Tanthauzo la Ukwati ndi Zofunikira Zowonjezera
Ukwati ndi mwambo ndi miyambo yowonjezera yomwe anthu awiri amalonjeza kuti azikhala pamodzi pamodzi muukwati. Ngakhale kuti ndizo chikondwerero cha chikondi ndi mgwirizano, ukwati ukhozanso kukhala ndi malamulo ndi / kapena achipembedzo - monga kusaina chilolezo cha chikwati cha boma kapena chitetezo chachipembedzo monga ketubah , kapena kupempha madalitso a Mulungu paukwati pamaso pa Iye.
Koma ukwati sungowonongeka ndi okwatiranawo.
Ndikusinthana pakati pa anthu awiriwa ndi anthu a m'banja lawo ndi abwenzi. Ndikamphindikizira kuti malonjezo awiriwa akhale pamodzi ngati chingwe chothandizira, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo amayamikila midzi yawo kuti awathandize ndikuwakonda. Mwa kupita ku ukwati, alendowo akuvomera kuti azitsatira anthu awiriwa m'banja lawo. Awiri angapemphe alendo awo kuti alandire lonjezo lawo.
Kawirikawiri kumatsatira mwambowu ndi phwando, zomwe zingakhale monga chakudya, nyimbo, kuvina, ndi miyambo ina monga kudula mkate, kapena kuvina koyamba. Kulandirira ndi mwayi wina kuti abambo alemekeze komanso awathokoze abwenzi awo ndi achibale awo kuti awathandize.
Ukwati ukhoza kukhalanso njira kuti banja liwonetsere chikhalidwe chawo ndi zachuma, ndi njira yoti anthu awiriwa azifotokoza umunthu wawo, zikhalidwe, zoyenera, ndi makhalidwe awo. Palibe chofunika kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi azigwiritsa ntchito - malonjezo oyamba ndi omasuka - koma mabanja ena agwiritsa ntchito ndalama zambiri.
Mbali za Ukwati
Zinthu zofunika zokha ndizo:
- Malumbiro aukwati - kaya mwambo , osati mwambo , kapena malumbiro omwe mumadzilemba nokha.
- Kulankhulidwa kwa Ukwati ndi wanu woyang'anira kapena wokondwerera.
Kuwonjezera pa izi zofunika, palinso miyambo ina yomwe imaphatikizidwa mu mwambo waukwati, monga maulendo, madalitso, kuwerenga malemba kapena mabuku, malonjezo a banja kapena achibale a umodzi, ndi kusinthanitsa mphete za ukwati kapena mphatso zina.
Msonkhano Wachikwati wa Mkwati ndi Utumiki wa Utumiki .
Pambuyo pa mwambowu, banja likhoza kukhala ndi phwando la ukwati kapena phwando, lomwe lingaphatikizepo chakudya. Mwachizoloŵezi, timapatsidwa keke yaukwati, yomwe kale inali chizindikiro cha kubereka, koma lero zambiri zimagwiritsidwa ntchito kufotokoza chiyembekezo cha moyo wokoma kwa aŵiriwo. Anthu ena amasankha kukhala ndi nyimbo ndi kuvina, kuphatikizapo kuvina kwake koyamba kuvina ndi kuvina monga abambo a mwana wamkazi .