Kodi N'kofunika Kupatsa Atumiki Kukhala Wachigwirizano?
Pamene kupereka chisomo kwa alendo a phwando ndi mwambo wokoma kwambiri, ndithudi sikofunikira. Iwo akungotanganidwa kuti azitha kuyamikira oyamikira anu chifukwa chopita ku phwando lanu, ndi kukumbukira kuti mutenge kunyumba kwa chochitika chapadera.
Inde, ndizomveka kuti alendo anu akhala akufunafuna chinachake pamene achoka pa phwando.
Zosangalatsa zapakati zakhala zachizoloŵezi, komanso zowonjezera kulenga ndi zamtengo wapatali m'zaka zaposachedwa, zochuluka kuposa momwe zilili zofunika. Alendo anu akhala akukonzekera kuti ayembekezere chinachake. Kaya ndi phwando la ana , chisamaliro chokwatira , kapena chikondwerero cha chikondwerero cha 50 , ndawona mabungwe omwe salipira ndalama. Mwamwayi, izi zakhala zikuyembekeza zoyembekezeka ndikuyika zina zowonjezera mtengo kwa wolandira kapena woyang'anira.
Phwando lachisomo siliyenera kukhala ngakhale kusinthanitsa mphatso, monga mphatso yobwezera mphatso ya kubadwa ndi ndalama zomwezo. Mawu akuti, "ndi lingaliro lofunika", limagwira ntchito moyenera. Ndipotu, m'zaka zaposachedwapa, anthu ena ogwira nawo ntchito amapereka zopereka zothandizira m'dzina la alendo onse mmalo mwa chinthu chenicheni kwa mlendo aliyense. Mlendo aliyense amalandira khadi akuwauza kuti mphatso inapangidwa m'dzina lawo. Alendo ambiri amadziwa kuti kuposa mtengo wamtengo wapatali umene ungawonjezeko ku nyumba zawo.
Nthawi yotsatira mukakhala nawo phwando, ngati mukufuna kupereka chisomo chenicheni kwa alendo, pali zambiri zotsika mtengo, zoganizira, zomwe mungapereke zomwe sizikhala pafupi kuzungulira fumbi. Mwachitsanzo, nyumba yophikidwa kapena yogula cookies kapena mkate watsopano; chokoma chokoma chokoleti kapena chokoleti; mphukira yaing'ono; chithunzithunzi cha mlendo amene watengedwa kuchitika; matumba angapo apamwamba a tiyi; thumba labwino la mthumba.
Ganizirani za zinthu zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito, zokondweretsedwa ndikuponyedwa pamene zatha. Lembani zokondweretsa izi mochititsa chidwi mu bokosi kapena thumba laling'ono lodzaza ndi uta womwe umagwirizana ndi mutu wa phwando. Ndiye alendo anu adzamva kuyamika ndi kuchiritsidwa. Komabe, phwando lachikondwerero silimakhululukira mlendo wa ulemu chifukwa chotumiza zolemba zake zowathokoza chifukwa cha mphatso iliyonse yomwe idaperekedwa pa chikondwererochi.