Momwe Mungakhalire Wokhala Naye Wabwino

Kaya mukuyesera kusunga ndalama kapena kukhala ndi chizolowezi chokhala nokha, kukhala ndi mnzanuyo ndi njira yabwino. Musanalowe mumkhalidwe woterewu, mvetserani zomwe mukulowa.

Zopindulitsa Zogonana

Makamaka m'mizinda, kukhala ndi munthu wokhala naye akhoza kukhala ndi mapindu angapo. Nazi zifukwa zina zomwe anthu amasankha kugawira malo awo okhala.

• Gawani mtengo wa malo anu okhala.
• Pali chitetezo chokhala ndi anthu oposa mmodzi m'nyumba kapena nyumba.

• Ngati muli anzanu, mumakhala ndi wina woti muyankhule nawo .

Malangizo Okhazikika Okhazikika

Kaya ndinu wophunzira wa ku koleji kapena wachikulire yemwe akufunikira wokhala naye pazifukwa zachuma, mudzakhala ndi chidziwitso chabwinoko ngati mukutsatira ndondomeko yofunikira yodzisunga .

1. Pangani malamulo ena oyambirira . Chinthu choyamba muyenera kuchita ndi mnzanu watsopano ndi kukhala pansi ndikukhazikitsa mndandanda wa malamulo. Izi ndi zokambirana ndi kupereka , choncho choyamba lembani zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe aliyense amafuna. Aphatikizidwe momwe mungagawire bili, omwe amapereka zomwe, ndondomeko yokhudza alendo, ndondomeko yoyeretsa, ndi china chirichonse chimene mungaganize.
2. Musakongole popanda kufunsa. Wokhala naye angakhale ndi nsonga yochepetsetsa yomwe siinayambe zaka zambiri, koma izi sizikupatsani ufulu wovala popanda kufunsa. Angakhale akupulumutsira pachithunzi chapadera. Funsani chilolezo choyamba, ndipo nthawi zonse muzilemekeza zofuna zake. Ngati atakupatsani chilolezo, ndipo mumataya china chake, perekani kuti chiyeretsedwe bwino. Ngati izo sizigwira ntchito, pewani chinthucho.

1. Lemezani malo a munthu wina. Aliyense ali ndi chosowa cha malo ake enieni , mosasamala kanthu kuti ali wotani, kotero pewani kulowerera mwa munthu wina.
2. Tsatirani Lamulo la Chikhalidwe. Musanayambe kuchita kanthu kokayikitsa ponena za wokhala naye, imani ndi kulingalira za momwe mumamvera ngati magome atatembenuzidwa. Kutsatira Lamulo lachikhalidwe kungasunge ubale wanu.

1. Khalani aulemu pamene mukuitana alendo. Kaya mukukhala ndi munthu wina pa phwando la chakudya chamadzulo kapena usiku, nthawi zonse ndibwino kuti mukambirane ndi mnzanuyo. Pokhapokha mutakhala nawo phwando kapena chochitika china, musamayembekezere mnzanuyo kuti azigawana nawo zosangalatsa kapena ndalama.
2. Sambani zodetsa zanu. Ngati mupanga chisokonezo, chiyeretseni. Musaganize kuti mnzanuyo akuthandizani kuyeretsa pambuyo pa phwando, pokhapokha inu nonse mutagwirizanitsa. Muyeneranso kusasiya chisokonezo tsiku lotsatira chifukwa munthu wina sayenera kuyang'anizana ndi mbale zakuda ndi zinyenyeswazi akamadzuka m'mawa. Ngati mugawana bafa , sungani katundu wanuwo mwaukhondo komanso mwadongosolo.
3. Sungani manja anu pa chakudya cha wina. Pamene makatoni omwe mumakonda kwambiri ayisikilimu amangoonekera mufirizi, musaganize kuti ndi theka lanu. Musadye ngakhale kuluma kamodzi kokha mpaka mutakhala ndi chilolezo kwa mnzanuyo. Angakhale akupulumutsira pa nthawi yapadera, kapena akhoza kugula izo ndi zomalizira zomwe zinatsala mu bajeti yake ya chakudya.
4. Lemezani kufunika kokhala chete. Mukawona wokhala naye akuwerenga buku, musamamulepheretse nthawi zonse. Ngati mukudziwa kuti akuyenera kuti azigwira ntchito molawirira mmawa wotsatira, sungani phokoso lochepa. Njira imodzi yokhala nawo ogonana kuti mudziwe wina ndi mnzake pamene akugona ndi kukhala ndi "chizindikiro" chaching'ono chomwe chimapangidwira kuchokera ku khomo lawo lakagona.

1. Samalirani ziweto zanu. Ngati inu ndi mnzanuyo mwagwirizana kuti ziweto zimaloledwa, musayembekezere kuti munthu wina azisamalira zanu. Dyetsani kamba lanu, yendani galu anu omwe , gwiritsani malita anu a katsabola, ndipo pukutsani mbalameyi pansi pa khola. Ngati mnzanuyo akumva kuti ndi wowolowa manja ndipo akuchitirani inu, yerekezani kuyamikira ndikuganiza kuti mukumuchitira chinachake.
2. Musamanamize za mnzanuyo. Kukhala pafupi, mudzapeza chinthu chomwe chingapange chakudya chabwino kwambiri cha miseche . Musati muchite izo. Kumbukirani kuti iye ali ndi katunduyo kwa inu, ndikuganiza momwe mungamvere ngati akuwulula zizoloŵezi zanu zoipa kudziko.
3. Musakhale okhumudwa kwambiri. Kukhala nanu sikukutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala mabwenzi abwino. Ngati mnzanuyo akupanga mapulani popanda kuphatikizapo iwe, avomereze kuti ali ndi vuto lina limene amasangalala nalo. Kuphatikizanso apo, ngati muli ndi malingaliro abwino pa abwenzi ake ena, mwinamwake mudzaphatikizidwa nthawi zambiri. Anthu ambiri amakwiya ndi munthu yemwe amamatira ndi kusuta.

1. Muzilimbana ndi mavuto mofulumira. Mukangozindikira vuto, lolani mnzanuyo kuti adziwe kuti ndi nthawi yoti mukhale ndi nkhani. Pitani kukambiranako ndi mfundo yanu munjira yeniyeni ndipo pewani kumangirira kapena kutsutsa nthawi zonse. Musayese kuthana ndi vutoli mwachinyengo, khalidwe lachiwawa, kapena kulira. Mavuto ambiri angagwiritsidwe ntchito, koma ngati ndi chinthu chomwe simungavomereze, mungafune kuganizira njira zanu zosiyana.

Zomwe Muyenera Kuziganizira Musanayambe Khala Naye

Sikuti onse omwe akukhala nawo limodzi amakhala abwino. Musanayambe kukambirana ndi munthu wina, awa ndi mafunso omwe muyenera kudzifunsa.

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• Kodi muli ndi moyo wotsutsana wokhudzana ndi umoyo umene ungakhale pa mitsempha ya wina ndi mzake? Nyama ya phwando siimapanga wokhala naye bwino kwa munthu amene amayamikira nthawi yochuluka.
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