja awo akuyendayenda m'njira iliyonse chifukwa monga banja likukonzekera kusonkhanitsa iwo amayamba kuchita zomwe iwo akufuna-osati inu! Nkhaniyi ndi yachikondi-mayi akufuna kuti ikhale ukwati umene sanakhale naye, mlongo kapena bwenzi lake lapamtima akufuna kuti iyeyo, mkwati wanu akuwopa kuyimirira kwa banja lake. Kapena zochitikazo zingakhale zovuta ndi zovuta zamakono monga mafunso okhudza kusakaniza zikhulupiriro, kusankha ukwati wosakhala wachipembedzo kapena kukonza mtundu wina wazochitika.
Mkazi Wamwamuna Waukwati Wotsutsa: Mkwatibwi ayenera kufotokozera ukwati amene iye amawakonda kwenikweni, amayesa kukhalabe pambali ndi kukhazikitsa malire omveka omwe palibe amene angalowe mkati mwa mawu kapena maganizo. Ngati zina zonse zikulephera, ganizirani izi: Zoona ndizokuti ukwati umakhala wa anthu ena, koma ukwati ndi wanu awiri.
Ganizirani zomwe banja lanu lidzatanthauza kwa inu.
Kukwatirana Kungapangitse Mavuto Ambiri
Mchitidwewo wokha umapanga nthawi ya kukula ndi kusintha komwe kungakhale kosokoneza kwambiri komanso kusokoneza maganizo. Mukasankha kukwatira, mutha kukonzekera kukwatirana, ndipo maganizo osasinthika okhudza makolo ndi abambo, chikondi chakale, ndi zodetsa nkhaŵa za munthu amene mwamusankha adzafika pamwamba kuti afufuze. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti simuyenera kukwatira, kumangotanthauza ntchito ya mkati ikufunikanso pamodzi ndi zochitika zonse zakunja.
Mkazi Wachikwati Wotsutsa: Mkwatibwi akhoza kulandira kuzindikira kuti akuyamba ulendo wa chisinthiko kuchokera ku gawo limodzi la moyo kupita ku wina, ndi kulemekeza ndi kuthetsa vuto ndi mantha omwe amadza. Khulupirirani kuti ndi achirengedwe ndipo samvetsera nkhani iliyonse yomwe ingafune kuthandizidwa kapena uphungu.
Ndikofunika kukhalabe pamwamba pamtima ndikukhala woona mtima pa nthawiyi. Musasese zinthu pansi pa rug.
Kukonza Ukwati Kungakhale Kovuta
Pali zambiri zomwe zimawoneka pazochitika kunja zomwe mkwatibwi angathenso kulumikizidwa muzambiri ndi zofuna ndikudzidzimitsa yekha komanso chifukwa chake akukwatirana. Pamene akuganiza kuti kukonzekera ukwati wa maloto ake kumatanthauza kupita ku nkhondo-ndi makolo, banja, abwenzi, mkwatibwi, ndi pafupifupi aliyense amene akukhudzidwa-amayamba kukhala wotsutsa komanso wodekha. Chimene chinayambira ngati chimwemwe chosandulika chimakhala nkhondo ... kuyesetsa kukhala ndi ukwati wangwiro. Zimatopetsa ndipo zimatha kutembenuzira ngakhale anthu okoma mtima kuti azitha kutanthauzira komanso kutanthauzira.
Mkazi Wamwamuna Waukwati Wotsutsa: Kumbukirani kuti tanthauzo lenileni la ukwati ndilo kubweretsa awiri pamodzi mu mgwirizano wopatulika-phwando liyenera kukhala chikondwerero, osati chinthu chomwe chidzapha mzimu wanu pakukonzekera. Pamene anthu awiri okondana amadzipereka okha kwa wina ndi mnzake mkwatibwi ali ndi mwayi wogwirizanitsa osati mitima yawo, miyoyo yawo, komanso mabanja awo, koma kugwirizanitsa zamoyo zawo. Ndipo si banja lokha limene limapindula pa mwambowu - aliyense amene amachitira umboni ukwati angapatsedwe mphamvu ndi kudzozedwa ndi chikondi mu chipinda. Ganizirani za chikondi ndi kukumbukira nthawi zonse cholinga chanu.
Chimwemwe Chanu M'moyo MUSAMAGANIZIRE PAMODZI WANU WANU
Izo siziri kwenikweni, kotero khalani okonzeka!) Mabwenzi ena amakhulupirira kuti ayenera kukhala ndi ukwati wangwiro kuti akhale ndi banja langwiro ndi moyo wangwiro. Amapatsa tsiku laukwati mphamvu zambiri. Amayamba kuchitira ukwatiwo ngati chinthu choyenera kupembedzedwa ndi kutumikiridwa. Pali mantha aakulu kuti ngati chinachake chikulakwika ndi ukwati, ndi chizindikiro chomwe chidzasokoneza ukwati. Chikhalidwe chathu chimalimbikitsa kwambiri kukhala ndi ukwati wokongola komanso osangokhalira kuganizira za kukhala ndi ukwati wochititsa chidwi. Ndibwino kuti tisawonongeke kwa kanthaŵi kochepa komanso tikulakalaka ukwati wangwiro-tonse timapita kumeneko panthawi ina-koma muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri.
Mkazi Wamwamuna Waukwati Wotsutsa: Pambuyo ndi kuzindikira, gawo lofunika kwambiri la tsikuli si tsiku lomwelo koma kuti mumayenda pansi pamsewu umenewo komanso m'manja mwa munthu amene mumamukonda yemwe mumayembekezera kumanga moyo wanu. Mudzakhala ndi moyo umene mungathe kukumbukira tsiku laukwati, pamene ndilofunika, ndilo limodzi mwa zochitika ndi zochitika zomwe mukugawana!
Mfumukazi Laurie Sue Brockway ndi wosakwatira, yemwe nthawi zonse amakwatirana ndi chikondi. Amadziwikanso kuti ndi katswiri wodzikweza wokwatirana omwe amathandiza kuti akwatibwi azikhala ndi mphamvu zawo zamkati. Iye ndi wotsogolera pothandizira wa Bridal Survival Club ndi wolemba WEDDING GODDESS: Buku Lopatulika lothandizira kusokoneza Ukwati muchisangalalo cha Ukwatira (Perigee Books, May 2005). Pitani naye pa www.WeddingGoddess.com.