Zikondwerero za kudzipereka nthawi zambiri zimangoganiziridwa kuti zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa amuna okhaokha okhaokha, koma amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amatha kukwatirana tsopano kuti chikwati cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha chinavomerezedwa mwalamulo ku United States mu June 2015. Chigamulo cha Supreme Court chovomerezana ndi ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kumachepetsa kuthetsa kochita mwambowu, komabe palinso anthu ambiri okwatirana, okwatirana komanso olunjika, amene amasankha kukhala nawo.
Banja lirilonse lingagwirizane pamodzi pa mwambo wodzipereka. Ndi mabanja ambiri amene safuna kukwatirana mwalamulo, komabe akufuna kukhala ndi mwambo komanso mwambo waukwati komanso kukondwerera wina ndi mzake ndi banja lawo ndi abwenzi awo.
Popeza mwambo wopereka suli womangiriza, aliyense akhoza kukwatira. Kungakhale bwenzi lapamtima, membala kapena mtsogoleri wachipembedzo.
Mnzanga Kapena Wachibale
Poganizira wokhala ndi mnzanu kapena banja lanu kukwatira, ganizirani ngati ali omasuka kulankhula pagulu kapena ayi. Munthuyu ayenera kuyima pamaso pa omvera ndikuyankhula momveka bwino.
Lingalirani anthu omwe mukudziwa kuti akhala ndi maukwati a nthawi yaitali, opambana kapena ogwirizana, monga momwe iwo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mawu anzeru oti anene za chikondi ndi ukwati.
Mtsogoleri Wachipembedzo
Ngati mukuyang'ana mtsogoleri wodzipereka wachipembedzo, lankhulani ndi mtumiki kapena rabbi kuchokera mu mpingo wanu.
Atsogoleri angakhale okonzeka kuchita mgwirizano ngati akudziwani nokha, amvetsetsa bwino chiyanjano chanu ndikuzindikira chifukwa chake simukufuna kukwatirana mwalamulo.
Ngati mukuchita mgwirizano wogonana ndi amuna okhaokha komanso mpingo wanu kapena chikhulupiriro chanu sichizindikira, ganizirani imodzi mwa mipingo yomwe ikuchitika, kuphatikizapo Unitarian church ndi Metropolitan Community Church.
Atumiki a Unitarian, makamaka, amadziwika kukhala omvetsa bwino kwambiri ndi kulemekeza zikhulupiriro za ena ndipo safuna kuti mutembenukire ku chipembedzo. Zipembedzo zambiri zimasiya chisankho kwa atsogoleri, kuphatikizapo mipingo ya Episcopalian, Protestant, Buddhist ndi Reform Judaism.
Onani zowonongeka za LGBT, monga mawebusaiti ndi makalata, kuti mudziwe zomwe mungasankhe.
Mutasankha Wanu Wapadera
Wotsogolera wanu ayenera kukhalapo kwa inu panthawi ya kukonzekera kukwatirana kuti apite ku dongosolo la utumiki, zomwe adzalankhula, momwe mudzasamalire malumbiro ndi chirichonse chimene iwo adzapempha mpingo kuti uchite, mwachitsanzo, imani kapena kugwadira mbali zina, kuthandizira kuimba kapena palimodzi kudalitsa mgwirizanowu.
Ngati palibe aliyense amene mukuona kuti ndi woyenera kuchita mwambowu, ganizirani nokha. Mu zochitikazi, mumakonda kulandira aliyense ndikuwathokoza pobwera. Mungathe kunena mawu ochepa chabe okhudza chifukwa chake kukhala ndi mwambo wapachilendo n'kofunika kwa inu, kapena kukambirana za momwe mwakumana ndi mbiri yakale ya ubale wanu. Mukatero mudzalonjeza malonjezo anu, kusinthana mphete, kutenga nawo mbali mu phwando la mgwirizano, ndi zina zotero.
Ndikukupangitsani kuti mutenge zonse kuloweza pamtima kapena kukhala wokamba nkhani yabwino, osakhala ndi wina woti akuuzeni zomwe munganene komanso kuwerengera makhadi olembera angayang'ane pang'ono.