Kupeza Mkwati Wanu Ukhala Wofunitsitsa Kuteteza Ukwati Wanu
Banja likufuna kuthandizidwa ndi chikondi cha mderalo, kukuyimbirani pamene mukuchita bwino, ndikukulimbikitsani nthawi zina zovuta. Ndicho chifukwa chake tikuitanira alendo ku ukwati wathu. Ndiye bwanji osaphatikizapo alendo anu monga gawo la mwambo wokha? Nazi miyambo isanu yomwe imapangitsa alendo anu kukhala gawo lofunika la mwambo waukwati:
- Kupanga Mpata Mu mpingo wa Episkopi, izi zimatchedwa Community's Declaration of Consent. Koma anthu amakhulupirira zambiri agwiritsa ntchito mwambo umenewu. Mtumiki kapena abusa akufunsa osonkhanawo, "Kodi nonse inu mukuchitira umboni malonjezo awa mungachite zonse zomwe mungathe kuti muzithandizira izi ndizokwatirana?" Osonkhana, kapena alendo a ukwatiwo amatha kuyankha, "Tidzachita."
Njira Zina: Kodi mpingo ungakonde? Banja likufuna kuthandizidwa ndi dera. Kodi inu, a Jane ndi John ndi abwenzi anu, mumalonjeza kuti mudzawathandiza m'banja lawo, kuwakonda, ndi kulimbikitsana chikondi chawo? (Tikulonjeza). Werengani zambiri zokhuza zowonjezera za Community
- Kudalitsa mphete Ngati muli ndi ukwati wawung'ono, mungapemphe ukwati wanu kuti alandire mabungwe anu apamanja , kapena kuti muwapatse mphamvu ndi chikondi. Apatseni iwo kwa mzere wakutsogolo, ndipo apempheni kuti apitsidwe mozungulira mpaka abwerere kutsogolo. Ndibwino ngati izi zikhoza kuchitika pakati pa nyimbo. Kodi muli ndi alendo oposa 50? Mukhoza kungofunsa ochepa osankha anthu kuti asunge mpheteyo ndi kuwadalitsa, powadutsa kuzungulira chipinda kumatenga nthawi yochulukirapo, ndipo mutha kuwopsa.
- Mwambo wamakandulo Msika wa makandulo ndi njira ina yabwino yokonzera chikondi cha banja lanu ndi abwenzi. Zili ngati mwambo wamakono umodzi, koma m'malo mogwirizanitsa mabanja awiriwo, umagwirizanitsa chipinda chonsecho.
Mlendo aliyense amapatsidwa kandulo yosasintha pamene akulowa mwambo. Pa nthawi yoikidwiratu, wapamwamba kapena mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi amawunikira kandulo ya wina pamzere kutsogolo. Iwo amachotsa motowo kwa munthu yemwe ali pafupi naye, yemwe amupereka kwa munthu wotsatira. Pamene kandulo ya munthu aliyense yatayika, munthu wotsiriza amapereka lamoto kwa mkwati ndi mkwatibwi, omwe amagwiritsa ntchito kuyatsa kandulo.
Ndizosangalatsa kuchita izi musanayambe ulendo, kotero kuti alendo anu sayenera kudandaula za moto wowopsa ndi kupukuta makandulo a sera kwa nthawi yayitali. Pamene akupita usiku, kuwona makandulo onsewo kudzakhala kokongola.
- Kuyimirira ndi Kupatsa Cholinga Wotsogolera ayenera kuwuza anthu kuti padzakhala mphindi khumi zoganizira ndi kuchepa, pamene aliyense amene akukhudzidwa akhoza kudzuka ndi kupereka chokhumba chaukwati wawo, kapena kungowona. Mwambo umenewu unayambira pachikondwerero cha ukwati wa Quaker, koma tsopano wakhala chinthu chokha. Mukhoza kufupikitsa nthawi yomwe yaperekedwa kuntchitoyi, makamaka ngati alendo anu akuoneka ngati amanyazi. Ndikukupemphani kuti muwauze alendo pasadakhale za gawoli la mwambo wawo; Kuchita zimenezi kumathandiza kuti aganizire zomwe akufuna kunena, komanso kuti akhale olimba mtima.
- Kusinthanitsa Mtendere Njira imodzi yosavuta yokhudza alendo ndiyenso mwabwino kwambiri. Chakumapeto kwa mwambowu, mlendo aliyense adzapita kwa oyandikana nawo, nenani hello ndi kugwirana chanza. Anganene kuti "Mtendere ukhale nanu," kapena "Mtendere ndi chikondi." Ngakhale kusinthanitsa mtendere sikupempha mwachindunji thandizo lawo, likuthandiza kupanga chiyanjano ndi kuyanjana kwa anthu. Ndipo pamapeto pake, dera lanu ndilo limene lingakuthandizeni, kwa zaka zambiri.