Momwe Mungakonzekere Kusinthanitsa Koseweretsa kapena Kusinthana kwa Jewu

Tiyeni tiyang'ane nazo. Zosewera zingakhale zodula. Ndipo ngati muli ngati makolo ambiri, mwinamwake muli ndi mulu (kapena awiri) kunyumba kwanu kuti sukulu yanu isayang'anenso. Chidole chosinthanitsa kapena kusinthanitsa ndi njira yabwino yothetsera zina mwazoseweretsa zosagwiritsidwa ntchito pamene mukunyamula zina "zatsopano" zomwe mwana wanu angasangalale nazo popanda kanthu. Aliyense amapambana. Mwana wanu amapeza masewero atsopano pamene mumapeza malo ena owonjezera m'nyumba mwanu.

Nazi momwemo.

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Nazi momwe:

1. Kuchita chidwi ndi anthu odzitaya. Makolo ambiri amavomerezana ndi lingaliro la kusinthana kwa chidole, koma mukufuna kutsimikiza kuti mudzakhala ndi zinthu zokwanira kuti mutengane ndi anthu kuti athe kutenga nawo mbali.
2. Sankhani malo. Jenny Pollack, amayi a ku Bay Ridge, NY omwe adayambitsa chidole amasintha nthawi ya tchuthi, anati zazikulu ndi zabwino. Ngakhale mutapanda kugwiritsa ntchito malo onsewa, mungakhale pamalo omwe ndi aakulu kwambiri kuposa aang'ono. Malo ambiri amakupatsani mwayi wambiri wokonza ndi malo ambiri kuti anthu aziyang'ana ndikuyendayenda. Funsani aliyense amene akulolani inu kugwiritsa ntchito danga ngati ali ndi matebulo ndi mipando kapena ngati mutapereka zanu.
3. Funsani chithandizo ndikusankha pamene mutenga chochitika chanu. Ngakhale galimoto yanu itasintha ndi yaing'ono, mufunikirabe thandizo. Pollack anapeza amayi atatu kapena anayi omwe anali okonzeka kuthandizira kusanthanitsa (kupanga zinthu ndi kuwapatsa zikhulupiliro), potsatsa ndi pambuyo pake kuyeretsa ndi kukweza chilichonse chimene chinatsala kuti chiperekedwe. Mukasankha tsiku, pitani pamene malo alipo komanso pamene muthandizidwa kwambiri. Komanso, dziwani zomwe mudzakhala mukuchita ndi masewero otsala.

1. Ikani malamulo. Kodi mungavomereze mayesero atsopano? Kodi amagwiritsidwa ntchito bwanji "kugwiritsa ntchito modekha?" Kodi mumalola masewera ndi mapuzzulo omwe akusowa? Kodi mukufuna kuti zinthu ziyeretsedwe ndi / kapena kutsukidwa zisanagwe? Kodi pali malire pa chiwerengero cha zinthu zomwe wina angabweretse? Kodi pali chidole chilichonse chomwe simungachivomereze (zowononga zachiwawa kapena nkhondo)? Kodi pasadakhale nthawi yayitali bwanji anthu atabweretsa zinthu zogwirizana? Kodi ana adzaloledwa kuchitika? Kodi mungasinthane zovala kapena mwana wanu kapena mukungosintha zosinthana? Kodi chidole chiyenera kugwira ntchito? Ndi bwino kufotokoza zomwe mukuyembekeza bwino komanso zoyambirira.

1. Pezani mawuwo. Yambani kupanga foni, kutumiza ma-e-mail ndi kutumiza mapepala. Pollack anaika zonse za kusintha kwake pa magulu angapo a makompyuta omwe anali ake. Onetsetsani kuti chilichonse chimene mumatumiza chimaphatikizapo zonse, tsiku, nthawi, mtengo (ngati mukukakamiza kulowa) zomwe mukuzifuna ndi malamulo omwe mwakhazikitsa. Phatikizani mauthenga okhudzana ndi adiresi monga adiresi ya imelo kuti anthu athe kukufunsani ngati ali ndi mafunso.
2. Pita kumayambiriro tsiku lalikulu. Bwerani ndi magulu - zowonjezereka zimaphatikizapo nyama zowakwiriridwa, magalimoto ndi magalimoto, zidole ndi dollhouses, masewera olimbitsa thupi, mabuku, masewera ndi mapuzzles, masewera a kunja ndi masewera a masewera, luso ndi zamisiri, masewero a ana, masewero a kanema ndi ma DVD. Mwachionekere mungathe kudzipanga nokha. Pollack, yemwe adalandira zinthu tsiku la kusinthanitsa ndipo pamene zikuchitika, adanena kuti gulu lake la amayi lidzalumphira m'thumba la toyese ngati linagulidwa ndipo liyamba kuyambitsa ndikupanga zinthu zonse mwamsanga.
3. Bwerani ndi dongosolo losinthanitsa ndi ndalama. Ma swaps ena osewera amachititsa kuti zikhale zosavuta - chidole cha chidole. Zina, monga Pollack, zimapereka mtengo kwa chidole chilichonse ndipo woperekayo amatenga matikiti (chidole chomwe chili pa $ 5 chingamupatse munthu matikiti asanu). Izi ndi zabwino komanso zopanda chilungamo ngati mukuyembekeza zinthu zazikulu monga njinga kapena scooters. Khalani osasinthasintha ndipo onetsetsani kuti aliyense ali pa tsamba limodzi.

