Chinthu chimodzi chotsimikizika: chikondi sizomwe mukufunikira
Funso lofunsidwa kwambiri: "Ndingadziwe bwanji ngati ndikukwatira munthu woyenera?"
Momwe Mungakwatire Munthu Wolondola
Kupeza Mayi kapena Bambo Sizingakhale zosavuta nthawi zonse kuchita. Mukangoganiza kuti mwapeza munthu woyenera, mukhoza kukayikira. Kukayikira za yemwe mukukwatirana sikuti ndibwino, koma wathanzi.
Tikukhulupirira kuti mukudziwa kale kuti musakwatirane ndi munthu yemwe amamwa mowa kwambiri, amathera mochuluka, amagwira ntchito mochulukirapo, amadzikuza kwambiri, amagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena khalidwe linalake losavomerezeka, wakhala wosakhulupirika, wankhanza, wosakhulupirika kapena wozunza.
Ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wam'tsogolo sakhala ndi makhalidwe oipawo ndipo mukukayikira za kulowa m'banja, werengani mawu awa. Mudzawona ngati kukayikira kwanu kuli koyenera komanso koyenera kumvetsera kapena ngati muli ndi mapazi ozizira pokwatira popanda kukhala ndi zifukwa zomveka.
Chimwemwe ndi Chisamaliro Chakumtima
Ngakhale kuyembekezera kuti wokwatirana azikhala wosangalala nthawi zonse ndizosamveka, kukhala ndi munthu woyenera kumabweretsa chimwemwe ndi mphamvu ya moyo wanu.
- Mudzadziwa kuti mukukwatirana ndi munthu woyenera pamene mumamva kuti mukuthandizidwa ndikulimbikitsana pa kukula kwanu pamaganizo ndi m'maganizo. Munthu woyenera akufuna kuti mukhale wathanzi komanso mutha kuima pa mapazi anu awiri. Mukakhala ndi munthu woyenera mumadzimvera bwino, mwatetezeka, ndi kukwaniritsidwa.
- Munthu woyenera sakhala woipa, wodzikonda, wolakalaka-washy, wamtendere, wamanyazi, wotsutsa, kapena wotchedwa slob. Nchifukwa chiyani mumagwiritsa ntchito moyo wanu mwachisawawa?
Chikondi, Chikondi, ndi Kugonana
Ndikofunika kuti munthu amene mumakwatirana naye ndi munthu yemwe amamvetsetsa komanso wokondweretsa zofuna zanu pazokhudzana ndi kugonana ndi chikondi.
- Mudzadziwa kuti mukukwatira munthu woyenera ngati mwamuna wanu wam'tsogolo akuti "Ndimakukondani" osati m'mawu okhawo, koma mwachikondi. Timatanthauzira zochita zachikondi monga kuchita zinthu monga kuzindikira pamene mukutopa, kukumbukira tsiku lanu lobadwa, kufuna kukhala ndi nthawi, kumvetsera, kukuwonetsani ulemu, kuyitana ngati mutachedwa, kukuwonetsani chikondi, kukhala oleza mtima ndi inu ngati simumvetsa kanthu, kukupsompsani hello ndi zabwino, ndikukukumbutsani popanda chifukwa china.
- Mudzadziwa kuti mukukwatira munthu woyenera ngati mukugwirizana ndi wina ndi mzake. Ngati nonse mukuona kuti mukugonana mosiyana kapena muli ndi libidos zosiyana, ukwati wanu udzakhala wowawa.
Nkhani Yogwirizana: Kugonana M'kwati - Munthu woyenera ndi munthu amene mumamukonda komanso yemwe ndi mnzanu. Munthu woyenera amasangalala kucheza nanu. Chikondi chanu ndi banja lanu zidzatha pang'onopang'ono ngati inu nonse mulibe abwenzi.
