Mkwati Wachikwama wa Mkwati wa Ukwati

Pa phwando la mchenga waukwati , zimakonda kufotokozera mawu ena omwe akufotokoza zomwe zikuchitika, ndi zomwe zikuyimira kwa inu. Ngakhale mutatha kuchita mwakachetechete, kapena powerenga kapena nyimbo, ganizirani kukhala ndi olemba anu mawu ochepa.

Makhalidwe Abwino a Mchenga

Ophwanya:

Tsopano timakondwerera mgwirizano wa ______ ndi ______ ndi phwando la mchenga wophiphiritsira. Choyamba, tidzathira mchenga kuchokera ku gombe lokongola kumene ______ ndi ______ amayima lero pamene akupereka moyo wawo wina ndi mzake, akuyimira maziko olimba a chiyanjano chawo.

Maziko amenewo amaphatikizapo mabanja awo, kulera kwawo, ndi zofunikira zonse paulendo wawo zomwe zinawatsogolera kukhala omwe ali lero. Maziko awa adzawathandiza iwo mu chikondi chawo pamene akukula ndi kusintha pamodzi. (Ngati mulibe ukwati wapanyanja, mchenga wa maziko ungakhale wochokera kumudzi wanu kapena mchenga woyera umene salowerera nawo.)

______ ndi ______, lero mukupanga kudzipereka kosatha kugawana moyo wanu wonse. Kudzipereka koteroku kukuyimiridwa kupyolera mwa kutsanulira kwa zida ziwiri za mchenga; omwe amaimira ______ (amene tsopano akutsanulira mchenga wake) ndi wina amene amaimira ______, (amene amatsanulira mchenga wake pamwamba).

Aliyense wa inu amabwera ku ubale uwu ndi mphamvu yapadera, zolephera, ndi mbiri. Payekha, ndinu anthu okongola nokha. Komabe pamene inu nonse mumakhala pamodzi, mumapanga chinthu chokongola kwambiri.

Mphamvu zimenezo zikhoza kuphuka, zofooka zimenezo zikhoza kusamalidwa, ndipo anthu awo akhoza kukwera.

Pamene mchenga umatsanulira mumtsuko, (onse omwe akugwira nawo ntchito nthawi imodzi amatsanulira mchenga wawo womwe uli mkatikati mwa vaseji) mitundu yosiyana ya mchenga tsopano ikuphatikiza mtundu watsopano. Mwasuntha mabanja anu kulowa m'banja latsopano, pamene mukuyamba ulendo wanu muukwati, mwachikondi komanso mwamphamvu monga mwamuna ndi mkazi, osagwirizana ngati mchenga.

Chikondi chachisomo cha mchenga

Ophwanya:

Chikondi ndi champhamvu kwambiri kuposa china chilichonse. Sichikuwoneka kapena kuyesedwa, komabe chiri ndi mphamvu zokwanira kukusinthirani mphindi, ndikupatseni chimwemwe chochuluka kuposa chuma chilichonse chomwe mungathe. Koma ngakhale chikondi ichi chikuphatikizani inu pamodzi monga amodzi, kumbukirani mphatso yanu. Yamikirani ndi kutsimikizira kusiyana kwanu pamene mumakondana. Khalani othandizira za mphamvu zanu, ndi chifundo pa zofooka zanu. Taseka palimodzi, kulira palimodzi, mutonthozedwe ndi kukhalapo kwa wina ndi mzake, ndipo mutetezeke wina ndi mnzake.

Kuti muwonetse kufunika kwa wina aliyense muukwati ndi kulumikizana ndi miyoyo yanu iwiri muukwati umodzi, mchenga 3 tsopano udzaphatikizidwa mu phwando la mchenga.

Timayamba ndi mchenga woyera, womwe umaimira maziko a chiyanjano. Ndiye ______ ndi ______ aliyense adzatsanulira mchenga wawo mumtsuko, akuyimira kuti ali ndani payekha. Kenaka, adzatsanulira pamodzi, kuphatikiza mitundu yawo iwiri ngati chizindikiro cha kuyanjana kwawo kosatha m'chikondi. Pomalizira, ndikuwonjezera mchenga woyera wa mchenga woyera, wakuyimira, dera lawo, kuwathandiza muukwati wawo ndikuwakonda mwachikondi. Ngakhale kuti chombocho chikhoza kusunthidwa mozungulira, ndipo mitundu imatha kusuntha ndi kusakanikirana m'njira zatsopano, mchenga sangathe kugawidwa.

