Malangizo 9 a Ukwati Wolimba

Pamene anthu ayamba kukwatira ndikuyamba kuganiza zokwatira , amakhala okondana kwambiri. Ndipotu, nthawi ilipo kuti mubwerere. Ndipo palibe amene akufuna kuti chikondi chake chichoke.

Phazi Latsopano

Ndiye ukwatiwo ukuchitika, ndipo zonse zimasangalatsa ndi masewera kwa kanthawi. Chikondi chachisangalalo chimagwiritsidwa ntchito pachikondi, ndipo anthuwa amathera nthawi yambiri akuyang'anizana komanso kukhala okonda chikondi.

Izi ndi zachilendo.

Nthawi Imapita

Mwamwayi, chinthu chotsatira ndi chakuti banja lomweli likuyamba kuthandizana, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mmodzi kapena onse awiri amaiwala makhalidwe awo ngati awiriwo. Uku ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu. Muyenera kumuchitira mnzanu monga momwe munachitira mukakwatirana. Izi zikhoza kuchitapo kanthu, koma m'kupita kwa nthawi ndizofunika kukhala ndi moyo wosangalatsa kunyumba .

Malangizo a Banja Losangalala

Nazi malangizowo a moyo wapabanja omwe angakuthandizeni kukhala osangalala ngati banja:

1. Mvetserani. Poyesera monga kukondana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu, ngati mumamvetsera, mungaphunzire chinachake chomwe chingathandize kuti banja lanu likhale losangalatsa komanso lokometsa. Ngakhale mutakhala wotanganidwa kwambiri ndi zinthu zina osati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu, ndibwino kupatula nthaŵi imene zonse zomwe mukuchita ndiyang'anirani zomwe akunena.
2. Nkhani. Ndayang'ana maanja akukhala m'malesitilanti mwakachetechete panthawi yonse ya chakudya. Izi zimandipweteka mtima chifukwa munthu amene mumayenera kukambirana naye ndi wokondedwa wanu. Pezani nkhani zomwe zimakukondani nonse - zochitika zamakono, zokondweretsa, ndi zilakolako zomwe mumakonda - ndikukambirana nawo nthawi yaitali. Simukuyenera ngakhale kugwirizana pa mfundo zonse. Mtsutsano ukhoza kukhala wosangalatsa malinga ngati siwoloka mzere wa kukhala wolimba mwauzimu.

1. Pangani nthawi kwa wina ndi mzake. Ndondomeko zogwira ntchito zodzaza ndi ntchito, ana, zosangalatsa, ndi masewera angapangire mphete muukwati. Sungani nthawi yokhala ndi mnzanuyo kuti musonyeze kuti mumasamala kwambiri za ubale wanu monga momwe mumachitira zina.
2. Kumbukirani. Musaiwale nthawi yapadera, monga masiku okumbukira tsiku lobadwa, zikondwerero, ndi zochitika zina zomwe ziyenera kutanthauza chinachake kwa inu ngati banja. Kupereka mwamuna wanu ndi chinachake chapadera pa tsiku loyamba limene mumakumana nalo limamuwonetsa kuti mumayamikira nthawi yomwe mwakhala pamodzi.

1. Khalani owona mtima. Mukangoyamba kunama mabanja anu, mumapanga chithunzi kuti musakhulupirire. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kugwedeza chinthu chilichonse m'maganizo mwanu kapena kumuuza mkazi wanu kuti mukuganiza kuti ndi mafuta. Zambiri za kukhala owona mtima pa zinthu zofunika zomwe zimakhudza ubale wanu, banja lanu, malo anu, ndi ndalama. Izi zikuti, pewani kukhumudwitsa mnzanuyo podzudzula chinthu chimene sangathe kuchita.
2. Khalani wokhala naye bwino. Mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu ndi mnzanu wapafupi kwambiri amene mumakhala naye , choncho mumupatseni ulemu womwewo ngati mutamupatsa mnzanuyo koleji. Musadandaule za iye amene amadya ayisikilimu omaliza. Kumbukirani kuponya mpando wa chimbudzi kotero kuti asagwere akadzuka m'maŵa.
3. Khalani bwenzi labwino. Kuphatikiza ndi kukhala ndi mnzanu, mnzanu ayenera kukhala bwenzi lanu lapamtima . Limbikitsani ubale monga momwe mungakhalire ndi mnzanu amene mumamukonda.
4. Kangana momasuka. Padzabwera nthawi muukwati wanu pamene inu ndi mnzanuyo simukugwirizana, ndipo ndizo zabwino. Phunzirani momwe mungatsutsane popanda kutsutsa, kunyoza, kapena kutsutsa malingaliro a mnzanuyo.
5. Muzilemekeza banja lanu. Pambuyo pokwatirana, banja lake limakhala lake komanso mosiyana. Simuyenera kukonda kapena kuvomereza zonse zomwe akuchita, koma muyenera kuwalemekeza. Ngati amayamba kukangana kapena kukangana pakati pa inu ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu, muyenera kukambirana ngati banja ndikuwonetsa mgwirizano.