Nkhani Yowonjezera: Kukhala Amzanga Monga Okonda - Munthu woyenera ndi wokoma mtima, woganizira ena, komanso wachifundo. Zinthu zochepa pamoyo monga kunena kuti 'zikomo' ndi kutsegula chitseko zingamawoneke ngati zachikale, koma zimasonyeza kuchuluka kwa chisamaliro ndi kukoma mtima kwa munthu.
Kulankhulana, Zolinga, ndi Makhalidwe
Inu ndi munthu woyenera mudzakhala ndi zolinga zofanana ndi zofunika pamoyo.
- Kukhala ndi malingaliro osiyana ndi malingaliro osiyana kuli bwino ngati inu awiri mukugwirizana kuti musagwirizane. Ngakhale simungagwirizane nthawi zonse, zokambirana ndi munthu woyenera zidzakhala zosangalatsa komanso zosasangalatsa. Munthu woyenerera amalankhulana ndi maganizo ndi malingaliro ndi iwe ndipo sangapitirize kukhumudwa ndikudandaula mkati mwake.
- Kumvetsa kuti nthawi yokhayokha pamoyo ndikusintha, munthu woyenerera akukonzekera zokambirana zaukwati, mafunso, ndi mitu nanu musanakwatirane.
- Munthu woyenera adzakulimbikitsani kusankha zochita kuti mukhale ndi moyo wathanzi mwa kudya zakudya zathanzi komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Munthu woyenera akufuna kugwira ntchito ndi inu kuti athetsere ntchito yanu ndi moyo wanu.
- Kukumverera ngati kuti ndiwe yekha amene mumakweza zinthu kumbali ya nyumba kapena kusamalira ana akhoza kukalamba. Munthu woyenerera ali wokonzeka kugawira maudindo a ana anu a kunyumba ndi a mtsogolo.
- Kupeza munthu woyenera sikukutanthauza kuti awiri a inu simudzakhala ndi mavuto kapena zovuta zomwe mungachite. Komabe, ndi munthu woyenera mudzadziwa kuti awiri a inu mutha kukwanitsa kuthana ndi mavuto omwe angawononge ubale wanu. Muyeneranso kukhulupirira kuti mnzanuyo angafune thandizo la akatswiri ngati nonse simungathe kugwira ntchito nokha.
Kudalira ndi Kuwona Mtima
Munthu woyenera ndi woona mtima ndi inu.
- Munthu woyenera adzakukhulupirirani osati kufufuza foni, kapena kugwiritsa ntchito kompyuta, kapena kuchepetsa kuchuluka kwa nthawi imene mumathera ndi ena omwe mumawadera nkhawa. Mudzadziwa kuti mukukwatirana ndi munthu woyenera ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wam'tsogolo sakuyesani kukupatulani ku banja lanu ndi abwenzi anu. Inu simukungoyenera kukhala a m'banja, abwenzi, magulu, ndi zina zotero, muli ndi ufulu wochita zimenezo. Munthu woyenera m'moyo wanu sangayese kulamulira moyo wanu koma akufuna kugawana moyo ndi inu. Munthu wolakwika amakupangitsani kumva ngati mukuyenera kuyenda pa zipolopolo za mazira kuti mukhale ndi mtendere panyumba panu.
- Simuyenera kuteteza zofuna zanu kapena nthawi yokha. Mudzadziwa kuti mukukwatirana ndi munthu woyenera pamene simukufunsidwa kuti mukufunikira nthawi yokha kapena malo anu enieni.
- Munthu woyenera adzakukhulupirirani osati kukuchezerani. Kumverera ngati kuti mukuyenera kumveketsa kusamuka kwanu kudzakhala katundu wolemetsa kwambiri.
Filagi Yofiira Mu Ubale Wanu
Ngati muzindikira kuti pali mbendera zofiira kapena zovuta muukwati wanu, musanyalanyaze kapena kudzipusitsa kuti muganize kuti mbendera zofiira sizothandiza kapena kuti wina amene mumamukonda asintha. Zimatenga zambiri kuposa chikondi kuti banja liziyenda bwino.