Kodi mzere wovuta umenewu ndi mbali yofunika ya ukwati?
Kodi munayamba mwamvapo kuti ukwati uliwonse wa mafilimu umatsatira pafupifupi chimodzimodzi? Sikuti amangogwiritsa ntchito mawu omwewo, koma amakhalanso osiyana ndi zomwe zimachitika pa mwambo weniweni wa ukwati , chabwino? Pazifukwa zina, Mu zikondwerero zaukwati zamakono nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kwambiri pamene mlaliki akuti "Ngati wina wa inu ali ndi zifukwa zomveka kuti awiriwa asakwatire, lankhulani tsopano kapena mukhale chete." Ndilo chipangizo chogwiritsidwa ntchito mopitirira muyeso m'mafilimu omwe amapereka mpata kwa wokonda kale mkwati kapena mkwatibwi kuti apite patsogolo, akulengeza chikondi chake, kapena kuti adziwe zambiri zowopsya zomwe ziwululidwe za banja.
Zikuwoneka kuti zilipo pokhapokha kuti zikhale zovuta kwambiri, zomwe sizili zabwino kwaukwati weniweni.
Mawu omwe ali m'mawu awa, "lankhulani tsopano kapena mukhale chete" amachokera pa bukhu lachikhristu la Bukhu la Common Prayer, kotero ngati mukukwatirana mu tchalitchi, mawuwa akhoza kukhala chinthu chofunikira. Ngati mutha kusintha script paukwati wanu, ndingati ndikuchotseni ku mwambo wanu. Mwina mmalo mofunsa funsoli molakwika, ndikupempha kuwapempha alendo kuti awathandize paukwati ndi kukondana wina ndi mzake powafunsa kuti apange malumbiro ngati mudzi wanu.
Kuwumbirana pakati pa anthu kumtundu kungatenge mitundu yosiyanasiyana pa phwando laukwati. Mukhoza kufunsa alendo anu kuti anene kuti amakhulupirira kuti inu ndi awiri muyenera kukhala okwatirana komanso kuti amalimbikitsa mgwirizanowu ndipo akulonjezani kukuthandizani nthawi zabwino ndi zoipa.
Mwina mungakonde kutenga malumbiro ammudzi mwanjira ina.
Ngakhale mabanja okondweretsa amatha kupitilira mavuto kapena nthawi zina, ndipo abwenzi anu ndi abambo anu akhoza kuwonjezera mafuta pamoto kapena kukuthandizani kuthetsa vutoli. Pemphani anthu ammudzi mwanu kuti akuthandizeni ndikukulimbikitsani kupyolera mukumenyana ndiukwati ndi moyo wanu wonse kungathandize kulimbitsa mgwirizano wanu, chifukwa umakhala mgwirizano pakati pa gulu osati m'malo awiri.
Aliyense amapindula ngati ali m'deralo. Banja lanu ndi abwenzi lanu ndi dera lanu ndipo banja lanu lidzakhala gawo la mudziwo. Kukhala ndi mabanja amitundu yosiyana (osati maukwati) kumathandiza kulimbikitsa ndi kukhazikitsa chikhalidwe. Zovuta ndizo, abwenzi anu ambiri ndi okondedwa anu adzakuthandizani mwanjira iyi ngakhale simukuwafunsa, koma mwambo wovomereza kufunika kwa chithandizocho, ndi kulandira zitsimikizozo, zingakhale gawo lofunika kwambiri za mwambo waukwati. Aliyense amene akupezeka pa tsiku laukwati wanu akufuna kuti banja lanu liziyenda bwino chifukwa amakukonda ndikukhulupirirani, kotero kuti kulonjezedwa kwawo kuti akuthandizani kukhala njira yodalirika kumakhala kofunika kwambiri.
Maukwati a Mkwatibwi
Pano pali njira zina zomwe malumbiro ammudzi angagwiritsire ntchito mmalo mwa "Lankhulani tsopano kapena khalani chete":
- Kodi mumachirikiza mgwirizanowu ndikukutsimikizira kuti awiriwa ayenera kukwatira lero? (alendo akuyankha, "Ife Timachita")
- Kodi mumayendetsa banjali mwachikondi ndikuwapatsa chimwemwe cha ubwenzi wanu? Kodi mudzathandizira banja lino muukwati wawo? Nthawi zina kumenyana mungapereke iwo mphamvu za uphungu wanu wanzeru ndi chitonthozo cha nkhawa yanu yodalirika? Nthawi zina zokondweretsa, kodi mumakondwerera nawo, ndikudyetserana chikondi? (alendo akuyankha, "Tidzachita")
- Malumikizano omwe banja lino apanga lero ndi opatulika ndi opatulika, ndipo sayenera kuthyoledwa. Koma pafupifupi chiyanjano chilichonse chimayesedwa panthawi imodzi, ndi mikangano, mayesero, mikangano, ndi kusintha. Kodi inu, okondedwa awo, abwenzi anu, ndi abwenzi, mumavomereza kuwathandiza kuti asunge mgwirizano wawo woyera, kuwakumbutsa chikondi chawo wina ndi mzake, ndi kuwathandiza kudutsana ndi nthawi zovutazo? (alendo akuyankha, "Tidzachita")
- Ukwati umene mphete ziwirizi zimapatsana zidzakhala chikumbutso cha chikondi chawo, ndi malumbiro omwe apanga lero. Iwo andipempha kuti ndiwapereke iwo kuzungulira chipindacho kuti aliyense wa inu, yemwe ali wofunika ndi wokondedwa wa mamembala awo, akhoza kudalitsa mphetezo ndi kupereka chithandizo chanu kwa banja lawo. (mphete zidutsa kuchokera kwa mlendo kupita kwa mlendo)
Kodi izi sizikuwoneka ngati njira zabwino zomwe zingayambitse vuto?
Ndikuganiza kuti mumakonda kupempha malumbiro a mmalo mmalo moitana chochitika chosasangalatsa.
Kodi mungakhale nawo mzere "Lankhulani Tsopano Kapena Kosatha Gwirani Ntchito Yanu" mu mwambo wanu waukwati?