1. Sintha! Onetsetsani kuti pali othandizira ochuluka (mwinamwake odzipereka akhoza onse kuvala mtundu womwewo kapena zipewa kapena mabatani kuti aziwasiyanitsa mu gulu) kuthandiza ndi kuyankha mafunso alionse. Mukhale ndi matumba ndi mabokosi omwe alipo kuti anthu athe kunyamula zinthu.
2. Mukasintha mwapikisano ndipo chidole chotsiriza chitasinthidwa, mwinamwake mutha kukhala ndi zinthu zina zotsala. Lembani mabokosiwo ndi kuwathandiza kapena kuwabweretsa kunyumba (chirichonse chimene mwasankha). Onetsetsani kuti danga lanu ndi loyera, ngati siliyeretsa kusiyana ndi pamene mudalipeza. Thokozani aliyense pothandizira.
3. Ganizirani momwe zinayendera. Kodi kusintha kwanu kunasintha? Kodi mungachite izo kachiwiri? Kodi mungachite chiyani mosiyana?

Malangizo:

1. Ganizirani molimba za malo. Zithunzi zina zojambula zimakonzedwa m'nyumba za anthu, koma ngati lingaliro la anthu ambiri (ena mwa iwo osadziwika) akuyenda pakhomo panu, silingaganize chifukwa chosowa mbali - tchalitchi, nyumba yamoto kapena malo ammudzi ndi anthu onse abwino . Mukadasankha, pendani malamulo ndi mfundo za mwiniwake wa malo - ndi anthu angati omwe amaloledwa mkati mwakamodzi? Kodi pali malipiro? Udzakhala ndi nthawi yayitali bwanji? Kodi pali magalimoto? Kodi mumaloledwa kupachika zizindikiro pamakoma? Kodi pali zipinda zam'chipindamo? Kodi chakudya ndi zakumwa zimaloledwa mkati? Kodi mukufuna inshuwalansi yapadera?

1. Ganizirani kuti musalole ana kuti alowe nawo. Kwa Pollack, izi zinali zofunikira, powona kuti ngati muwaika ana m'chipinda chodzaza ma tebulo iwo akufuna kusewera ndi chirichonse nthawi yomweyo. Popanda kutchula ngati mukupereka zina zamathoyizi a mwana wanu, mwina sangasangalale nazo - ngakhale kuti sanasewere ndi chinachake muzaka.
2. Khalani omvetsetsa (ndi zenizeni) pogawira zikhulupiliro kuzinthu. Izi ndizovuta chifukwa mwina mukuyang'ana chidole chakale pomwe wophunzirayo akuwona choyamba cha mwana wake wamkazi. Ngati mukuganiza kuti chinachake chili ndi ndalama zokwana madola 2 ndipo munthu woperekayo amapeza ndalama zokwana madola 7, yesani kuwayanjana nawo theka. Pollack adanena kuti sagwirizana nazo, ndikuyika mitengo ngati momwe amachitira pakhomo ndi kugulitsa, pamene onse adanenedwa ndikuchitidwa, anthu ambiri amawononga ndalama zambiri kuti "agule" zidole kuposa zomwe amafunikira.
3. Bwererani ndi ndondomeko ya masewera otsalira, chifukwa mwina anthu omwe amawabweretsa sadzawafunanso. Pambuyo pake toyisinthana adasintha, Pollack adapereka zinthu zomwe sanasankhidwe ku tchalitchi pofuna kusinthanitsa. Mukhozanso kusankha chikondi kapena kuwona ngati sukulu yamakono kapena laibulale ili ndi chidwi chowatenga.
4. Sungulani ndipo yesetsani kusangalala nawo. Mukuchita anthu (ndi nokha) ntchito. Cholinga ndi (ndikuyembekeza) kupulumutsa anthu panthawi yomwe akuwathandiza kuchotsa zinthu zina. Bhonasi ndi kuti mwina chikondi chidzatha ndi zinthu zina zazikulu ndipo ana anu adzalandira zina "zatsopano".

Zimene Mukufunikira:

• Zambiri zomwe anagwiritsa ntchito moyenera - zidole, ma DVD , masewera, mabuku, mabasiketi, ndi zina.
• Anthu okonzeka kuchita nawo kusinthanitsa
• Othandizira ochepa okalamba
• Malo ogwiritsira ntchito zoseweretsa ndi ophunzira
• Ndondomeko yopereka mtengo kwa zinthu
• Ma Coupons kuti akhale ngati ndalama
• Ma tebulo kuti apange zinthu ndi mipando kwa odzipereka kuti akhale
• Zizindikiro
• Zowonjezera - mapepala, tepi, zida, zizindikiro, ndi zina zotero.
• Makhadi a ndalama ndi kusintha (ngati mukulipira kubwerera)