Makhalidwe Abwino Okwanira

Kodi munayamba mwafunapo kapena mukufuna chinachake chimene simunathe kugula? Kodi munayamba mwakhalapo wina akufunsani kubwereka chinachake kuchokera kwa inu? Ngati munakhalapo muzochitika izi, ndizofunikira kudziwa zinthu zingapo, kapena mukhoza kuika chiopsezo pa ubwenzi wanu kapena kuyanjana ndi munthu wina.

Malamulo kwa Wokongola

Kukhala wobwereka kumakhala ndi udindo waukulu. Simukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito mowolowa manja kwa wina ndikupatsani ngongole chilichonse, ndipo simukufuna kuti chinthucho chikhale chokhazikika pakati panu.

Pano pali njira zina zoyenera kubwerekera:

1. Musalole kubwereka chilichonse chimene simungabwere mwamsanga mukangomaliza.
2. Ngati chirichonse chimene mungabwereke chimatha kapena misonzi, yesani apolog y moona mtima ndikupita kukagula munthu watsopano ngati sungathe kukhazikitsidwa.
3. Musagweretse chinthu china chatsopano. Mwiniyo ayenera kukhala woyamba kugwiritsa ntchito.
4. Munthu akakongoletsa chinachake kuchokera kwa inu, muloleni munthuyo adziŵe kuti mudzafunika liti kachiwiri ndi kuyembekezera kubwezeretsanso nthawiyo.
5. Ngati simulandira nthawi yochuluka, palibe cholakwika ndi kuchipempha, ngakhale simukuyenera kuchita zimenezo.
6. Ndi bwino kunena kuti ayi pamene wina akufunsa kuti abwereke chinachake.
7. Musamabwereke ndalama kwa mnzanu, kapena mungasokoneze ubwenzi wanu . Muli bwino kupita ku kampani yobwereketsa kumene ntchitoyo ili ndi bizinesi yokha.
8. Samalirani kwambiri za kubwereka kwa wantchito mnzanu chifukwa ngati chinachake chikulakwika, mumayika pangozi ntchito yanu.

1. Ngati mupempha kubwereka chinachake, ndipo munthuyo akukutembenuzani, musakhumudwe. Sungani ndalama zanu ndi kugula chinthucho nokha.

Malamulo a Lender

Munthu akafika pafupi ndikufunsani kubwereka chinachake, mumakhala womasuka . Ngati muli ndi chinthu chomwe munthuyo akufuna, koma simukufuna kuchikongoletsa, mungathe kunena kuti ayi.

Komabe, ngati muli bwino ndi kumulola kuti agwiritse ntchito, onetsetsani kuti muli ndi mgwirizano.

Nazi malingaliro a mgwirizano wogulitsa ngongole:

1. Gwiritsani ntchito chinthucho. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, munthu winayo akuyenera kukudziwitsani momwe chinthucho chidzagwiritsire ntchito kotero kuti mudziwe kuti sakuzunzidwa.
2. Khalani ndi nthawi yochuluka yomwe munthu winayo ali nayo chinthu chake. Ngati sichibwezeredwa ndi tsiku ndi nthawi yomwe mwagwirizana, ndizovomerezeka kuti mubwererenso.
3. Ngati mukukongoletsa ndalama kapena chinthu chofunika kwambiri, lembani mgwirizano womwe nonse mukusindikiza.

Mmene Mungapempherere Chidutswa Kumbuyo

Mwina pangakhale nthawi imene mumalola wina kubwereka chinachake, koma amaiwala kapena amakana kubwezera. Izi zingakhale zovuta kwambiri, koma muli ndi ufulu wanu kuti mupemphe. Mukhoza kugwiritsira ntchito mawu onyoza, koma kumbukirani kuti izi zingachititse manyazi wobwereka ndikuwononga ubale wanu.

Nazi njira zina zomwe mungafunire kuti chinthu chokongoletsedwa chibwezeretsedwe:

1. Bwerani pomwepo ndikupempha chinthucho. Ngati munthu wina akukhumudwa, mukhoza kumukumbutsa kuti avomereza kubwezera tsiku lina lomwe lapita kale.
2. Afunseni ngati watha kugwiritsa ntchito chinthucho ndi kunena kuti mungafune kubwezera posachedwa atatha kukufikirani. Izi zatha, kotero inu mungafune kuwonjezera kuti mukufunikira izo tsiku ndi nthawi, ngakhale ngati sanathe.

1. Onetsani mwachidule chinthucho pokambirana . Mutha kunena chinachake monga, "Kumbukirani fanaku ndikukulolani?" Kapena munganene kuti, "Kwatentha kwambiri posachedwa. Kodi ndimabwereka ngati ndimabwereka?"
2. Khalani ndi kuyankhulana mtima ndi mtima ndi wobwereka. Mungathe kunena kuti mudamukhulupirira ndi chinthu (kapena ndalama), ndipo mukufuna kuti mukhulupirire.

Malo Odyera Otsiriza

Pakhoza kukhala nthawi yomwe mumalola wina kubwereka chinachake chimene sichibwezeretsedwa. Muli ndi zisankho zingapo. Mukhoza kulimbikira ndikuyesera kubwezera. Mwinanso mungaganize kutenga bwenzi lanu ku khoti, ndipamene mgwirizanowu wasungidwira. Kapena ngati mutha kusunga chinthucho kapena ndalama, mukhoza kuzilemba ndikuziganizira phunziro lomwe mwaphunzira. Zosankha zonsezi zikhoza kupweteka chiyanjano, ndicho chifukwa chake si bwino kubwereka kapena kukongoletsa kwa munthu amene mukufuna kukhala naye pa ubwenzi.