Yankhani kwa anthu a Nosy Mwachisomo
Tonse takhala tikufunsidwa mafunso opanda pake omwe si ntchito ya wina aliyense. Ngakhale kuti aliyense amawombera nthawi ndi nthawi, anthu ena amaoneka ngati ali ndi knack nthawi zonse kumamatira mapazi awo pakamwa pawo kapena kupanga zolakwika zina. Mungayankhe funsolo ndikupitiliza ku mutu wina, koma simusowa.
Tenga Msewu Wapamwamba
Anthuwa nthawi zambiri sadziwa kuti akuwonetsa khalidwe loipa , koma ngakhale atadziwa zomwe akuchita, simuyenera kuwerama kuti abwererenso ndi makhalidwe oipa. Ziri kwa inu ngati mukufuna kuwapatsa yankho kapena ayi, osawafunsa, kapena funsani chifukwa chake akufunikira kudziwa chomwe chiri. Kubwerera kwanu kuyenera kunenedwa ndi kumwetulira komanso ngakhale mawu. Ngati n'kotheka, gwiritsani ntchito zoseketsa kuti mufewetse yankho lanu, ndiyeno musinthe nkhaniyo.
Konzekerani
Kwa nthawi yomwe mumapezeka kuti mulibe vuto lofunsidwa ndi munthu wamwano, muyenera kudziyika nokha ndi mayankho ena omwe amudziwitsa kuti mukuganiza kuti mafunsowa ndi opanda pake. Pali njira zingapo zomwe mungagwiritsire ntchito anthu awa: ndi yankho lomwe akulifuna, ndi zobwerezabwereza, kapena ndi njira yowathandiza kuti adziwe kuti mumawaganizira kuti akufunsani funsoli.
Sungani malire
Mafunso ena opanda pake amayamba kubwera mobwerezabwereza kuposa ena. Musanayambe kutuluka pakhomo, pangani chisankho chokhala ndi makhalidwe abwino osati kukhala munthu wabwino. Ngati muli pa mapeto ovomerezeka, khalani okonzeka ndi mayankho omwe amachititsa munthu winayo kudziƔa zomwe mumaganiza zachisomo chake monga momwe mungathe kukhalira.
Ngati muli ndi ana , ayambe mofulumira ndi kuwaphunzitsa mafunso osapempha. Ana ambiri amadzifunsa mwachibadwa, choncho afotokozereni kukulankhulana koyenera.
01 a 07
Kodi mumapanga ndalama zingati?
Henglein ndi Steets / Cultura / Getty Chithunzi Funso lokhudza ndalama ndilofala, ngakhale kuti ndi lopanda ulemu komanso losafunika kufunsa. Muli ndi njira zingapo zomwe mungagwirire nazo. Yankho lanu lidzakhala losiyana ngati munthu akufunsayo ndi mnzako kuposa ngati funso likuchokera kwa wina wakhala pafupi ndi inu pa ndege .
Yankho losavuta ndiloti simukukambirana za ndalama ndi wina koma mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu. Anthu ambiri amavomereza zimenezo, koma ena omwe ali achinyengo kwambiri akhoza kukukakamizani kapena kukupanizani kuti mupeze yankho lawo. Musagwere chifukwa cha izo. Pitirizani kusintha phunziro mpaka munthuyo atenge uthenga.
Chinthu china chimene mungachite ndi kuyankha mwachidwi, "Ndikwanira kulipira ngongole zanga ndikusangalala pang'ono," kapena "Osati zokwanira kuti ndichite zonse zomwe ndikufuna. Nanga inu?"
02 a 07
Munalipira ndalama zingati pa nyumbayo?
akurtz / Getty Images Pano pali funso lina la ndalama limene siliyenera kuyankha. Komabe, pokhala munthu wamakhalidwe abwino, mungayankhe ndi zina zotero, "Ndinalipira mtengo wamtengo wapatali wa nyumba kumudzi. Ndi nyumba yabwino kwambiri yomwe ndimamva ngati yanga yomwe ndimayendamo pakhomo. "Sintha mwamsanga nkhaniyi kuti mudziwe kuti mwatsiriza kukambirana mitengo. Ngati iye akufunabe kudziwa, kugulitsa kwa nyumba ndi mbiri yapamwamba, ndipo imapezeka pa intaneti ndi aliyense yemwe akudziwa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito pa intaneti.
