Kodi Chimachitika ndi Chiyani Podzipereka?

Mwambo wodzipereka nthawi zambiri umakhala wofanana ndi mitundu yambiri yaukwati. Kusiyanitsa ndiko kuti mmalo mokhala mwambo womangirira, ndizovomerezeka poyera za kudzipereka kwa wina ndi mnzake. Kawirikawiri, banjali ndi achigololo, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndipo satha kukwatiwa pansi pa lamulo.

Mwambo wodzipereka ukhoza kukhala wachipembedzo kapena wadziko, wovomerezeka ndi wachikhalidwe kapena womasuka ndi wosaphunzitsidwa.

Kukonzekera kwa mwambowu kudzadalira malamulo a ovomerezeka / nyumba yopembedzeramo komanso zofuna zawo. Komabe, poyankhula mwachizolowezi, izi ndizofunika kwambiri:

• Moni
  Wogwira ntchito amalandira alendo ku chikondwerero cha chikondi ndi kudzipereka pakati pa banjali. Ayeneranso kunena mau ochepa ponena za ubale wawo, kapena za chikwati / kudzipereka.
• Malonjezo
  Iyi ndi gawo limene banjali limalongosola cholinga chawo kukhala odzipereka kapena okwatirana. Monga mu mtundu uliwonse waukwati, iwo adzapanga malonjezo pa zomwe kudzipereka kumatanthawuza. Iwo akhoza kulonjeza kuti azikonda mu matenda ndi mu thanzi, mu chuma ndi umphawi, mpaka iwo adzafa. Kapena, akhoza kulemba malumbiro awo.
• Kuwerenga / Nyimbo
  Zikondwerero zachipembedzo zikuphatikizapo nyimbo ndi kuwerenga malemba zomwe zimakhudza chikondi. (Atsogoleri ambiri achipembedzo adzakhala ndi nyimbo zoyenerera ndi zowerengedwa zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito popereka miyambo ndi maukwati.) Mchitidwe wachipembedzo kawirikawiri umaphatikizansopo nyimbo ndi kuwerenga za chikondi, kuphatikizapo ndakatulo, ndime, zolemba, nyimbo za pop, ndi nyimbo zamakono zachikwati. Zingakhale zochepetsera / zogonana / transgender kapena zowonjezera, malingana ndi zosankha za banjali.

• Kusinthanitsa kwa ndalama
  Awiriwo amasinthanitsa mphete ndi kunena mawu ochepa ponena za mphete izi. Zingakhale
  • Ndi mphete iyi, ine ndikukwatirana
  • Ndikukupatsani mphete iyi ngati chisonyezero cha chikondi ndi kudzipereka kwa inu
  • Ndine wolemekezeka kukupatsani mphete iyi ngati chizindikiro cha malonjezano omwe ndapanga kwa inu lero, ndi kulengeza kudziko la chikondi chomwe ndili nacho kwa inu.
  Kapena chirichonse chimene banjali likufuna kunena (kugwira ntchito ndi olemba anzawo kuti azichita - zipembedzo zina zingakhale ndi malamulo okhudza phwando la mphete)

• Kulankhulidwa kwa Ukwati
  Wogwira ntchitoyo akulengeza kwa alendo kapena mpingo kuti banjali tsopano ali okwatirana (alumikizana / ogwirizana / okwatirana - mawu alionse omwe mukufuna kunena) ndipo akuwapempha kuti apsompsone. Mabanja ena sangagwiritsidwe ntchito kumpsompsonana pagulu ndipo motero angakhale ndi kukupsompsona pang'ono, kapena kusiya gawoli palimodzi. Ena adzasangalala ndi mphindi yomweyi kuti akhale ndi mwayi wopsana wina ndi mzake pamaso pa okondedwa awo, kulengeza chikondi chawo, ndi kunyada pokhala ndi chikondi chimenecho.
• Kulandira
  Mabanja ambiri amatsatira mwambowu ndi phwando la mtundu wina. Mofanana ndi maukwati onse, palibe malamulo a momwe izi ziyenera kukhalira - zikhoza kukhala zachizolowezi komanso zachikhalidwe, kapena zosaoneka ngati pikisiki yam'mbuyo. Zingaphatikizepo miyambo ya ukwati yachikhalidwe monga kuvina koyamba , kudula keke, ndi maluwa omwe amaponyera, kapena kungokhala phwando losakhazikika. Kawirikawiri, pempholi lidzakuthandizani kudziwa zomwe ziti zichitike (mwachitsanzo, chonde tilandireni pambuyo pa mwambo wokumanga banja losangalala kapena A reception at Springfield Country Club idzawatsatira mwamsanga)