Kodi mukudandaula ndi zonse zokhudza dongosolo laukwati ? Kodi inu ndi cholinga chanu mukuganiza kuti muthamanga ndikugwedezeka popanda onse okonda?
Palibe chirichonse cholakwika ndi izo, koma pali zinthu zina zomwe muyenera kuziganizira. Mungaganize kuti kulongosola kumabwera popanda nkhawa, koma si choncho. Mudzapeza zinthu zosiyanasiyana zomwe ziyenera kuthandizidwa.
Mtundu uliwonse wa ukwati ukhoza kukhala wachikondi - ngakhale kumalankhula.
Kawirikawiri chigamulo chozikidwa pamaganizo kapena kukhumudwa kuchokera kuzinthu zonse zozizwitsa pokonzekera ukwati waukulu, iwe ndi wokondedwa wanu muli pazinthu zomwe zingalimbikitse mgwirizano. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti mulibe chikole ndi udindo kwa abwenzi ndi abambo, ndipo ndithudi, makhalidwe abwino.
Musanapange chisankho, onetsetsani kuti mukuchita izi chifukwa choyenera. Ngati cholinga chanu chikudodometsa anthu, ganizirani motalika musanayambe kudutsa nazo. Simukufuna kukhala ndi chisankho chomwe mudzanong'oneza nazo chisoni mukatha mantha.
Ngati muli otsimikiza kuti mukufuna kukhala ndi munthu uyu kwa moyo wanu wonse, koma simukufuna kuti pakhale maukwati a mwambo wa ukwati, mwa njira zonse, elope. Pali malingaliro ena abwino omwe muyenera kuwasamalira. Kuchita zimenezi kungasokoneze maubwenzi, ndipo sizingakhale zosavuta kuti mutembenukireko.
Mfundo Zofunika Zoyambirira
Musanalowere, onetsetsani kuti mukudziwa zomwe mukufunikira kuti mukhale okwatirana mwalamulo komwe mukupita.
Dziko lililonse ndi dziko likhoza kusiyana.
Nazi zina zomwe mukufuna kufufuza:
- Kodi mukusowa kuyesedwa kwa thupi kapena magazi?
- Kodi pali nthawi yolindira pambuyo pemiti yanu yobvomerezeka?
- Kodi ndi zofunikira zotani (chilolezo cha madalaivala, chitifiketi chobadwira, lamulo la chisudzulo kuyambira pachiyambi, ndi zina zotero)?
- Kodi mboni ndi yofunika? Ngati ndi choncho, kodi alipo wina amene akupita komwe angakuyimireni ngati simubweretsani nokha?
- Kodi chilolezo cha ukwati ndi zingati?
- Kodi abusa kapena woweruza amawinda kuti achite mwambo wotani?
- Kodi ndi ndalama zochuluka bwanji kuti musunge ukwati pa malo omwe mwasankha?
Kuphunzitsa Banja
Mutatha kumangiriza mfundoyi, muyenera kudziwitsa mabanja onse mwamsanga. Kupanda kutero, mumayesetsa kuvulaza maganizo awo. Makolo anu komanso abale anu akamadziwa, funsani anzanu apamtima. Sizifukwa zabwino kuchita zimenezi kudzera mu imelo yambiri. Ndizofunika kwambiri kuti munthu aziitanira ndi kuyankhula za izo.
Chinachake chomwe mungafunikire kuganizira ndi kufunsa makolo ngati akufuna kutenga nawo mbali. Izi zingathandize kupewa kukhumudwitsa maganizo awo ndikuwapangitsa kumva kuti mumawakhulupirira ndi chinsinsi chachikulu ichi. Ngati mumasankha kuti muwaphatikize, onetsetsani kuti amadziwa kuti palibe wina aliyense amene ayenera kudziwa, ndipo mukuchepetsa mndandanda wa alendo, wokondedwa wanu, ndi makolo, popanda kupatulapo.
Malo
Popeza mwasankha kukhala ndi chiyanjano chokwatirana ndi ukwati wanu, ndi awiri okha kapena mwina ndi mwamuna wanu wabwino, mzimayi wolemekezeka, ndi makolo anu, mukhoza kupita kulikonse musadandaule ngati aliyense sadzakhala womasuka . Malo ena otchuka omwe amapita kumalowa ndi Las Vegas, malo osungirako zakutchire, nyanja, malo osungirako zinthu monga Disney World, kapena sitimayi .
Chovala
Phindu linanso la kuyankhula ndi kuti mungathe kuvala chirichonse chimene mukufuna koma osadandaula za kuwonetsera, kukhumudwitsa wina, kapena kupangitsa ena kukhala osasamala. Zedi, mungathebe kuvala chovala chachikwati, koma kodi ndizothandiza bwanji? Nsalu yabwino kapena nsalu ziwiri zapamwamba ndi zokongola. Kapena ngati ndiwe wovuta kwambiri, pita ku jeans awiri.
Malonjezo Akwati
Mukangobwerako kuchokera kokasangalala, tumizani mauthenga kwa achibale anu onse ndi abwenzi anu. Sungani mawu ochepa ndi osavuta.
Pano pali chitsanzo cha kulengeza kwa kulongosola:
John Green ndi Mary Brown akusangalala kulengeza ukwati wawo pa January 4, 2014.
Mukawapatsa masiku angapo kuti mulandire makalata, tumizani imelo ndi zithunzi za awiri a inu mukasangalala ndi ukwati wanu. Izi zimapatsa banja lanu ndi abwenzi malingaliro okhudzidwa.
Kulandira Ukwati
Simusowa kuti mupange phwando la phwando la ukwati, chifukwa chakuti munaganiza zolemba. Khalani ndi phwando lanu laukwati, koma chitani mwamsanga mwambo umenewu. Anzanu adzakondwera kumva za ulendo wanu, choncho khalani okonzeka kufotokoza nkhani yeniyeni yomwe mwaganiza kuti mukulongosola komanso momwe mumasangalalira. Pambuyo pa phwando laukwati lokhalitsa likhoza kukhala losakhumudwitsidwa kwambiri chifukwa simudzasowa kudandaula ndi chirichonse chomwe chikuchitika bwino pa mwambowu, ndipo simungathe kudandaula za zovuta .
Mphatso za Ukwati
Ngakhale mutalankhula, mukhoza kulandira mphatso zaukwati mwachifundo. Malamulo omwewo amatsatira. Nthaŵi zonse tumizani mawu oyamikira mwamsanga mwamsanga mukatha kukwatira.