03 a 07
Kodi mwakali osakwatiwa?
Felix Clinton / Stone / Getty Images Amuna ndi akazi ambiri osakwatira omwe ali ndi zaka makumi awiri zapitazi komanso oyambirira zaka makumi atatu ndi atatu adamva ichi. Funso lofunsidwa ndi wachibale wabwino kapena wachibale yemwe akufuna kuti mukhale osangalala. Komabe, kumvetsera mobwerezabwereza kudzakuthandizani kukhala osangalala.
Ngati simunakwatire, muuzeni munthuyo kuti simunapeze munthu yemwe mukufuna kumugwiritsira ntchito, koma ngati mutero, mudzalandira mawu kwa aliyense amene akufunikira kudziwa. Monga ndi funso lina lililonse, sintha nkhaniyi.
04 a 07
Kodi mwapeza (kapena kutaya) kulemera?
Pitirizani kukambirana kwanu kulemera kapena kuwonongeka. Ganizirani pa chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Madzi a Dougal / Getty Images Ngati munthuyo akubwera ndikufunsani za kusintha kwa kulemera kwa thupi lanu, zikuoneka kuti ndizowoneka, ndipo mwaziika (kapena mutaya) mapaundi angapo kapena kuposa. Pamene wina abwera ndikupanga mawu osasamala, kumwetulira ndi kunena, "Ndikumva bwino. Nanga bwanji? "Izi ziyenera kupeza mfundo yomwe simukufuna kulemekeza funso losafunika ndi yankho.
05 a 07
Kodi mwana wanu akuyenera liti?
Robert Daly / Getty Images Ngati muli ndi pakati , mwakhala mukudziwitsani kwa aliyense amene mukufuna kudziwa. Pali nthawi zomwe amayi amalemera kapena kuvala zovala zina zomwe zimapangitsa kuti aziwoneka ali ndi pakati pamene sanapangidwe.
Muli ndi njira zingapo zomwe mungayankhire kufunso lopanda pake. Mungathe kunena kuti simuli ndi pakati ndipo mulole munthuyo asamachite manyazi komanso manyazi (ngati munthuyo ndi wamtengo wapatali), kapena mungapereke nthawi zaka zingapo. Pamene munthu wamwano akuoneka kuti akusokonezeka, nenani, "Bill ndi ine tinaganiza kuti tidikira zaka zingapo tisanayambe banja." Ndipo musabvala chovalacho kachiwiri kapena kuwonjezera lamba ngati simukufuna kufunsa funso lomwelo kachiwiri.
06 cha 07
Kodi mumakonza liti kuyamba banja?
Lumi Zithunzi / Hudolin-Kurtagic / Getty Images Ambiri okwatirana amafunsidwa funso ili. Ngati mnzanu wapamtima kapena wachibale akufunsani, mungathe kupereka yankho loona mtima. Komabe, ngati wofunsayo akungokhala wotsimikiza, nenani kuti nthawi yomwe munalonjeza malumbiro anu aukwati, mumadziona kuti ndinu banja. Sakanizani ndikusintha nkhaniyi.
07 a 07
Mafunso ovuta kwambiri
Pewani mafunso opanda pake kapena osasangalatsa ndi anzanu ndi anzanu akuntchito. Andresr / Getty Images Pali mafunso ambirimbiri amwano - ndi anthu omwe amawafunsa - kuti muthe tsiku lonse mukuganiza za mayankho ndi zikhomo. Mmalo mowononga nthawi yanu yamtengo wapatali, khalani ndi mayankho angapo omwe amagwira ntchito zosiyanasiyana.
Nazi zitsanzo za momwe mungayankhire:
- "N'chifukwa chiyani mungafunse funso lopanda pake?"
- "Ndili ndi ndondomeko yoti ndisakambirane nkhaniyi ndi aliyense yemwe sichikukhudza."
- Pumulani, kumwetulira, ndi kuti, "Kodi mwangondifunsa?"
- "Sindinakhudze nkomwe nkhaniyi. Tiyeni tiyankhule za chinthu china.
- "Kodi mukuzindikira kuti funsoli ndi lopanda pake?"
- Tengani tsatanetsatane kuti mupeze malo anu enieni ndikuti, "Sindiyankha funsoli."