Chidziwitso cha Kukambirana

Aliyense amadziwa munthu yemwe amalankhula momasuka, akunena chinthu cholakwika chomwe chimapangitsa mphindi yovuta , amafunsanso mafunso ovuta , kapena samalola aliyense kuti adziwe mawu. Angakhale ndi zolinga zabwino, koma pokhala pafupi naye akhoza kuthandizira pazokha. Musakhale munthu ameneyo.

Mosasamala kanthu kuti ndiwe wanzeru kapena wamtundu wanji, nthawi zina mumayenera kuima ndikuyesa zoyenera za zomwe mukunena.

Onetsetsani kuti muli ndi zithunzithunzi zabwino zothandizira kuti musamalankhule chinachake chonyansa. Kudziwa luso la kukambirana bwino kumafuna kuphunzira mfundo zina zofunika ndikuzichita.

Pumulani

Musanayambe kutsegula pakamwa panu kuti muyankhule, lekani ndikuganizira zomwe mukanene. Anthu ambiri amalankhula asanayambe kuganiza, ndipo pamene mawuwo atulukamo, safotokoza tanthauzo lake. Imani kamphindi kuti mulole zamkati zowonongeka zanu zitenge. Izi zingapangitse kusiyana pakati pa kuonedwa kuti ndi wokambirana bwino komanso ena akuganiza kuti ndiwe wamakhalidwe abwino.

Samalani Zizindikiro

Pamene mukukambirana ndi ena, samalirani kwambiri zizindikiro za thupi lanu zomwe mukuzimasula pokambirana. Ngati mupitiriza kulankhula nthawi yayitali atataya maganizo, mukhoza kukhala nokha, kapena kuwonjezereka, osayitanidwa ku msonkhano wotsatira. Nthawi yomwe mumadziwa kuti mwalankhulana mochulukirapo, tenga mpweya ndikupatsa wina mwayi woti ayankhule.

Zizindikiro kuti munthu winayo sali wosungulumwa akuchita nawo zokambiranazo:

• Amakwera.
• Amasiya kuyang'ana maso.
• Amayang'ana kuzungulira chipinda kufunafuna kuthawa.
• Iye akuyamba kumbuyo.
• Amasiya kuyankha.

Mverani kwa Ena

Imodzi mwa njira zabwino kwambiri zothandiza kuti anthu aganizire kuti ndinu abwino pa zokambirana ndi kumvetsera zomwe akunena.

Izi zikuwonetsa chidwi chanu kwa iwo, ndipo amatha kukuwonetsani chidwi mukamayankhula. Perekani mnzanuyo chidwi chanu.

Momwe mungasonyezere kuti mumamvetsera:

• Yang'anani maso.
• Nod kapena kugawana nthawi zina, "Inde, ndikuvomereza," kapena "Ndikudziwa zomwe mukutanthauza."
• Funsani mafunso panthawi yomwe mukukambirana.
• Gonjetsani kupambana kwa wina ndikumuyamikira.

Dzikonzekere Wekha pa Nkhani Zokambirana

Musanapite ku phwando kapena kusonkhana pamodzi ndi anzanu , khalani ndi nthawi yomwe mukufuna kukambirana. Kuchita izi kudzakuthandizani kupeŵa kukhumudwa mukakambirana , ndipo mudzapeza kuti mitu imeneyi imapereka mabukhu abwino a zokambirana zomwe zingayende m'njira zosiyanasiyana.

Maganizo pa nkhani zokambirana:

• Zaka zam'deralo
• Zakudya zokondedwa
• Makampani atsopano m'deralo
• Masewera
• Zosangalatsa
• Kusindikiza kwa nyimbo
• Mabuku okondedwa
• Nkhani za chikhalidwe cha anthu
• Ma TV kapena mafilimu

Mutu woti mupewe (pokhapokha mutakhala ndi anzanu a nthawi yaitali omwe angakukondeni):

• Malingaliro a ndale - pokhapokha mutakhala pa msonkhano wandale kapena msonkhano.
• Zamoyo zanyama zapakati - pokhapokha mutakhala ogwira ntchito zomwe zimalimbikitsa moyo weniweni.
• Zochitika zakale - pokhapokha mutakhala pa phwando lokondwerera gulu la zaka.
• Zolemera zapadera - pokhapokha mutakhala ndi gulu la anthu omwe zolinga zawo zingapeze kapena kuchepa thupi.

• Ndalama zaumwini - pokhapokha ngati munthu wina ali wanu walangizi wa zachuma kapena banki.
• Mfundo zamtengo wapatali zokhudzana ndi thanzi - pokhapokha mutakhala ndi gulu la akatswiri a zaumoyo omwe sagwiritsidwa ntchito poyankhula za magazi ndi madzi ena.

Zolakwa Zophatikiza Kukambirana

Mkhalidwe wa chikhalidwe umafuna kudziwa momwe mungapeŵe kulakwitsa mukamakambirana. Anthu ambiri amayamba kukayikira zomwe anganene kapena kuchita pofuna kutembenuza anthu. Dziwani zina mwa zolakwika zomwe zimachitika kuti musaletse kukambitsirana kumalo osokoneza.

Zomwe zimagwirizana:

• Kusadziwa kanthu za munthu amene mukumuuza - Tengani nthawi kuti mumudziwe munthu amene mumayankhula nawo. Izi zidzakuthandizani kulankhula za chinachake chomwe chingamukhudze.
• Kulemba mameseji kapena kufufuza foni nthawi zonse mauthenga - Palibe amene amafuna kuti foni ndi yofunika kwambiri kuposa momwe akukambirana pano.

• Kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo chokhazikitsidwa ndi R mu chikhalidwe chogwiriridwa ndi G - Ichi ndi chonyansa komanso chokhumudwitsa.
• Kulongosola nthabwala zosiyana-siyana - Ngati simudziwa munthu yemwe mukuyankhula naye bwino, simudziwa chomwe chingakhale chokhumudwitsa.
• Kusokoneza kapena kukambirana mobwerezabwereza zokambirana - Mpatseni munthu wina mwayi wowala. Kuchita mwanjira ina ndi njira yabwino kuti anthu aziyenda mozungulira.
• Kusintha mwadzidzidzi kukambirana kuti mudzivomereze nokha - Ngati mutachita izi kawirikawiri, ena angakuganizireni kuti ndinu nkhanza.
• Kuyang'ana kale munthu amene mukumuuza - Simukufuna kuoneka ngati wothandizana naye phindu la malingaliro a mnzanuyo.
• Kuchita ngati wodziwa-zonse - Palibe amene amadziwa zonse, kotero musamayerekezere kuti mukuchita.
• Kuiwala kulengeza ena - Khalani achisomo ndipo kuyamba ndi kuyamba.
• Kunena za aliyense - Simukudziwa yemwe mnzanu wapamtima yemwe mumamukamba.