Anthu ena amadabwa ngati kuli kofunikira kutumiza manotsi oyamikira pambuyo pa maliro. Kutumiza ndemanga yothokoza nthawi zonse ndi khalidwe labwino pamene munthu wina akukupatsani mphatso kapena amachita chinachake chapadera kwa inu. Sikuti nthawi zonse timayembekezera, koma ndi manja abwino kuti tipereke chiyamiko kwa anthu omwe akhala akukuthandizani nthawi yovuta. Palibe nthawi yomalizira pa nthawi yomwe yatha pambuyo pa maliro, choncho ndi bwino kuyembekezera kuti mwakonzekera.
Iwo Amene Amapita Kumaliro
Mukhoza kutumiza ndondomeko yachithokozo kwa onse omwe akupezeka pamaliro aang'ono kwambiri. Komabe, ngati malirowo anali ndi anthu ambirimbiri, mwina simukufuna kutumiza aliyense chidziwitso, komabe mungathe kusankha ndikutumiza uthenga kwa omwe adatuluka kuti akulimbikitseni. Mwachitsanzo, ngati wina wapita ku maliro kuti athandize kukonzekera kapena kubereka ana anu, mawu othokoza angayamikiridwe.
Ndani Akuyenera Kuyamika?
Pali anthu ena amene mungafune kuyamika mutangotha:
- Anthu omwe adakuchitirani kanthu pakati pa nthawi ya imfa kufikira masiku akutsatira maliro
- Aliyense amene anakuthandizani panthawi yachipatala cha wakufa ngati imfa inali chifukwa cha matenda kapena matenda
- Anthu omwe anatumiza maluwa kapena mphatso kuti azitumikira
- Atsogoleri ndi oimba omwe adachita nawo maliro
- Otsalira
- Aliyense amene anathandiza panthawi ya utumiki, monga wolandiridwa ndi munthu yemwe anaima pafupi ndi zolembera za alendo
- Iwo omwe anapereka zosangalatsa
Sikofunika Kutumiza Zikomo Kwa Aliyense
Palibe chifukwa chokutumizira manotsi othokoza chifukwa chochita zachifundo , pokhapokha ngati mukufuna kuchita. Nazi zitsanzo za anthu omwe simukusowa kudandaula potumiza kalata.
- Anthu omwe anatumiza makadi ndi mawu achifundo ndi matandaulo
- Anthu amene anatumiza zikomo amalemba kuchokera ku bungwe lothandizira omwe adalandira zopereka pofuna kulemekeza womwalirayo
- Aliyense yemwe anaima pa tsiku la maliro
Anthu ambiri amadziwa kuti n'zovuta kusunga munthu aliyense yemwe wapereka patebulo lodzaza ndi casseroles, masangweji, ndi mchere. Mutha kutumiza manotsi othokoza kwa anthu omwe abweretsa chakudya. Lembani mayina a aliyense yemwe ali ndi chakudya kapena mphatso iliyonse kuti muthe kukumbukira polemba kalata.
Ndani Ayenera Kutumiza Zikomo Dziwani
Ndikoyenera kwa aliyense yemwe wapindula ndi chithandizo cholunjika kutumiza ndemanga yoyamikira. Izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala mkazi, mwana, kapena kholo la womwalirayo. Ndemanga yothokoza kuchokera kwa wina aliyense m'banja kapena mnzanga wapamtima amavomerezedwa.
Ngati mudakhumudwa kwambiri kutumiza chintchito, mutha kukhala ndi wina wakuchitirani inu. Wowalandirayo amvetse ngati atalandira kalata ndi mawu akuti, "Mchemwali wanga Marsha anandiuza kuti ndikuthokoze chifukwa cha maluwa okongola komanso khadi loganiza bwino. Iye akumva chisoni ndi imfa ya wokondedwa wake, koma akufuna kuti ndikudziwe kuti akuyembekeza kukambirana nanu posachedwa. "
Nthawi Yotumiza Kuthokoza Taonani
Zikomo zikalata zanu nthawi zonse ziyenera kulembedwa mwamsanga.
Anthu ambiri amvetsetsa ngati sakulandira kamodzi pa sabata la maliro. Palibe nthawi yeniyeni yokwanira, koma ndibwino kuthetsa kulembera ndikukutumiza mkati mwa miyezi ingapo. Mudzamasulidwa pambuyo pake kuti mukhale nawo kumbuyo kwanu.
Zomwe Muyenera Kunena mu Khadi Yamathokoza
Imeneyi ndi imodzi mwa nthawi zomwe zili zoyenera kutumiza makhadi ndi ndondomeko yoyenera. Mungathe kuwonjezera chiganizo kapena mawu ena kuti musinthe uthengawo ndi kulemba dzina lanu.
Polemba kalata yothokoza, khalani momveka bwino momwe mungathere:
Beth wokondedwa ndi Jonathan,
Zikomo kwambiri kwa nthawi yonse yomwe mwakhala ndi Timothy ndi ine tisanamwalire. Zinatanthauza zambiri kwa ine kuti ndikhale ndi anzanga okoma mtima, okondana.
Chikondi,
Molly
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Samantha wokondedwa,
Tikukuthokozani chifukwa cha maluŵa okondedwa omwe munatumiza ku maliro a agogo a agogo anga. Nthaŵi zonse ankakonda maluwa oyera, ndipo kuwaona mumaluwawo kunandikumbutsa kuchuluka kwa maulendo anu.
Nthawi zonse ndimayamikira kuti mumamukonda bwanji.
Mnzako,
Melissa
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Wokondedwa Matthew,
Tikukuthokozani chifukwa chotumikira ngati wamphepete pamaliro a bambo anga. Ubwenzi wanu ndi chifundo chanu panthawi yovutayi zimandivuta kwambiri.
Mwachikondi,
Helene