Malangizo Okuthandizani Kuti Mukhale Ovuta Kwambiri
Monga ife tonse tikudziwira, ndipo ambiri a ife tawonapo kamodzi, kusuntha pa nthawi zabwino ndi kovuta . Kotero, pamene muwonjezera kupsinjika maganizo kwina kwa kusintha kwakukulu kwa moyo, monga chisudzulo, imfa kapena mavuto azachuma, kusamuka kungakhale kusweka.
Gawo lovuta ndilokuti anthu ambiri omwe ali mmenemo ayenera kusunthira - mosiyana ndi kufuna-chifukwa cha zifukwa zomwe zili pamwambapa. Akumva kuti alibe chisankho pakusunthira, ambiri amaona kuti miyoyo yawo ikutha.
Ngati muli mu mkhalidwe umenewu, ndipo muyenera kusamuka, ndiye pali mfundo zina zomwe mungaganizire ndikuthandizani pa nthawi yovuta kwambiri. Ndipo kumbukirani, simukungoyendayenda m'nyumba yatsopano, mukusamukira kumoyo watsopano.
Tengani Zomwe Mukufunikira
Ndinali wotayika kwambiri imfa ya amayi anga. Ndili ndi nyumba zambiri zondikumbutsa, sindinadziwe komwe ndingatembenuke. Zomwe ndinkadziwa zinali zoti ndikuyenera kupanga zosankha zina. Nthawi zambiri, pamene wina akusuntha, ndikupempha kuti athetse zonse zomwe sanazigwiritse ntchito chaka chatha kuti athe kuchepetsa kuchuluka kwa zinthu zomwe ayenera kusunthira. Kwa anthu amene akuvutika maganizo komanso kusunthira, ndikupereka zosiyana.
Pamene zimakhudzidwa mtima, zinthu zathu zimatitonthoza komanso zimatipatsa chitetezo, makamaka pamene miyoyo yathu imakhala ngati ilibe chitetezo. Tengani zomwe mukufunikira kukuthandizani kudutsa. Ngati mukuvutika kupanga chisankho chofuna kusunthira chinachake kapena ayi, sungani ndi kupanga chisankho nthawi ina mukamakhala okonzeka.
Idafika nthawi yokonzekera zovala za mayi anga, sindinathe kuzichita. Nthaŵi iliyonse ndikayamba kutsegula, ndimalira kwa maola ambiri panthawi. Pomalizira pake, ndinapempha mnzako kuti amuthandize. Mwamtima mwake adayika zovala za amayi anga m'zinthu zazikulu zomwe ndinalemba ndikuziika pambali. Nsalu zimenezo zinasuntha ndi ine kudutsa dziko lonse mpaka ku California.
Potsiriza, pamene ndinali wokonzeka, ndinadutsa nawo, chidutswa. Ndapereka zovala zambiri kumalo opereka chithandizo, ndikusungira masewera ochepa omwe ndikudziwa kuti ndikukula tsiku limodzi.
Ngakhale kuti ndinali wophunzira wosauka panthawiyo, ndinasankha kuchita zokhazokha zomwe ndikuchita. Ndipo ngakhale kuti zanditengera ndalama zambiri kuti ndipereke zida zina, ndikukondwera kuti ndinatero.
Mawu otsiriza pa izi ndi, chitani zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti muthe.
Yesetsani Kuti Musasankhe Zochita
Zizolowezi zanga zosasunthika zimakhazikitsidwa tsopano, ndipo zanditengera kanthawi kuti ndizitha kubwereranso ndikusankha zochita zotsutsana ndi momwe ndingamverere. Ngakhale kuti ndi bwino kumvetsera maganizo anu, kutaya mpweya wochapa zovala chifukwa mnzanu amene munagula naye kale akugugulira iwe tsiku lachikumbutso chanu, musagwiritse ntchito ndalama zambiri ... ngakhale mutagulitsa!
Musanayambe kutaya zonse zomwe zili pamtima kukumbukira (zosiyana ndi zoyambirira), bwererani mmbuyo ndikuganizira ngati ndi chinthu chomwe simungathe kukhala nacho. Ngati simungathe - simungathe - kuchotsa.
Ndimangochenjeza kupanga zopanda pake. Kaŵirikaŵiri, zosankha zimenezo zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni. Ngati, ngakhale simungathe kuyima kuti muyang'ane chinachake chifukwa chimakhumudwitsa kwambiri ndipo mumadziwa kuti mumakhala bwino ngati chinthucho sichikuchotsani pa moyo wanu.
Funsani Thandizo
Kunyada kwathu kungakhale cholepheretsa chotero nthawi zina, kutipangitsa ife kumverera ngati kuti titha kuthetsa vutolo pandekha. Monga ndanenera kale, kusuntha ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zovuta kwambiri zomwe mungachite - kusunthira mu moyo watsopano, ndizowonjezereka. Choncho, musamachite manyazi kupempha thandizo. Anthu omwe akuzungulirani nthawi zambiri amamva ngati osagwira ntchito pamene akuwonekerani kuti mukuvutika mwa kuwapempha kuti akuchitireni chinachake sangakuthandizeni kokha, koma akhoza kuwapangitsa kukhala omvera, nayenso. Aliyense amapambana!
Choncho, ngati mukufuna ntchito zina, kapena mukusowa thandizo pakunyamulira kapena kukonza zinthu (monga mnzako yemwe adasamalira zovala za amayi anga) kapena mukufuna mwana wamwamuna, funsani abwenzi anu, abwenzi anu ndi anzanu.
Ngati mukuvutika kupanga chisankho chokhudza kusunthira kapena za zisankho zomwe mukufuna kuchita, kambiranani ndi mnzanu kapena mlangizi - wina yemwe ali ndi chidwi chenicheni pamtima.
Thandizo la aphunzitsi nthawi zonse limathandizidwa panthawi izi; iwo angakuthandizeni kufotokoza mkhalidwe wanu ndi kukuthandizani kupanga zosankha zina zovuta.
Muzidzichitira Zabwino
Kuyamba moyo watsopano kumakhudza maganizo ndi thupi. Khalani okoma kwa inu nokha pa nthawi ino. Ngati mwatopa, usiku ndi usiku mutagona ; ngati mukufuna nthawi yokha, perekani nokha. Pita ukatenge maofesi a tsitsi lanu kapena kupaka misala kapena kutenga nthawi kuti muwonere kanema kapena awiri, ngakhale mutakhala ngati muli ndi zambiri zoti muchite. Podzipatsa nokha zomwe ukusowa, ukulola kuti uchiritsidwe.
Kumbukirani kuti mudzamva kuti mukutopa, mukutopa komanso mutatopa. Icho ndi gawo la ndondomekoyi, kotero lekani kudzipweteka nokha, funsani chithandizo, ndipo muuzeni wina. Ndipo pamwamba pa zonse, tenga mpweya waukulu, ndikukumbatira ana anu ndikudziwa kuti moyo wanu udzakhala bwino - zimangotenga nthawi.