Adzakhalabe ogwirizana. (Wotsogolera amanyamula chophimba chomaliza, kuchipereka kwa alendo . ) Mulole chikondi chanu chikhale chamuyaya komanso chosagwirizanitsidwa ngati mchenga uwu.

Mwambo wa Mchenga Umaphatikizapo Ana

Ngati mukuphatikiza mabanja, mwambo wa mchenga ndi njira yabwino yophatikizapo ana anu mu mwambo waukwati. Onetsetsani kuti mutenge tebulo lochepa kuti ana angakhoze kufika mosavuta. Chotupa chachikulu chotuluka pakamwa n'chothandizira manja ochepa, ndipo ana ena amafunikira thandizo ndi kutsanulira.

Ophwanya:

______ ndi _______, lero mukupanga kudzipereka kwamuyaya kugawana moyo wanu wonse ndi wina ndi mzake, kuphatikiza mabanja anu awiri kukhala amodzi.

Choyamba, aliyense adzatsanulira mchenga mumsasa, akuyimira kuti ndiwe ndani. ( Munthu woyamba amatsanulira, kenako winayo, kupanga magawo awiri osiyana mchenga.) Kenako, mudzatsanulira panthawi yomweyo, kuphatikiza mitundu yanu iwiri momwe mungasinthire miyoyo yanu muukwati.

( Mabotolowo amatsanulira panthawi yomweyo.Kutengera kukula kwake ndi mawonekedwe a vaseti, iyo ikhoza kupanga mtundu wachitatu, kapena mawonekedwe a mitundu iwiri.)

Ophwanya:

Monga mchenga usanathe kupatulidwa, mulole mgwirizano wanu ukhale wosiyana.

Koma mukupanga mgwirizano ndi ana anu, ______ ndi _______. Pamene iwo amaperekanso umunthu wawo wapadera ndi mphamvu zawo kwa banja latsopanoli, iwonso adzawonjezerapo mchenga ku mgwirizano umodziwu. ( Pumulani pamene ana akutsanulira mchenga pawokha, kupanga mapangidwe osiyana pa mchenga wa makolo awo.) Ndiye aliyense, _____, _____, _____ ndi ______ adzatsanulira pamodzi, akuyimira kudzipereka kwa wina ndi mzake. (Aliyense amatsanulira panthawi imodzi.Ngati muli ndi ana ambiri, zingakhale zovuta kuti aliyense azungulira vasela kamodzi, koma ziyenera kukhala chimodzimodzi momwe zingathere.)

Zolinga za Mchenga wa Chipembedzo

Ngati muli ndi ukwati wachipembedzo , ndibwino kukhala ndi malumbiro a mchenga wachipembedzo. Wogwira ntchito wanu akhoza kuwonjezera m'malemba kapena mapemphero, ndipo akhoza kukhala ndi mawu omveka omwe angagwiritsidwe ntchito. Nawo maziko oyambirira:

Ophwanya:

"Chifukwa chake mwamuna amasiya atate wake ndi amake nadziphatika kwa mkazi wake, nakhala thupi limodzi" (Genesis 2:24). Mulungu adakulengani monga munthu, wangwiro ndi ulemerero ndi chikondi chake. Koma Mulungu adanenanso kuti sizinali zabwino kuti munthu akhale yekha, ndipo adalenga mkazi kuti akhale mnzake komanso womuthandiza. Lero pamene mukupanga pangano pamaso pa Mulungu kuti mulowe m'banja, mumakhala thupi limodzi. Mwasankha kusonyeza mgwirizanowu ndi mwambo wa mchenga.

Choyamba, ndidzatsanulira mchenga woyera, ndikuyimira chikhulupiriro chanu mwa Mulungu monga maziko a yemwe inu muli payekha. Tsopano _____, tsitsani mchenga wanu, mukudziyimira nokha musanabwere ku mgwirizanowu. Tsopano _____, tsambilani mchenga wanu, mukudziimira nokha musanabwere ku mgwirizanowu. Ndidzatsanulira mchenga woyera, ndikuimira chikhulupiriro chanu mwa Mulungu monga maziko a banja lanu.

Kenako, _____ ndi _____ kutsanulira mchenga wanu otsalira kuti muyimire kuyanjana kwanu monga mmodzi m'banja mwathunthu ndi kwamuyaya.

Potsiriza, mchenga wina wa mchenga woyera umaimira Mulungu akukuyang'anirani ndikukutetezani ndi chikondi chake chosatha.

Mulungu adalitse banja ili kuti mukhale osagwirizana ngati mchenga. Amen.