Bridesmaid Etiquette

Kodi mwakhala mukufunsidwa kukhala wokwatiwa muukwati wa wina? Kodi mukudabwa chomwe chiyembekezereke koma mukuwopa kufunsa? Nthawi zonse ndi bwino kudziwa zomwe mukulowera musanasankhe zochita.

Kaya kapena Osanena Inde

Okwatira akazi ambiri ali ndi udindo waukulu kuti atsimikizire kuti tsiku lapadera la mkwatibwi likupita monga momwe likukonzedwera. Nazi zina zomwe zingakuthandizeni kupanga chisankho:

• Dziwani ntchito zazikulu za mkwatibwi.

• Dziwani zomwe mkwatibwi akuyembekeza kuchokera kwa inu kuwonjezera pa chizolowezi.
• Dziwani mtengo wa chirichonse ndikusankha ngati simungakwanitse.

Kodi Mkwatibwi ndi chiyani?

Mu mwambo wa chikhalidwe chaukwati, mkwatibwi kawiri kawiri amapezeka ndi amayi achichepere a zaka zaukwati. Atumiki awa amatchulidwa ngati okwatirana . Mtsogoleri, kapena kutsogolera, mkwatibwi amatchedwa mdzakazi wa ulemu ngati ali wosakwatiwa komanso wamwamuna wa ulemu ngati ali wokwatira. Atsikana achichepere omwe ali aang'ono kwambiri kuti asakwatirane angathenso kuphatikizidwa ndipo amatchedwa abambo opanga akazi .

Mkwatibwi wamasiku ano akhoza kukhala wa msinkhu uliwonse ndi chikwati cha banja. Mabanja ena afunsanso amayi awo kuti azigwira ntchito yofunikayi ya ulemu.

Mbiri ya Akazi Ambiri

Miyambo yaukwati ikulingalira kuti inayamba m'nthaŵi za m'Baibulo pa miyambo ya Yakobo, Leah, ndi Rachel. Aliyense wa alongowa anabweretsa antchito awo kapena antchito awo ku ukwatiwo, ndipo iwo ankayenera kuti azitumikira kuyambira pamenepo kupita monga antchito awo.

Lingaliro lina lotchuka kumadzulo limatchula mwambo waukwati kwa lamulo lakale lachiroma, zomwe zinkafuna kuti pakhale mboni khumi paukwati kuti athetse mizimu yonse yoipa. Iwo ankakhulupirira kuti antchito, povala zovala zofanana kwa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi, akanakhoza kusokoneza mizimu kuti asadziwe yemwe angatemberere.

Today's Bridesmaids

Kwenikweni, wokwatiwa ndi munthu yemwe ali pafupi ndi mkwatibwi, ndipo akuitanidwa kuti apereke chithandizo chamumtima pa tsiku lalikulu kwambiri la moyo wa mkwatibwi. Ntchito zina zingaphatikizepo kuchita zinthu monga kuthandiza mkwatibwi kusankha bridal ensemble, kulumikiza ma envulopu , kukhala nawo phwando la bridal kapena chipani cha bachelorette, ndi kuimirira naye tsiku laukwati .

Ulemu wapadera ukhoza kuperekedwa kwa mdzakazi kapena wamwamuna wa ulemu patsogolo ndi pa nthawi ya utumiki. Angapemphedwe kuti athandize mkanjo wa mkwatibwi, kumusunga maluwa pa mwambowu, kumuthandizira ndi chophimba chake pa mwambowu, kapena kukonzekera sitima yake akakhala pa guwa.

Amayi ambiri kapena matrononi-alemekezedwe amapemphedwa kuti akhale mboni polemba chikalata chokwatirana ndi kukwatira gulu laukwati la mkwati. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, Iye ndi mwamuna wabwino kwambiri adzafunsidwa kuti aziwonetsa zojambulajambula panthawi yovomerezeka. Wokwatibwi wachinyamata ali ndi udindo wokonzera ukwatiwo ndipo amawoneka wokongola.

Malipiro Omwe Amakwatiwa Ambiri

Panali nthawi pamene banja la mkwatibwi linaphimba zonse kapena ndalama zambiri zowonetsera ukwati . Izi ndizochitika mzikhalidwe zina ndi nthawi zina zochepa kuno ku America. Komabe, masiku ano amakwatibwi okwatirana amayembekezeredwa kuti azipeza ndalama zawo.

Zomwezi zingaphatikizepo chilichonse kapena zonsezi.

• Bridesmaid Ensemble. Izi zikuphatikizapo nsapato, kavalidwe, ndi zodzikongoletsera. Ambiri akwatibwi amaphimba mtengo wa maluwa awo.
• Ndalama Zoyenda. Izi ziphatikizapo ulendo wanu wopita ku malo achikwati komanso malo anu okhalamo mutangofika.
• Kusamba kwakwati. Pamodzi ndi anyamata ena, okwatirana ambiri amasankha kulandira phwando la ukwati, tiyi kapena mvula polemekeza mkwatibwi wawo.

Gwiritsani ntchito mfundoyi kuti musankhe mwanzeru. Muyenera kusankha kukhala wokwatirana, onetsetsani kuti ndinu wokondweretsa phwando chifukwa ichi ndi nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri koma yosangalatsa m'moyo wa mnzanu. Chitani zomwe mungathe kuti mukwaniritse nthawi , muzikonzekeretsani ndalama zodziwika bwino, onetsetsani zomwe mumachita pofunsidwa, khalani ndi nsapato zomwe mumagwirizana nazo ndi zodzikongoletsera, ndipo mutenge tsitsi labwino kwambiri tsiku lalikulu.

Ngati simukuganiza kuti mukhoza kukwanitsa kukhala wokwatirana, khalani oona mtima ndipo mulole mkwatibwi adziwe mwamsanga. Ngati simungathe kutumikira, yesetsani kupereka chithandizo chanu mwanjira ina, ndipo onetsetsani kuti mubwere ndikuthandizira mnzanu tsiku lake lalikulu. Sangalalani!

Yosinthidwa ndi Debby Mayne